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Hey ladies.....

MandaS08MandaS08 member
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I honestly can't remember if I intro'd here or not, but I'm back on the IF board and would love to be a part of this group.

After a surprise BFP in May, and seeing the h/b twice, we found out 2 weeks ago tommorow that our little bean didn't have a heartbeat anymore.

We had a D&C, and due to a lab error (don't even get me started) they were not able to perform genetic testing-so we don't know what happened.

We're not sure where we go from here-if its IVF (we've now been pregnant 3 times without it), if its trying on our own, donor eggs or embryo adoption. I'm not thinking too deeply about any of these options until we meet with our RE and our second opinion. I need to heal from this loss first.

Hopefully I can help support you all through your journeys!

TTC since 5/2010
DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate 
IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
Surprise BFP - 5/7/12
U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
BFP!   11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13

 

5/31/2013- My miracles arrived at 34w2d!  Welcome to the world Harper and Nolan!Lilypie First Birthday tickers

My Blog- http://waitingonaangel.wordpress.com/

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  • LaLe09LaLe09 member

    I'm really, really sorry for your losses. I had the same thing happen with my D&C. The ONLY reason I did it in the first place was b/c I wanted genetic testing done. And there was some kind of error with the sample and they were not able to run the test.

    Good luck with your upcoming appointments. I hope that you can get some answers as to why you are miscarrying and also a plan to move foward. I know it's hard to decide what to do next. I've been thinking it about it now for 8 months. I think we are going to do another IVF, but we are also seriously starting to look at adoption as well. Such difficult choices to make. Good luck to you! :)


    DH: Severe MFI/Azoo Me: Compound heterozygous MTHFR
    IVF #1= m/c- methotrexate @6w2d
    FET #1= BFN
    IVF #2= m/c- D&C @8w5d
    IVF #3= Beta #1 9dp5dt= 252, Beta #2 11dp5dt= 417, Beta #3 17dp5dt= 4,952
    US #2 @ 7w2d= twins, baby B measuring behind
    US #3 @ 8w5d= Baby A doing well, no HR in baby B
    *S/PAIF always welcome* BabyFetus Ticker
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  • Edwina.McDunnoughEdwina.McDunnough
    Welcome again. I'm so sorry for your recent loss and am more sorry that the testing didn't go through. That's really horrible. Hoping your meetings go well and bring you clarity and a plan to move forward.
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    Welcome!

    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
    My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby

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  • Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member
    Sorry you have to join us. I cannot believe the lab lost your samples. Unexcusable. As if it wasn't bad enough to begin with, right? Hugs.

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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    SAIF/PAIF Welcome


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  • AnasaraAnasara

    Sorry for your losses.  Welcome!

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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Hugs.  So sorry for your loss.  Best of luck whatever path your future holds I hope brings a sticky baby.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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