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A different MIL post..

It's been a really crappy day and I wasn't going to post anything but I kinda just needed to vent.

MIL has been having all sorts of health issues since she went to the ER with pain a few months ago. She has liver, kidney, heart, and ovarian problems all the same time. To make it worse, she has been going to different docs at least once a week since then with no definitive answers on anything. Well, she got news today that they are pretty sure she has ovarian cancer- they said that because of her age and the fluid there, they are about 99% sure. They want to operate ASAP to be sure and they won't be able to do it laproscopically so she is looking at highly invasive surgery. She has to get approval from the other docs before she can have the surgery done.

I lost my mom when I was 7.... and I firmly believe no one could ever come close to replacing her. But I am very close to my mother in law and of course DH is upset as well. I don't necessarily pray, but whatever your stance on religion I would appreciate T &/or P

Thanks for listening

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  • I am so sorry your MIL got that news today. I will keep my FX that surgery goes good for her and she has a very speedy recovery. She will be in my T&Ps.
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  • I'm so sorry, you are all in my T&Ps.

    Please keep us updated as to how it all goes.

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  • Thanks ladies... even though I may be slightly crazy on here sometimes, it's nice to still have support
  • imagemama&baby:
    Thanks ladies... even though I may be slightly crazy on here sometimes, it's nice to still have support

    We're only bishes when you act like an a$$hat. Glad to see you're not always that way  Wink

    Like PP said, please do update us on how the surgery goes. ((hugs))

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    imagemama&baby:
    Thanks ladies... even though I may be slightly crazy on here sometimes, it's nice to still have support

    We're only bishes when you act like an a$$hat. Glad to see you're not always that way  Wink

    Like PP said, please do update us on how the surgery goes. ((hugs))

    :-) You just made me snort... DH was walking down the stairs and just gave me the biggest WTF look ever

  • Thoughts and prayers here. I know how brutal that can be on the family, so my thoughts are with you and your strength through this as well.
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  • T&P's for your MIL, you and your family during this difficult time.

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  • T&p's, I sincerely hope all goes well and she is on the road to recovery soon!
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  • I don't really pray either, but I'm sending good thoughts your way. I too am very close with my MIL; she got very sick with an infection last year and was hospitalized for a week. Scared the crap out of me and my fiance. So I somewhat know how you feel. Keep your head up!
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  • so sorry to hear this! T&P to you all!!
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  • I'm so sorry your MIL is going through this. Thoughts and prayers coming your ways!
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  • I'm so sorry your family is going through this right now. I've been through breast cancer w/both my mom and my MIL, so I understand a little of what you're going through. So-- all good thoughts here headed to you guys! Hang in there! ((hug))
  • So sorry, I'm sending all my T&P's to you and your family. I hope everything works out for your MIL.
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  • I'm so sorry. Sending T&P's your way! 
  • Keeping your MIL in my thoughts, take care of yourself and DH!
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  • I'm so sorry, mama. T&P coming your way that you all get definitive answers about the next steps soon. ::hugs::
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  • HUGS and well wishes being sent your way for her!
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  You and your family are in my prayers!
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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your MIL, she...as well as the rest of the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. And I understand you don't necessarily pray, but there's no better time to start than now. Try it, it may bring you some measure of peace and strength as you try to be strong for DH and MIL.

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  • Sending T&P's for your MIL.
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  • I'll definitely be keeping your MIL and family in my thoughts. FX that the surgery goes well and she recovers quickly!
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  • I don't pray either but I will send positive thoughts your way, and I'm always here if you need to vent. <3
  • My thoughts are with your MIL and your whole family. I hope surgery goes well and that she is on the road to recovery soon.
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  • I'm so sorry. I will keep you, your DH and your MIL in my prayers.
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  • Thoughts and prayers for your MIL, you and your family.
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