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Memorial for Karenannmark & Sean

Hi ladies,  I know we all feel absolutely horrible about Sean's passing and some of us are wondering what we can do for karenannmark to show her we are thinking about her, her husband and her boy.  Unfortunately, I have been a regular on PGAL over the past few months.  When one of the ladies there suffers a loss someone often organizes a memorial for the angel baby.  Here's what I thought we could do.

Saturday Morning, I will start a thread titled Memorial for Sean.  Anyone and everyone should feel free to respond to that post with messages of condolence, encouragement, prayers, bible verses, PIP of candles lit in Sean's memory, etc.  I don't know if Karen is lurking as she grieves her precious Sean, but if she is, I hope this will bring her some comfort.

If any of you have a closer relationship with her and know how to reach her IRL, then please send me a PM.  I have another idea of something we can do for Karenannmark, but need to speak to someone who knows her a bit better in order to make it happen.

((HUGS)) to all of you.

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  • what do you think about cross posting this?  I know she used to post on the ttc>35 board. oh and I htink this is a beautiful idea, I am haunted everyday by her post.
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  • imagejessandandy09:
    what do you think about cross posting this?  I know she used to post on the ttc>35 board. oh and I htink this is a beautiful idea, I am haunted everyday by her post.

    will do.  Great idea!

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  • benoit - please do cross-post this one on TTC>35 - there are still a few of us old-timers over there who will want to participate. Thank you.
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  • Thanks for organizing this.
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  • Thanks for organizing Benoit!  I cannot think of anyone who has her contact info unfortunately.  Hopefully she will lurk on Saturday.  I cannot stop thinking about her loss and how it is just never safe. Horrible.

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    Thanks for organizing Benoit!  I cannot think of anyone who has her contact info unfortunately.  Hopefully she will lurk on Saturday.  I cannot stop thinking about her loss and how it is just never safe. Horrible.

    no problem for organizing.  Not a big deal really and I felt we needed to do something.  Even if she doesn't lurk and see the post on Saturday, I may pm her the link, so she can read everyones posts at some point in the future when she is ready to bump again.  Beside all the love and positive vibes are bound to reach her somehow.

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  • What a very beautiful idea.  I will be here on Saturday, and I will continue to pray for Karen, her husband, and her angel, Sean.

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  • Thank you for doing this.  Thinking of you everyday, Karen.
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  • benoitfan great idea.  I have been trying to figure out a way to get in touch we used to do a lot of PIP's when we were bored on TTC>35 I know she was close with Rach2100 but I don't know if Rach has her contact info.  I know Rach posts on the Adoption board and on Parenting>35 but she posts sporadically now that she has her LO.  Please PM if there is anything you need help with.  Karen is an awesome lady who would always offer words of encouragement to me just when I needed it.

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  • Oh no. I was just driving by here - I'm an old timer from TTC>35  - and I knew her then...oh no. She is such a sweet person. I'm just so sad for them.
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    I am just learning of this terrible loss. This memorial is a wonderful idea, thank you.
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  • That is lovely. I will be out of town beginning Friday but I'll be sure to post when I return. I am heartbroken for her.
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  • No....oh no! this is not what I was lurking for...I was hoping to see that Karen was bringing home her baby boy....I'm so beyond sad and crying right now. 

     I don't have her contact info....but wish I did....cannot imagine how devastated and/or numb they must be feeling now.

    Please, please let me know if there is anything I can do to help out. Karen is a wonderful person....

    send me a PM and I can then give you my person email to help out.

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  • I'm in. After nearly a year on this board, I feel as though I know y'all IRL. I talk to you ladies more than most of my friends. I was deeply saddened to hear of the news, and think of her often.  
  • That's a very sweet idea.  I'd like to join too.  Thank you for thinking of it.

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