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Late Term and Child Loss
Gizu92708
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Enzo's Teddy bear (ticker warning)
Gizu92708
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We went to the cemetery on fathers day. The first thing I ever bought Enzo to put on his grave was a Teddy bear that says a prayer when you squeeze it's belly. That bear was in my car for almost 2 months until I was emotionally able to go back to his grave for the first time after his burial. I would squeeze it every time I would go. Well on Sunday it wasn't there . They had mowed the grass. They probably tore it up and broke it by mistake with the mower and just threw it away. I started looking everywhere for it just bc maybe it had been tossed somewhere nearby but nope, it was gone. DH had to drag me out of the cemetery crying like a baby. Maybe I over reacted IDK, but I was just Soooo sad about it. Thanks for letting me share....
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Re: Enzo's Teddy bear (ticker warning)
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
This happened to us too. Corbin's in a mausoleum so there's no grass to mow. There was supposed to be a vase attached to his stone and on Easter it wasn't there but I had made him an Easter basket. I left it on the sidewalk right in front of his spot. A week and a half later it was gone. Then the vase was there and my mom made a bucket filled with toys and his picture on it and she tied it to the vase. A few weeks ago we went back and that too was gone. It really upset me when the Easter basket was gone so much that I went to the office and threw a fit. I cried the entire way home. The only thing that I've found helps me through it is to tell myself that it's not gone - they simply came down from heaven one night and took their gifts and are playing with them up in heaven.
{{HUGS}}
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always Now and Forever My baby you'll be
corbinsmommy.blogspot.com
That is really disappointing that they would move something you left for Enzo. (BTW I love his name). I don't think you over reacted. You reacted by showing exactly how you were feeling at the moment. It's better to let it all out, than to try to hold it in.
Oh I am so so sorry.
People steal the stuff we leave on Kam's grave every single time and it makes me so so sad.