I feel like I may be over paranoid and giving my DD smaller bits than she can handle. I cute grapes in eigths, break up puffs into atleast 2 pieces as well as with nutrios. She has no problem with these pieces. I just want to make sure they're not too big.
So my question is, do you break up puffs/cheerios etc.. ?
Re: size of finger foods
I cut grapes and cherry tomatoes in fourths.
Every thing else I leave in pretty big grabable chunks. It's all personal preference and what you're comfortable with. I have a LO that prefers to be able to grab and gnaw.
I don't break up puffs/cherrios, but I cut grapes in fourths, blueberries in half, banana slices into fourths, etc.
My son eats really fast though, so I do it to slow him down, as well as prevent choking. He isn't into holding big chunks or slices of foods - I think he's too used to the small pieces.
I'm only now starting to give a little bigger bites. I was with you OP. Puffs were broken in half, blueberries cut into 4ths. soft fruits were teeny tiny pieces. I wouldn't give LO anything bigger than his thumb.
Now I'm more comfortable giving him whole puffs and cheerios. Blueberries still cut into 4th, grapes into 8ths... but I'm giving bigger bites now in soft foods closer to the size of my pinkie rather than the baby's thumb.
We just started finger foods. I use puffs as size gauge for most things, DS is really INTO those. He also loves those Mumm Mumm things, which are just pure starch, so I don't give them to him any more, but he loved something to hold onto and naw on. I'm looking for replacement right now (cheese quesadillas were mentioned: brilliant! I might try that tonight) When we went out for Indian food this weekend, I gave him so handsized pieces on nahn to eat (instant joy).
I'd use your daughter's skill level as a guide. I delayed finger foods until DS could comfortably hold and suck on a teething biscuit. As soon as he got that down, I figured his mad nawing skills were up to the challenge
Unless it's round like grapes, blueberries, cherry tomatoes, I let DS have it just as I would have it. Even the tomatoes, if I hand them to him, he will bite in half himself before eating them.
Keep in mind while your LO is eating, gagging is not choking. Baby's gag reflex is a lot further up than ours is and this helps them to learn how to handle food in their mouths. They will gag on stuff, probably frequently (I know DS can at times) but they are fine. Obviously you need to supervise the feeding but don't freak out if you hear her gagging on a piece of food. She's just learning not to show stuff down her throat without chewing it first.