Hi all! I am wondering how long PPs second pregnancy was compared with the first. I know every pregnancy is different, but DD came at 37w6d and without any complications or reason, so I am thinking this baby will be about the same. Did anyone have their second pregnancy go significantly longer or post-dates? I'm at a little higher risk for early delivery based on my age (42).
I'm trying to figure this out because my boss is highly discouraging me from going out on disability before I actually go into labor. He works in a different building and rarely even comes to our department so doesn't have a very good idea of the workflow here. Conversely, I am the supervisor in my department and have a really good idea of how devastating it would be for me to suddenly be out 2 weeks earlier than expected. (This all may be moot b/c given how exhausted I am chasing DD while only 30 weeks, I'm not so sure I will even be up to working right up until I go into labor.) Thanks for any input you can give me! (OB wasn't so helpful when I asked her.)
Re: Anyone with longer second pregnancy?
DS 37w 3d
DD1 38w 3d
DD2 39w 1d
You really never know! GL
DS1 37.1
DS2 37.3 (after three weeks of in and out of L&D for preterm labor)
#1 - 36 weeks (no complications or reason)
#2 - right on her due date.
I did go out 2 weeks early but that was because I was leaving that job anyway so the length of leave after baby was born didn't matter. I was also worried (like you) about leaving suddenly so it was easier to just go out early.
DD - 35w4d
DS - 39w4d
Married 6/28/03
Kate ~ 7/3/09 *** Connor ~ 11/11/10
4 miscarriages: 2007, 2009, 2013, 2014
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No more TTC for us. We are done, and at peace, as a family of 4.
"Suffering has been stronger than all other teaching, and has taught me to understand what your heart used to be. I have been bent and broken, but – I hope – into a better shape.” — Charles Dickens
DS1: 38w
DS2: 39w5d
Ds #1 39 weeks
Ds#2. 40 weeks 4 days
Ds#3 40 weeks 2 days
Thank you so much for sharing everyone! I think I am just going to go out early regardless. The truth is, it would be better for my employer and my colleagues even if my boss doesn't realize it, I am entitled to take it b/c it is part of my benefits package, and I think my own well-being may depend on it a little. I really appreciate all your input. Take care!
me!
DD: 40w2d
DS: 40w4d
#1 38w, 4d (10 days early)
#2 39w, 5d (2 days early)
Was convinced I'd go much earlier the second time and it didn't happen!!