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Alright, so I have been tossing an idea in my head over and over, for the past few weeks, since we came up with a beautiful name for our new daughter.  We went through books and the intenet like crazy, and as soon as I said Cheyenne, my husband said thats a great name, and he loved it, and I do too.  We wrote down a few names that we liked along the way, and he loved the name Peyton for a middle name and it kind of stuck.  The only problem is that I think it would be beautiful, and I really want to give her Savannah's middle name, which was Rose, as an honor and rememberance of her sister.  Although my husband and I are very open about everything and we talk about everything, I just cant seem to find the right time, or think of the right words to say how I am feeling about her name and that I want to give her Savannah's middle name.  Any thoughts or suggestions on how or wether this is even a good idea ?
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Re: question (rainbow baby mentioned)

  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    Lucas was originally supposed to be Matthew Christopher (After my brother that passed away and Aidan's middle name) or Evan Matthew. MH waited until a week before my rcs to say he didn't like those names and like Lucas Alexander and well that's his name. A friend of mine lost her daughter Jillian and her son is Ian and it's a beautiful tribute to Jilly to have her brother's name that is a part of her name.
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  • mollywobbles13mollywobbles13 member
    If we have another girl she will have Ellie's middle name. Not only is it my middle name but it will be a forever connection with her big sister. I agree with what a PP said, what you said here sounds great. Take what you said here to your H and talk about it very openly. I'm sure he will love the idea.
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  • pottermommypottermommy member

    Just be very open and honest but you have to remember that he has different emotions from you.

    If Gabriel was a girl I desperately wanted to name her Grayson Brooke (Brooke is Kams middle name) or Brooklyn Grace.  And I wanted to call her Gracie.

    He begged me not to, that he wanted to look at this baby and see a fresh life, a new happiness and he was afraid everytime the baby got in trouble and he said the whole name that he would be reminded of the sorrow we feel with Kamryn.

    I agreed and her name was changed to Gabriella Grace ( We had already picked Gabriel Michael)

    But we have a Gabriel so it did not matter but it was good to understand why he felt the way he did.

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