Parenting after a Loss
BFP#1 1.28.10; HB 6w5d 2.18.10; No HB 3.8.10; Natural m/c 3.9.10 at 9w3d
BFP#2 - 7.22.10 DD born 3.16.11
BFP#3 - 8.11.11 DS born 3.27.12
3 things...
You could do without about your DH.
BFP#1 1.28.10; HB 6w5d 2.18.10; No HB 3.8.10; Natural m/c 3.9.10 at 9w3d
BFP#2 - 7.22.10 DD born 3.16.11
BFP#3 - 8.11.11 DS born 3.27.12
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Re: 3 things...
1. Being so anal and needing to research the crud out of EVERYTHING.
2. How I'll be inside in 10 minutes becomes an hour because he got distracted.
3. Sometimes he's too laid back about things when he needs to have a little more pep in his step.
BFP#1 1.28.10; HB 6w5d 2.18.10; No HB 3.8.10; Natural m/c 3.9.10 at 9w3d
BFP#2 - 7.22.10 DD born 3.16.11
BFP#3 - 8.11.11 DS born 3.27.12
1. If we go out for a X and on the way we pass a store for Y that we have been wanting to look at/buy/need he can't stop because "I can't deal with that right now!" then we have to make a completely diff trip on diff day to complete Y. But I get yelled at for driving to a further gas station for cheaper gas....
2. He is sexually retarded when it comes to what a woman wants...
3. I have to ask him to get up with DS maybe twice a month so I can sleep past 0630 and he says, but you're used to getting up that early (he works 3rd shift and will stay up untill 3-4a on his off day and sleep in till 1-2pm). Would it kill him to just stay up a little longer and feed DS so I can sleep till 8am?!?!?
1. Lack of emotion pretty much all the time.
2. Sports ALL.THE.TIME. I don't mind them here and there, but he has them on all the time.
3. How picky he is with food. Seriously, he likes hardly anything and won't eat leftovers. It's so hard to cook for just 2 people all the time.
1. Same as what I love most- he's passionate. So when he gets upset, he gets really really angry and it takes a while to talk him off of whatever it was that set him off.
2. He literally does not see messes. Like, he'll spill coffee grinds on the floor/counter, and not notice. Maybe because he hasn't had said cup of coffee, but it kills me.
3. He wants me to let LO fuss more so that she'll learn to do things for herself. I'm just not ready for it, and he'd never want me to let her cry or actually get upset, but I'd rather pick her up if she's fussing because I know that's what she wants, even though I will then need DH to come make her food since I haven't mastered the art of doing that one handed yet.