Terrible Confession...

perfectpeach · November 2008

I feel like Dh and I *deserve* a BFP & sticky baby so much more than anyone we know - I seriously feel angry & robbed when someone else gets their BFP or talks about their pregnancy/kiddos around me....I know it's not right to feel that way, but after THREE losses and 1 1/2 years of trying, and being at a stage in our lives where we could provide a very nice life for a little one, I just feel like it should be happening already!

labbie1821 · November 2008

I believe you deserve it too!

Jin'sWifey · November 2008

Don't beat yourself up! I go through the same thing! A bunch of newly married (and i mean a month or 2 married) girls on my local board have all found out they were pregnant recently and i have had similar thoughts...I get SUPER angry that its not us

MrsPatterson · November 2008

It's not terrible because I'm pretty sure that every single girl on this board has had feelings like this. If you're terrible then I'm definitely terrible too. ((Big hugs))

Jin'sWifey · November 2008

Oh, and what really boils my blood is when someone else on the board asks for ttc help and they give it...it takes everything i have NOT to type, "You tried for 1 month and you are giving TTC advice?!? Give me a break" LOL...

samm1983 · November 2008

Been there.

OregonPachey · November 2008

That isn't terrible peach. I totally think you deserve a sticky baby.

perfectpeach · November 2008

Thanks gals

You're the best *hugs*

lakeciaw · November 2008

I think you deserve it too. I've been feeling this same way for awhile now. I hope it happens for you soon.

BarnStar · November 2008

Um, if that makes you terrible, then I am evil. I'm still miffed that my SIL who married DH's brother in April is due Feb 24, the day after I should have been with m/c #2. They weren't supposed to be "trying" for at least a year after they got married. Driving home from their wedding, I actually said, out loud, to DH, "God help her if she gets pg before me." And then she did...

Believe me, peachy, I think we've all been there. And fwiw, I think you *deserve* a bfp too!

aj1028 · November 2008

We're all terrible then!!! I feel the exact same way about everything from feeling like it's my turn, we could provide a nice life, we're ready, etc. etc.

Hang in there peachy... we love you!!! I'm praying for BFP for all of us!!!

snowflake_bride · November 2008

You absolutely deserve it!!! We all do.

I always feel bad because as much as I wouldn't wish the pain we have been through on anyone ... I get really upset when someone gets pg without going through a hard time. It's like only someone who had a really hard time concieving, or who has suffered a loss deserves it. I hate that I feel that way, but I can't help it! I think it normal .... if not, at least we'll all go down together being horrible!

Vet-Tech · November 2008

I feel this way often. Both doctors I work with who were pregnant had their babies this month. I can't help but feel resentment since I should be giving birth soon as well. It just pisses me off. Like why can so many people have a child & we can't? What is wrong with us??