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I'm ready for the circle of life to kick in...

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My paternal grandmother passed away this morning.  This is the third grandparent to pass between my husband and I in the last 3-4 months.  My maternal grandmother passed in March, his paternal grandmother followed 2 weeks later, and today we lost my paternal grandmother.  Between the 2 of us, we now only have 1 grandparent left :(

I remember when my maternal grandmother died someone mentioned that maybe this would lead to a circle of life BFP.  I'm really hoping that now with these 3 deaths in our family that it will somehow lead to us having a baby.  Our families need some happy news.

 *sigh*  I know it's silly to think that way but I just need some hope right now...  anyway, thanks for letting me ramble.

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  • anitafloraanitaflora member
    Oh Dawn that's awful :(:(.  I'm so sad to hear of your losses - and I really hope you get your BFP soon. You're due for some good news!!  (((manyhugs)))

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  • TammyDoubleBTammyDoubleB member
    Hoping and praying for you, Dawn. I'm sorry for your loss. Sending you big hugs.
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    Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
    Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
    IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
    IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
    IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
    IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
    Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
    IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN
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  • mitzidannymitzidanny member
    im so sorry for your loss (((hugs)))
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  • BellaLuxBellaLux member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my T&P

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  • Rvnsgrl81Rvnsgrl81
    Sorry for your loss. {{HUGS}} Between DH and I we have no living grandparents. Neither of us have had any for years.
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  • novelblessingsnovelblessings member
    So sorry about your loss. Sending prayers out for you and your family! 
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  • Mother MeghanMother Meghan member
    Aw Dawn I'm so sorry for your loss Sad I'm in the same boat, we've lost so many people in the last few years that I'm ready for the births to happen. Sending you lots of hugs!
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  • LaylarueLaylarue member
    So sorry for your loss Dawn.  (((hugs))) 
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  • sparklemotion86sparklemotion86 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses Dawn :( 
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  • mndyhywrdmndyhywrd member
    You are definitely due for some good news! So sorry for your losses...
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  • rrdiva1rrdiva1 member
    Awe Dawn I am so hoping that you get that bfp shortly!!!! I know you miss them, and I am so sorry for your loss!!! I was thinking lion kind circle of life song when read this....Giving big ol squishy diva hugs.....<3
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  • mrs shavermrs shaver

    Dawn,

     That is not silly at all.  I lost my grandfather earlier this week and my grandmother a couple of years ago just before my wedding and I was thinking that it would be a wonderful time to get a BFP.  My grandmother could use some happy news after just losing her husband of 63 years!  I'm thinking of you and your family and I hope you get your BFP soon!!

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  • alongamore17alongamore17 member
    Dawn, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. I certainly hope you get your circle of life Bfp soon!




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     TTC#1 since 10/2011
    June:  Clomid 50 mg  (No Ovulation)
    July: Clomid 100 mg + Ovidrel Trigger (BFN)
    August: Clomid 150 mg + Ovidrel Trigger (BFN) 
    September: Clomid 150 mg + Ovidrel Trigger (BFN)
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  • kerryann22kerryann22
    Dawn...I'm so sorry for your loss :( I am thinking of you and praying for you all the time. Hoping I see your BFP post soon! xoxo
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  • weansworld09weansworld09 member
    So sorry Dawn :( you, YH and your families are in my t&p's 
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    *IUI follistim 9/13 - Cancelled due to over response*
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  • saintpaulJesssaintpaulJess member
    I'm so sorry, Dawn.  :-(  I really hope you get your BFP soon.
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  • GrangerWifeyGrangerWifey
    I'm so sorry love Sad I know the past few months have had a lot of ups and downs for you guys. You are definitely due for some cycle of life goodness! Wishing the best for you this cycle (as always!) and hoping for some great news. Lots of hugs to you!
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  • sweetgoosesweetgoose member
    Dawn, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts & prayers your way. 
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    Sept 2012-March 2013: TTA for surgery & recovery; surgery removed: neuroendocrine tumor & 30% of pancreas, 
    endo on diaphragm & in abdomen, & uterine septum
    April 2013: 5mg Femera - IUI cancelled
    May 2013: Cycle cancelled; CD3 estradiol levels too high
    June 2013: Cycle cancelled; umbilical hernia found; surgery to repair
    July 2013: IUI #1.2 - 5mg Femera + trigger = BFN
    Aug 2013: IUI #2 - 5mg Femera + trigger = BFN
    Nov 2013: surgery to remove 8cm fibroid from uterus & clean up endo
    March 2014: IVF #1 - Gonal F & Menopur; retrieved 12 eggs; 6 fertilized; 0 made it to blast
    moving on to DE
    July 2014: FET #1 w/ DE; cancelled due to clots in uterus; hysteroscopy to remove fibroid.
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  • Katieg90Katieg90 member
    I'm so sorry for all of your losses :(
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  • CutieBean79CutieBean79 member
    Awww, big hugs.  I hope your whole family gets good news very soon.
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  • magnoliasonfiremagnoliasonfire member
    So sorry for your loss. T&P's for you and your family during this difficult time.
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