Not sure why I'm so irked. My SIL just had a baby. I'm happy for her. Her oldest is turning 15 next month. She had him when she was fairly young. Unclear if this new baby was planned or not. Anyhow, surprisingly that's not what bothers me (or maybe subconsciously it is). What bothers me is that she "stole" one of my names. Not that one can own any name. But she named her DS my top choice for boys name. She knows that this is one of my top choices because we had discussed this.
Like I said, I'm not sure why it bothers me so much. I can't own a name. I'm not pregnant so it's not like I we were pregnant at the same time and I told her that that was the name I was going to use. Although from our discussion about names I'm sure it was implied. So she does know this was on my list. Is it my hormones or subconscious jealousy/bitterness that I just had a failed FET and this most recent IVF is likely to be a failure too (hpts all came out BFN, beta #1 tomorrow). And I'm just mad that she got pregnant so easily and beat me to it? Ugh!
Re: Hormones making me irrational or just IVF? (vent)
First mini-IVF Sept 2011... Only 1 egg! ... BFN
Switching RE
IVF#2 May 2012 9 eggs and only 2 sperm, WTH!
BFN
Switching RE's within practice
*~God gives his hardest battles to his toughest solders. Unknown.
It's not irrational. I'm pretty sure everyone feels like this about the names they've picked, especially if it's been discussed already with the name thief
one of my good friends is having a baby soon and our group has discussed names multiple times. she's totally taken one I was set on for our future daughter but hey, what are ya gonna do? I'm sure when you finally get your baby it won't matter a bit if every baby in the nursery has the same name
Lap&Dye/Hysterscopy Feb 2012: Endo stage 2
April - June 2012: Femera 5 mg & 3 IUIs = All BFN July/August 2012: IVF #1 = C/P
September/October 2012: IVF #2 BFP! Beta 1= 223 Beta 2 = 480 Beta 3 = 11,440
My beautiful daughter was born June 21, 2013
TTC #2 naturally, no luck
IVF #3 April 2015: BFN
IVF #4 July 2015: BFP! Beta 1 9dp5dt = 409, Beta 2 13dp5dt = 1743
Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
DX: Unexplained IF
Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13
TTC#3
IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
IVF #7 August 2019-....?