I have a ten month old son who was born after nearly 4 years of infertility and loss. He's amazing and I'm am unbelievably happy and lucky to be his mom.
Meanwhile, all sorts of people both IRL and my online mom communities (like my BMB) are getting pregnant again. I'd love to have another baby. I'd love to have a bunch of babies. But, if we do, it's going to be another long process.
I don't know where to go to talk about this. I know on the infertility board there are many women waiting to be mommies. I'm no longer "pregnant after IF". But I'm technically not secondary IF either- I have had IF for the whole time.
What do you ladies think? I'd love to find a place. I'm really struggling with this.