So much for positive thinking..NTTCR/rant

Re: So much for positive thinking..NTTCR/rant

• weansworld09 member

  July 2012

  I'm not sure if you mentioned this before, but would it be possible to place your house up for rent for another year?  I'm so sorry you are going through all of this stress.  Finances can be extremely stressful on a couple.  Try to make the most out of your 3 year anniversary.  You two sound like you've gone through a lot of tough situations this past year.  Look back on all the support and strength you've given each other.  

  I hope you have a happy anniversary tomorrow!   

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• JonBon18

  July 2012

  Hi, I'm really sorry you and your husband are going through all this. Things will get better, I wish I had some advice to give you or something...

  And about your anniversary, remember it's a celebration or your love and the promise you both made to spend all your life together, and that even if things are hard right now, you still have each other. Happy anniversary  

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• SummerBabyLove member

  July 2012

  DH and I are going through something similar.  We have been trying to sell our townhouse for almost 2 years and we haven't even received a crappy offer.  We are also selling it for less than what we owe on the mortgage so we are limited in how much we can lower the price.  We have thought about trying to rent it so we can buy a single family house.  We have a DD in daycare now which is so expensive so I worry that if the renters fall through, we would be stuck trying to pay 2 mortgages and a child in daycare.  We have also started TTC #2.  At this point, I feel like we are going to be stuck in our small 2 bedroom townhouse forever.  GL to you and I hope everything works out.

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• StarBe member

  July 2012

  Lurker/first time poster, hope you dont if I give my 2 cents.

   My SIL was in a similar position recently and after a lot of research she found a mortgage company that worked with her to refinance her house. Have you thought about trying to refinance? SIL had to do another 30 fixed but it reduced her monthly payment by $800. Obviously every situation is different but it may be worth looking into! GL!

  

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• Stellarpuppy member

  July 2012

  Thanks for the advice ladies.  My mom called me to see how my vaca was and I immediately fell apart and we talked for a bit to help ease things.  

   

  Here's some more info about our situation.  We bought the house 2 years ago and are currently selling at a loss (about $11000 at this price)  We do have renters in there right now.  It is only a six month thing that will be ending in august.  Luckily they were paying almost $1000 extra a month since it was a 10 day move in, fully furnished, with a dog and a few other extras.  The down side was we had to buy brand new furniture for the new apartment (tv, stand, couches, mattress, bedroom set, and extra things for the kitchen we had to leave at the house)  The problem is we have no idea if anyone else is interested in renting it yet.  I emailed the realtor yesterday and called today (I almost lost it on the voicemail!) and hopefully there's good news but the basically double mortgage when you have mortgage and rent is so scary!

  We also can't buy a house until we sell our current house which is why we just want to be DONE with it.  It originally was the house we were going to spend our entire lives in and now is the source of so much pain, frustration, and stress.  I'm just hoping the realtor calls today and has at least one bit of good news.  I think I'll fall apart on the phone if he has nothing good to say.

   

  Again thank you for the support!  Where I am right now I am at least a hour away from any family or friends so I can't really go to someone to cry on their shoulders.  I think for tomorrow DH and I will just have a really nice meal at home and make plans to go see The Dark Knight Rises on opening night or something.  Or maybe matinee the next day :P 

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• tcfreedom

  July 2012

  I'm so sorry. This sounds really stressful. Hang in there. 

  Lucky Mom to 5 girls: 09/97, 06/99, 10/02, 11/04, 04/08 & Peanut #6 due in April!

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