I wish this was the kinda board that we could make threads "sticky" for things like this.
Dear FTM: I know Dreft is marketed toward babies, but please just step away. It is nothing but perfume and crap. It costs 2-3 times what most Free and Clear detergents cost and any of the F&C stuff is much more gentle than Dreft.
What's worse than paying $12 for detergent that you find out your LO is allergic/sensitive to? Having pre-washed all of her clothes and linen in Dreft, being super sleep deprived and crazy in the early months, and having to re-wash *everything* in a safer detergent to get the Dreft ick away.
(no, that didn't happen to me, but it very well could have. DH decided to be helpful and buy Dreft [and throw out the receipt]. Luckily teh internets had already taught me better so I donated that shiz and washed DS's stuff in something safer.)
If you are a STM and have used it before and love it, fine, but if you post anything with the dreaded D word in a post, one of us is going to wander along and tell you not to use it. So save our poor swelling fingers and just don't.
Re: PSA: Don't use Dreft
I wouldn't personally use anything with perfumes/scents in it on a baby. You may have no problem doing it, but it just seems risky to me.
ETA: I also think babies smell amazing all on their own and would rather smell them than any fake fragrance from lotion or clothes...
This post makes me really happy.
And sad because my computer doesn't let me post that cute thumbs up icon.
I was researching detergents like crazy and was surprised that "baby detergent" was not very gentle or natural. We're using Tiny Bubbles now and it's been fine for all our clothes and cloth diapers.
I can't stand strongly-scented laundry stuff! I can't imagine using heavily perfumed anything on a baby--ick!
Just for fun--anyone have a detergent that they recommend? I just use whatever free and clear stuff is on sale
but if anyone has a rec, I'd love to hear it!
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I don't get the perfumed baby detergent thing, either.
DH and I already use Tide Free & Gentle for everything, so that's what we're using for LO's clothes, blankets, and bedding.
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We used All F&C already, so that is what we continued using with DS.
We just started making our own detergent (yep. I'm that crunchy) which works well for all of us, but since the recipe I used calls for Fels Naptha which does have some perfumes in it, I'm going to buy a small container of F&C stuff to pre-wash all of DD's stuff. We washed DS's clothes seperately for the first few weeks or so, so we'll probably do that with DD as well with the F&C stuff and then see how she reacts to what we use.
Once I'm finished with the Fels Naptha detergent I have now, I plan to switch to plan liquid castile soap. It will be less work when making my detergent and no perfumes!
I also use free and clear (All at the moment, but usually whatever is on sale) detergent for all of our clothes. I actually find the smell of Dreft a bit nauseating-- I'd get overwhelming whiffs of it going through hand me down clothes and it took me a while to figure out what I was smelling (these clothes had been stored for 12+ months!).
I wasn't even aware it had a scent till you guys said something about it when I asked about washing the panels for my blanket. I have really sensitve skin and it would have been wonderful getting a rash every time I held my baby because i would be allergic to her clothes.
So glad you ladies told me though cause that is all everyone kees telling me to use.
I was going to start making my own as well...but we just started using a giant new one from Costco, so Itl be a while before we need more. I am all for saving money and being crafty, especially since we're going to try and make it wok for me to be a SAHM.
Me too
but I'm also too lazy to separate the kids clothes so LO's stuff is getting washed with DD and DS. 
Ohmigosh, thanks!
Word. Kirkland brand HE detergent here.
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We are currently using this recipe:
https://www.thefamilyhomestead.com/laundrysoap.htm
but next time we need to buy the soap portion, we'll buy liquid castile soap instead. TBH I haven't had any complaints out of the Fels Naptha one, though.
For CDs, I mix 1c Borax, 1c Washing Soda, and 1/2c Baby Oxy Clean. I used the powder dry, but added vinegar to the rinse as needed if they were smelling ammonia-y.