"Your cervix is like a brick wall."

aah1013 · July 2012

Yep... my cervix is like a brick wall according to my doctor. I have made no progress in a whole month. I am still 50% and thought I was 1cm, but the doctor said that was generous. He said there is a chance that induction could work, but my chances of a c-section are higher than average.

I'm pretty upset about it and wanted nothing more than a vaginal birth. My husband has a prosthetic leg, so it will be very difficult for him to get up at night with the baby. A lot of the night time stuff will lie on my shoulders since it takes him time to put on his leg (like 3-5 minutes... I could scoop up the baby way faster than this). I figured that it would be much easier getting around without an abdominal incision especially being the primary caregiver. I guess I don't have much choice in the matter and will eventually come to terms with it.

Anyone have any promising stories about recovering from a c-section? Is it that hard getting up at night out of bed? Anyone have successful stories of induction when you went in without hardly any changes to start? I'd appreciate it. I'm hoping to get back in the right mindset. TIA

bookworm982 · July 2012

I don't have any helpful advice since I'm a FTM. However, I am wondering how late your doctor will let you go. Some will go to 41 weeks, and some will go to 42 weeks. A lot can change in a week or two.

I don't know if you are willing to try it, but I've heard evening primrose oil is great for softening the cervix. I haven't needed to try it, but it might be worth looking into to help get your body ready. I'm sorry you are in this situation.

SarainBuffalo · July 2012

I had an easy recovery from my scheduled c-section with DD (breech). Getting in and out of bed by the time I got home from the hospital was not that difficult and I never even filled the prescription for painkillers they sent me home with. I had a more difficult time recovering because I felt so good that I overdid it and developed a complication with my incision that while a huge inconvenience to take care of, still didn't cause me pain. If you do end up in a lot of pain, how about setting up a bassinet or pack n play on DH's side of the bed so he can just lean over and scoop her up?

haleyjean84 · July 2012

Last time around, I was told I had a very stubborn cervix. When I was induced, I went in not dilated at all. Although it took around 36 hours, the induction was successful for me, so hold on to hope that it can work! I was at the hospital for almost 24 before I actually started dilating, then things progressed pretty quickly. Best of luck to you.

OUKatie · July 2012

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine your frustration at this point since you are full term and have some extenuating circumstances.

Do you have an Arm's Reach Co Sleeper? That might help you minimize how much you have to actually get up out of bed to change and feed the baby. I don't have one so I don't know for sure that it would help but I'm sure someone else can chime in and give some input or ideas.

doggie mama · July 2012

I am facing a c/s due to a breech baby and there were a couple of posts yesterday here and on 3rd tri about c/s success stories, especially with regards to recovery.

I hope this isn't an insensitive question, but is there any way that your DH can sleep with his leg on for the short term? Since you won't be getting much sleep anyway those first few weeks?

The other thought i had was the cosleeper as well.

aah1013 · July 2012

Thank you ladies. I really appreciate you all trying to help me out. I do have a rock n play to go next to the bed, but the co-sleeper is too big to fit. I know it will all work out, it's just really scary to think about. I can only hope for the best. And who knows, maybe I will go into labor before Monday!

DeniseRN · July 2012

With DS1, I was nearly 42 weeks and 10% and fingertip. Went in and had a successful vaginal delivery with Cervadil and Pitocin. I did have to get an epi to deal with the pain...but no csection! There is hope

APendola · July 2012

I'm a first time mom, but I know several women who have had a c-section. It tends to be a little easier if it's scheduled. Also, most women find that by the time the hospital releases them - they can do a lot of every day things like light walking, running errands. Getting out of bed should be alright - you might just move a little slower. Also, you will likely get a 2-week driving restriction.

Is there a family member that could come stay with you for a few nights if you need it? That might help you feel more comfortable.

tomkat35728 · July 2012

I have had 2 c-sections. I labored for 36 hours prior to my first and for 9 hours with my second in an attempt for a VBAC. The first time, I felt pretty good after about 5 days. This time aeound, it took about a week.

One good thing is that newborns sleep a ton. By the time you start running into issues with sleep and night wakings, you'll probably be feeling much better. I also agree with the PP about the ARCS - they have a mini version for smaller spaces...have you seen that? Hope that helps!

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