I noticed on your blog that your agency requires/recommends that you read 14 books. I apologize if I missed this already, but would you mind listing the books? Even though we are in the foster parenting world, I figured these books could helpful! TIA!

Re: ***GnomeSweetGnome***
Sure! They have a few more that are for those adopting from foster care, so I've added those at the bottom (the ones in bold!).
Brodzinsky, D., Schechter, M. D., & Henig, R. M. (1992). Being adopted: The lifelong search for self.
Sorosky, A. D., Baran, A., & Pannor, R. (1978). The adoption triangle: The effects of the sealed record on adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive parents.
Silber, K., & Speedlin, P. (1983). Dear Birthmother: Thank you for our baby.
Silber, K., & Dorner, P. M. (1990). Children of open adoption and their families.
Severson, R. W. (1990). A letter to adoptive parents on open adoption.
Melina, L. R. (1986). Raising adopted children: A manual for adoptive parents
Melina, L. R., & Roszia, S. K. (1993). The open adoption experience: A complete guide for adoptive and birth families--from making the decision through the child's growing years.
Johnston, P. I. (1992). Adopting after infertility.
Gilman, L. (1984). The adoption resource book.
Gritter, J. L., & Child Welfare League of America. (2000). Lifegivers: Framing the birthparent experience in open adoption
Gritter, J. L. (1997). The spirit of open adoption.
Gritter, J. L. (1989). Adoption without fear.
Duxbury, M. (2007). Making room in our hearts: Keeping family ties through open adoption.
Dischler, P. A. (2006). Because I loved you: A birthmother's view of open adoption.
Gray, Deborah D. Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience After Neglect and Trauma
Gray, Deborah D. Attaching in Adoption
Keck, Gregory Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-Needs Kids
McCreight, Brenda Pareting Your Adopted Older Child: How to Overcome the Unique Challenges and Raise a Happy and Healthy Child
Purvis, Karyn The Connected Child
after several m/c, DD#1 born 7-7-08, more m/c and failed IVF, started adoption process March 2011, matched Oct 2, 2012, DD#2 born 10-31-12
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after several m/c, DD#1 born 7-7-08, more m/c and failed IVF, started adoption process March 2011, matched Oct 2, 2012, DD#2 born 10-31-12
Hope Wait Pray Adoption Blog