TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Anniversay of loss this month

So July came way too fast.  On July 30th it will be exactly a year since we lost Gabriella at 29 weeks.  We are going to celebrate her birthday and try and make it a positive day, but I feel very emotional with the date approaching.

 We have been ttc since Sept 2011 and starting clomid (2x50mg) last month, and this month at 3x50mg.  All tests show that I am completely healthy, no issues, DH sperm count was on the low end of normal but not a concern. I am currently on day 17 and O'd on day 15.  I am praying that we get some good news this month.  Its time for some happiness.

Anyone else doing clomid right now or starting iui?  I developed a cyst this cycle from the clomid but if it goes away with AF, we want to start IUI next month.......if im not pregnant that is....

BFP Feb 4 2011 EDD Oct 16 2011 ~~~ No HB at 28w4d Gabriella Rhiann born sleeping July 30 2011 TTC (again) since Sept 13 2011 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

Re: Anniversay of loss this month

  • Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    BFP Feb 4 2011 EDD Oct 16 2011 ~~~ No HB at 28w4d Gabriella Rhiann born sleeping July 30 2011 TTC (again) since Sept 13 2011 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • So sorry for your loss! As for the other two people who just commented,

    She came on here for SUPPORT!!!!! Who the hell are you to be telling someone where to post concerns and feelings????

    And she said she has been trying for OVER 6 months!!!

    You guys just look like ignorant cows tryin to look cool, when we all know your

    Miserable!!! This website is for SUPPORT not judgement and

    Women like you. 

    Your time will come Darcibrent! Sorry for your loss and sorry you have to deal 

    With the anniversary coming up  ... Oh and sorry for the LACK of support you just got from those losers. 

    BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peace.  

  • imageTTCaANGEL:

    So sorry for your loss! As for the other two people who just commented,

    She came on here for SUPPORT!!!!! Who the hell are you to be telling someone where to post concerns and feelings????

    And she said she has been trying for OVER 6 months!!!

    You guys just look like ignorant cows tryin to look cool, when we all know your

    Miserable!!! This website is for SUPPORT not judgement and

    Women like you. 

    Your time will come Darcibrent! Sorry for your loss and sorry you have to deal 

    With the anniversary coming up  ... Oh and sorry for the LACK of support you just got from those losers. 

    BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peace.  

    Hmm  And who are you?

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    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • imageDarciBrent:

    Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    I'm very sorry for your loss. 

    Actually, her comment was VERY relavent to your post.  You must have skimmed over the part where she kindly C&P'd the board description.  We're aware that you've been TTCAL for 6+ months, but this board is not only for TTCAL 6+ months but also for those who have been active for at least 6+ months on the main board, TTCAL.  

    There are no post prerequisites for when you're 'welcome' to post on 6+, but I am going to be completely honest here, there's no way you've been actively supporting on the main TTCAL board for 6+ months when you only have 19 posts.  This board is full of women who know each other well and who have been TTCAL together, for a long time now.


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  • NONE OF YOUR BUISSNESS!!!!!!! Who are YOU!?!?! Actually don't answer that, no one cares. 
  • imagebuckeyebaby814:
    imageDarciBrent:

    Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    I'm very sorry for your loss. 

    Actually, her comment was VERY relavent to your post.  You must have skimmed over the part where she kindly C&P'd the board description.  We're aware that you've been TTCAL for 6+ months, but this board is not only for TTCAL 6+ months but also for those who have been active for at least 6+ months on the main board, TTCAL.  

    There are no post prerequisites for when you're 'welcome' to post on 6+, but I am going to be completely honest here, there's no way you've been actively supporting on the main TTCAL board for 6+ months when you only have 19 posts.  This post is full of women who know each other well and who have been TTCAL together, for a long time now.

    All of this.

    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • imageTTCaANGEL:

    So sorry for your loss! As for the other two people who just commented,

    She came on here for SUPPORT!!!!! Who the hell are you to be telling someone where to post concerns and feelings????

    And she said she has been trying for OVER 6 months!!!

    You guys just look like ignorant cows tryin to look cool, when we all know your

    Miserable!!! This website is for SUPPORT not judgement and

    Women like you. 

    Your time will come Darcibrent! Sorry for your loss and sorry you have to deal 

    With the anniversary coming up  ... Oh and sorry for the LACK of support you just got from those losers. 

    BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peace.  

    Ignorant cows?  And who are you?  How about I thank YOU for all the support you've given us?  Oh yeaaaaaaaa.  You haven't.

     


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  • imageTTCaANGEL:
    NONE OF YOUR BUISSNESS!!!!!!! Who are YOU!?!?! Actually don't answer that, no one cares. 

    LOL

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  • imageTTCaANGEL:

    So sorry for your loss! As for the other two people who just commented,

    She came on here for SUPPORT!!!!! Who the hell are you to be telling someone where to post concerns and feelings????

    And she said she has been trying for OVER 6 months!!!

    You guys just look like ignorant cows tryin to look cool, when we all know your

    Miserable!!! This website is for SUPPORT not judgement and

    Women like you. 

    Your time will come Darcibrent! Sorry for your loss and sorry you have to deal 

    With the anniversary coming up  ... Oh and sorry for the LACK of support you just got from those losers. 

    BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peace.  

    Wait. What?!

    You can't be serious. You're mad that a few people politely told her the purpose of the board and that they weren't supportive but you thought name calling WAS supportive? 

    Buh-bye. 


    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • I dont give negative women support. As for "wickedsugar" ... STFU!!!!!!

    Im done listening to all your bullshit on here, i have a life which is far better than yours im sure, so have a nice life and when your looking for support i hope you get nailed with negativity, rudeness, and just bossy people who think they have some authority on some lame website......thats YOU btw.

    DarciBrent, dont let these rude losers get you down!

    HUGS! 

  • imageTTCaANGEL:

    I dont give negative women support. As for "wickedsugar" ... STFU!!!!!!

    Im done listening to all your bullshit on here, i have a life which is far better than yours im sure, so have a nice life and when your looking for support i hope you get nailed with negativity, rudeness, and just bossy people who think they have some authority on some lame website......thats YOU btw.

    DarciBrent, dont let these rude losers get you down!

    HUGS! 

    Well alrighty then. You sound like a really happy person! Why are you still here if you don't like us? We're so mean!


    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • delinodelino member
    I always find it humorous when someone calls us mean by being so ridiculously mean and cruel to us. Why do you think it's ok to be so mean? What do you think your cruel words will accomplish?
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  • imagejenek0213:

    UHHHHH....

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    THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!  I really though the goats/trolls and such were staying on TTCAL.  I thought we were safe here.  This is nothing more than OP having an AE?  Anyone else agree?  EFF you guys, GTFO FO REAL! 

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    imagejenek0213:

    UHHHHH....

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    THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!  I really though the goats/trolls and such were staying on TTCAL.  I thought we were safe here.  This is nothing more than OP having an AE?  Anyone else agree?  EFF you guys, GTFO FO REAL! 

    You read my mind.. I totally thought that these two were the same person when I was reading this..  

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  • imagevinceandang:
    imageDarciBrent:

    Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    Darci-you have 19 posts. There's no way you have been an active member of ttcal for 6 months. Again, I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter, but the main board is a much more appropriate place where you will receive lots of support. This board is a much smaller tight-knit group. 

    She posted like three times back in September and then responded to a couple of her own threads. I did notice though that her "supporter" responded to her posts back then too. Maybe she has a stalker?

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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • imagejenn0021:
    imagevinceandang:
    imageDarciBrent:

    Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    Darci-you have 19 posts. There's no way you have been an active member of ttcal for 6 months. Again, I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter, but the main board is a much more appropriate place where you will receive lots of support. This board is a much smaller tight-knit group. 

    She posted like three times back in September and then responded to a couple of her own threads. I did notice though that her "supporter" responded to her posts back then too. Maybe she has a stalker?

    That's just weird.  


    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • imageLaurakat81:
    imagejenn0021:
    imagevinceandang:
    imageDarciBrent:

    Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    Darci-you have 19 posts. There's no way you have been an active member of ttcal for 6 months. Again, I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter, but the main board is a much more appropriate place where you will receive lots of support. This board is a much smaller tight-knit group. 

    She posted like three times back in September and then responded to a couple of her own threads. I did notice though that her "supporter" responded to her posts back then too. Maybe she has a stalker?

    That's just weird.  

    Wow! Very strange... it could also be a friend IRL that she cried to. "Waaaaaaa!! The ladies on 6+ are being mean to me! Go beat them up for me!"  


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  • imageCashewsMommy:
    imageLaurakat81:
    imagejenn0021:
    imagevinceandang:
    imageDarciBrent:

    Ummmm, Not sure if you noticed when I said that I have been TTC since Sept 2011 and thats why I came to the TTCAL 6+ months.

     I had been on the TTCAL board for a while and now that I've been trying to almost 10months I am on this board.

    Your comment was very irrelivant to my post.  I am having a hard time with the anniversary of my loss approaching and just wanted some support.

    Darci-you have 19 posts. There's no way you have been an active member of ttcal for 6 months. Again, I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter, but the main board is a much more appropriate place where you will receive lots of support. This board is a much smaller tight-knit group. 

    She posted like three times back in September and then responded to a couple of her own threads. I did notice though that her "supporter" responded to her posts back then too. Maybe she has a stalker?

    That's just weird.  

    Wow! Very strange... it could also be a friend IRL that she cried to. "Waaaaaaa!! The ladies on 6+ are being mean to me! Go beat them up for me!"  

    That's what I was thinking.  

    And a huuuge ::eyeroll:: to the 2 drama queen newbs.  

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