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My C-Section Story :(

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Here is my C-Section Story!! I'm sorry if it is kinda long

My whole pregnancy with my daughter had a few prob. Her due date was June 3rd, and altho NO one thought I would make it that far. June 3rd came & went =( By this time I was so ready for my daughter to get here. ( As I'm sure most mothers are)

I went to the doc the 3th, & choose to induce me on the 4th. I went in at 6:30 A.M, they got started at 7:00 A.M. But sadly, Nothing happy so they sent me home at 7:00 P.M

I was in labor from the 4th up until the 6th =( Around 12:00 A.M on the 6th, I started having contractions that was 3 min apart =) After getting to the hospital, they started having a heard time finding my daughters heart beat. & when they did find it, they would lose it with ever contraction I had =(

They then put a inner heart beat on to the top of her head. They found out that her heart beat was dropping fast and low with ever contraction I had!! (It went from being 175 to 97) that went on 3 times before I was told I was having a C-Section. I was so messed up from the meds, I don't remember my daughter being born =(

I'm pregnant with my 2ed child and is having a planed C-Section 

 

 

 

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  • darrahmccalldarrahmccall
    dont be too upset. i had a similar experience. and my son is now 7 months old. i still hardly remember him being placed in my arms due to all the drugs. it was not a very good experience at all. but as time goes by, i care less and less about how it went and just adore and couldnt imagine my life with out my son. now i dont care how he was born. but it upset me for a while. so you are pregnant again? and your baby is 1 month? no judgment here just curious. im surprised your body let that happen. we havnt been using any protection and nothing. :)
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  • kris2131kris2131 member

    Agree with pp. I started feeling a ton of pain a few minutes after they started mine, that they put me out. So I wasn't even awake when my son came out. And I didn't get to meet him until the next day because he was sent to the NICU because it was a traumatic birth and was there during my whole stay, plus one day. And I didn't get to hold him until he was 3 days old. Sure, I miss not having pictures of him being born and the first family picture after he was cleaned up, but the fact that he survived the birth (barely) makes me grateful.

    You can be upset, but don't focus on it. Focus on the good stuff and know that your next c-section will be a better experience because it will be scheduled and calmer.

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  • Temp6313048411121614Temp6313048411121614 member
    I'm sorry, that really sucks.  Thankfully you found out about her heartrate when you did.  I'm sure your planned c/s will be so much better.  GL.
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  • skioskio member

    Holy balls. What the hell were you doing having sex 2-3w post-surgery? Did your doctor fail to tell you that you're not supposed to have sex for 6 weeks? Or did you choose to not listen to the advice and went ahead and did it anyway? I have a feeling it's the latter and I'm looking forward to the answer I'm going to get here. 

    In case this is not MUD, I truly hope you have a healthy pregnancy, for your and your baby's sake. Being pregnant so soon is pretty effing dangerous. GL. 

    And I'll just ditto the above posters regarding your surgery experience. For a lot o women, ending in surgery is unexpected and full of unpleasant, blurry memories. I'm sorry your experience was bad. You'll get through it.  

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  • rosesandpeoniesrosesandpeonies member

    I am sorry that you had an upsetting experience the first time around.  I will say that my second section went easier.

    I will also say that I don't really remember meeting my girls either.  Yes there are pictures, but the medicine really keeps me from really remember.  It is what it is.  You have to be safe and your child has to be safe.

    I know many struggle with that.  I wish for a happy healthy delivery and the experience that you are looking for :)

     

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  • KatFish2011KatFish2011 member
    Don't be sad.  I hardly remember DS being born.  I had an emergency c-section because his heart rate was dropping and he was not positioned right (shoulders in the canal).  The only thing I remember is not hearing DS cry.  He did not breath for 2 minutes after he was born.  Not hearing him cry freaked me out so I asked DH how DS is doing and he said alright until he turned around and they were breathing for him.  DS ended up in the NICU for 5 days so just think your LO is healthy now.  I wouldn't change a thing on how DS was born.  Still to this day it scares me and I cry because we could have lost him but with the great doctors and my OB/GYN he is alive and healthier than ever.  Thank GOD for a miracle because we could have lost him.  Thank GOD for a quick action of my doctor, her other doctor, 3 nurses and a OR assistant.  It took over 54 minutes to deliver him and over 1 hour to stitch me up.
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  • CMDR513CMDR513 member
    Her current due date is 1/20/13- which means she would've conceived beginning of May. So this definitely does not add up unless she's referring to last June. 
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  • kris2131kris2131 member

    imageKatFish2011:
    Don't be sad.  I hardly remember DS being born.  I had an emergency c-section because his heart rate was dropping and he was not positioned right (shoulders in the canal).  The only thing I remember is not hearing DS cry.  He did not breath for 2 minutes after he was born.  Not hearing him cry freaked me out so I asked DH how DS is doing and he said alright until he turned around and they were breathing for him.  DS ended up in the NICU for 5 days so just think your LO is healthy now.  I wouldn't change a thing on how DS was born.  Still to this day it scares me and I cry because we could have lost him but with the great doctors and my OB/GYN he is alive and healthier than ever.  Thank GOD for a miracle because we could have lost him.  Thank GOD for a quick action of my doctor, her other doctor, 3 nurses and a OR assistant.  It took over 54 minutes to deliver him and over 1 hour to stitch me up.

    Same thing happened for me, except his head was stuck in the canal. And he coded for 30 seconds, not 2 minutes. But he was in the NICU for 5 days as well. I have no idea how long it took to stitch me up because I was out and DH was kicked out as soon as they knocked me out. I also can't even think about what could have happened...

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  • KatFish2011KatFish2011 member
    Nice to know that my LO was not the only one that had to go to the NICU.  At least they are both fine.  In a way, I kinda wish they would have knocked me out but I was heavily medicated in and out of consciousness.  They tried to throw DH out after he followed them to the NICU but he forced his way back in because he was worried about me.  What a loving hubby. But like PPL say what matters now is that our LO's are health and happy.  It doesn't matter how they were born what matters is that they were born.  :)
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