Sorry for the vent...So DW had apparently gained some weight while we were waiting to start trying again during our summer break. As a result were forced to cancel our June cycle and July isnt looking good either because her BMI is a little too high. Needless to say we are both bummed and I am not handling it well. I am not mad at DW she has already lost 5 lbs since we found out...15 more to go. I am just frustrated because this means we may not be able to try again until next summer when we are on break again meaning ANOTHER year of waiting before get to try and have a baby. We are so not getting any younger. It seems like everytime we make plans to move our lives forward we have to go at it the hard way. I was talking to my therapist about it today and I came to the conclusion that of all the crap we go through there is one thing in my life that is easy...my marriage. I love my wife and when a baby comes into our life it will happen at the right time because we never gave up, and got there as a team. Sorry for the vent, thanks for reading, I am just more bummed than any of our BFNs because at least we were trying.
We had three BFN in the Fall of 2011. It is back on to some baby making come June. Swim little fellas, SWIM!!!!