We've been trying for so long to get pregnant. Could I already be?

Re: We've been trying for so long to get pregnant. Could I already be?

• jenaw84

  July 2012

  Read the newbie link, now.  Just to help you out in the meantime, this is also in there:

  If you think you are pregnant, take a test. We can?t tell you if you are pregnant or not, only a test can. Don?t ever start a post on TTGP asking us if you are pregnant, this will not go over well.
  https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42877040.aspx

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• Pinkjellybeans1983

  July 2012

  Your test told you there was no hope?? Sheesh, harsh. Mine just say negative.

  If you had a negative test, then your not pregnant. That's usually how those work.

  
  

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• purplepeanut6 member

  July 2012

  jenaw84:

  Read the newbie link, now.  Just to help you out in the meantime, this is also in there:

  If you think you are pregnant, take a test. We can?t tell you if you are pregnant or not, only a test can. Don?t ever start a post on TTGP asking us if you are pregnant, this will not go over well.
  https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42877040.aspx

   

  this!

  

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• CutieBean79 member

  July 2012

  I don't even know where to start.

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• PrimRoseMama member

  July 2012

  You aren't pregnant if the test is negative. Oh my goodness I can see why people get sick of this poop. I will just copy & paste.

   Either you a) missed your fertile window completely. So you aren't really late. b) you might be pregnant & testing too early. 

  
  All you can do is wait. If you get to 60 days without a positive pregnancy test or your period, call your doctor to investigate. 

  
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• brookelynpaisley member

  July 2012

  1. Define "quite some time"

  2. WTF?

  
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• [Deleted User] member

  July 2012

  KaelahKae:

  My husband and I have been working for quite some time to get pregnant. Just when we were starting to lose hope, I skipped my period. I have a very regular period cycle, but in June instead of getting my period, I spotted for 14 days. This dipped for a week than started again for about four days. I took a pregnancy test and it came up negative. The whole month of June I never once got my period. Instead, I had very, very light brown spotting that lasted about two days in the beginning of July. On Monday when I was supposed to begins my new period, I slipped, instead I had one particularly bad case of heartburn, a few headaches, my nipples became sore as did one part of my breasts, and I started having weird cramping in my pelvic region. Almost like a pressure. 

   

  After having a pregnancy test tell me there was no hope, I still think that there must be some reason for this considering I'm healthy, I'm only 22 and I should be able to do this.. Would anybody happen to have to insight for me? Advice? 

  1 and 2 - really, something about this wording just seems off and for some reason makes me suspicious.

  3 - based on what? You really haven't given enough info on this. You said "quite some time" are we talking a few months/cycles or over a year? If its the former, then you may still be able to "do this" it just takes some time and some luck, if the latter then have you been to a doctor to tell you are healthy? 

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• KdgTeacher member

  July 2012

  I'm going to go out on a limb and predict one of two possible outcomes to this post.

  Either 1.) OP won't come back

  or

  2.)  OP will come back, probably after some time-a day maybe, and go with the "ZOMG you b**tches are sooo mean. I came here for advice" wah wah wah

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• KaelahKae

  July 2012

  KdgTeacher:

  I'm going to go out on a limb and predict one of two possible outcomes to this post.

  Either 1.) OP won't come back

  or

  2.)  OP will come back, probably after some time-a day maybe, and go with the "ZOMG you b**tches are sooo mean. I came here for advice" wah wah wah

   

   

   

  First off, that was rude. But I'm sure you guys get that a lot so I understand. I do other communities so I get the troll or 'one time posters'.

  9 did plan to return, but I have a job so I can only check back so often. 

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• KdgTeacher member

  July 2012

  KaelahKae:

  KdgTeacher:

  I'm going to go out on a limb and predict one of two possible outcomes to this post.

  Either 1.) OP won't come back

  or

  2.)  OP will come back, probably after some time-a day maybe, and go with the "ZOMG you b**tches are sooo mean. I came here for advice" wah wah wah

   

   

   

  First off, that was rude. But I'm sure you guys get that a lot so I understand. I do other communities so I get the troll or 'one time posters'.

  9 did plan to return, but I have a job so I can only check back so often. 

  And of course this is the thing you comment on....

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• shellb1978 member

  July 2012

  brookelynpaisley:

  1. Define "quite some time"

  2. WTF?

   

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• PrimRoseMama member

  July 2012

  :::Taps foot:::  We're trying to help you...

  If you have time to get your panties in a twist, you have time to answer our questions. 
  

  
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• SarahMeyer0823 member

  July 2012

  We can't tell you if you are pregnant. If you are concerned, go to your doctor.

  The rule of thumb is if you don't have a period in 60 days, call your doc. You could just be having a few wacky cycles for no reason. Good luck!
  

  
  

   
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• kje120 member

  July 2012

  A lot of what you posted doesn't make sense to me, so I'll just go with -HPT = not pregnant and leave it at that. 

  

  
  

  

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• HenHen25 member

  July 2012

  kestock120:

  A lot of what you posted doesn't make sense to me, so I'll just go with -HPT = not pregnant and leave it at that. 

  This! 

  

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• mama&baby member

  July 2012

  BrazilianPeach:

  Pinkjellybeans1983:

  Your test told you there was no hope?? Sheesh, harsh. Mine just say negative.

  Mine says "Bahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha nope!" 

   

  Kinda like this?

  

  

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  July 2012

  

  

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• CurlyGirly02

  July 2012

  This exact thing happened to me last month. I would suggest charting. I had spotting mid cycle and then didn't ovulate until cd41. My cycles were never usually more then 30 days.

  If I wasn't charting I would've been pretty confused. If you are taking pregnancy tests and they are coming back negative, you are not pregnant. You probably just ovulated later in your cycle. 

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• dmwbqb member

  July 2012

  Pinkjellybeans1983:

  Your test told you there was no hope?? Sheesh, harsh. Mine just say negative.

  If you had a negative test, then your not pregnant. That's usually how those work.

  
  

   

  
  
  
  
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• SandiaPinaMama member

  July 2012

  skio:

  

  Nah, MUD should be entertaining. There is no D here. OP, if you want feedback from these very knowledgeable ladies, you must provide more info! FWIW, I vote with Kestock. Your cycles are wonky. You need to chart.

  
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• deelopi9 member

  July 2012

  I know this can be overwhelming and we are really trying to be supportive. Also, take into consideration most of us on this board have been trying to conceive for a while and get these questions multiple times a day. For the future your best bet would be to chart your temperature or buy ovulation predictor kits to have a better understanding of your body and it's monthly changes.
  

  
  

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