December 2012 Moms

Catty Moms....

Some of you guys are so catty and mean on here. I don't know if it's those extra hormones your body is producing or what, but it's really difficult to have any support from fellow parents when all some of you do is sit around and try to make fun of some women. Like come on, you guys are going to be/already are parents. Let's set an example here and show some kindness to one another!

Re: Catty Moms....

  • I don't think coming on this page and opening with a general statement/comment like that is going to get you many positive responses.  There are some of all kinds on here so making a statement like that is passing judgement on many people that have no idea what you're talking about (including myself).  
  • Loading the player...
  • imageabkrause:
    I don't think coming on this page and opening with a general statement/comment like that is going to get you many positive responses.  There are some of all kinds on here so making a statement like that is passing judgement on many people that have no idea what you're talking about (including myself).  

    Word.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Due December 16, 2012! BabyFruit Ticker pregnancy week by week
  • If you don't like how we are here, feel free to go away.  No one is going to change because some random person on the internet didn't like it.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imagecowgirltu:
    If you don't like how we are here, feel free to go away.  No one is going to change because some random person on the internet didn't like it.

    Exactly.

     

    What did I miss on the boards today? Or is this a general "you all are meanies" post?

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
  • imageJenniatONU:

    imagecowgirltu:
    If you don't like how we are here, feel free to go away.  No one is going to change because some random person on the internet didn't like it.

    Exactly.

     

    What did I miss on the boards today? Or is this a general "you all are meanies" post?

    Its going around.   Someone posted one on 2nd tri today also.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Well, aren't you special.  
    BabyFruit Ticker

    BFP #1 - 12/12/11 - Missed M/C 1/9/12
    BFP #2 - 4/5/2012 - Son Born 12/12/12
    BFP #3 - 2/2/2014 - EDD 10/16/2014
  • Hahaha, what is happening?
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • There's a lady on 12-24 having sex in front of her 15 month old, she could use your kind words and support. 

     Dude, seriously? It's an Internet message board. If you're looking for support try your friends in REAL LIFE. Andplusso, walking in here and making a generalization about a group you have barely participated is pretty catty and mean.  

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • image
    Mama of 3 earth babies and 1 beautiful angel baby
  • imagechristie522:

    There's a lady on 12-24 having sex in front of her 15 month old, she could use your kind words and support. 

     Dude, seriously? It's an Internet message board. If you're looking for support try your friends in REAL LIFE. Andplusso, walking in here and making a generalization about a group you have barely participated is pretty catty and mean.  

    Its not a matter of the internet.  SHE HAD SEX IN FRONT OF HER 15 month old.  If you don't think people will be disgusted then something is wrong with them and her! You don't have sex in front of your kid.  Plain and simple.  Kind words for what? Oh honey its ok.. just don't do it again?  Yea .. your right you probably didn't traumatize your kid?  Just think better next time?  No. She gets what she deserves.   

    If you are that got damn lazy that you can't get your horny asses into another room to have sex.  That is their problem.  They can control where they have sex.  The BABY can't control where he/she sleeps. 

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageLadynikon:
    imagechristie522:

    There's a lady on 12-24 having sex in front of her 15 month old, she could use your kind words and support. 

     Dude, seriously? It's an Internet message board. If you're looking for support try your friends in REAL LIFE. Andplusso, walking in here and making a generalization about a group you have barely participated is pretty catty and mean.  

    Its not a matter of the internet.  SHE HAD SEX IN FRONT OF HER 15 month old.  If you don't think people will be disgusted then something is wrong with them and her! You don't have sex in front of your kid.  Plain and simple.  Kind words for what? Oh honey its ok.. just don't do it again?  Yea .. your right you probably didn't traumatize your kid?  Just think better next time?  No. She gets what she deserves.   

    If you are that got damn lazy that you can't get your horny asses into another room to have sex.  That is their problem.  They can control where they have sex.  The BABY can't control where he/she sleeps. 

    I think you misunderstood. Paragraph 1 was totally sarcastic. Just giving op an opportunity to go be not catty and mean somewhere else. It was a joke. I was not now nor will I ever be defending what that slam pig on 12-24 did.  Comedy fail on my part. 

     Paragraph 2 was my honest response to the op.  If we got your panties all wadded up, go play outside. YKWIM?

     

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • imageLadynikon:
    imagechristie522:

    There's a lady on 12-24 having sex in front of her 15 month old, she could use your kind words and support. 

     Dude, seriously? It's an Internet message board. If you're looking for support try your friends in REAL LIFE. Andplusso, walking in here and making a generalization about a group you have barely participated is pretty catty and mean.  

    Its not a matter of the internet.  SHE HAD SEX IN FRONT OF HER 15 month old.  If you don't think people will be disgusted then something is wrong with them and her! You don't have sex in front of your kid.  Plain and simple.  Kind words for what? Oh honey its ok.. just don't do it again?  Yea .. your right you probably didn't traumatize your kid?  Just think better next time?  No. She gets what she deserves.   

    If you are that got damn lazy that you can't get your horny asses into another room to have sex.  That is their problem.  They can control where they have sex.  The BABY can't control where he/she sleeps. 

    I'm pretty sure Christie was being sarcastic about her needing kind words....

    I'm also pretty sure most of us agree with you, on that woman getting what she deserves. Wink

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
  • Sadly bumping from my phone but 1 gif comes to mind.. You must be new here.
  • imageLLK122207:
    Sadly bumping from my phone but 1 gif comes to mind.. You must be new here.

    This one?

     image

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
  • imageJenniatONU:

    imageLLK122207:
    Sadly bumping from my phone but 1 gif comes to mind.. You must be new here.

    This one?

     image

    Love. Thanks for the save! 

  • imageLLK122207:
    imageJenniatONU:

    imageLLK122207:
    Sadly bumping from my phone but 1 gif comes to mind.. You must be new here.

    This one?

     image

    Love. Thanks for the save! 

    You know how much I love that gif. :) Always happy to share the fun!

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
  • Yep - generalizing a whole group of people is pretty darn catty.  Personally, I haven't had anyone be rude to me on this site. (I tend to stear clear from posting stupid *** though) 

     Love the gifs ladies!

     

    Pregnancy Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Uhh...what?
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I figure we will all post what we want to post and really "listen" to what we want to "hear" -- I just figure everyone that's shiitty can just go F themselves and it doesn't bother me one bit if nobody likes what I have to say or agrees with me.  If my kid turns out even a tiny bit like me they will be AMAZINGLY AWESOME and I'm excited for them already!
  • imagediscobelle:
    Why do these people need so much "support" from strangers on the internet?  Do they not have spouses, friends, or family members to talk to?

     Perhaps they just need a good bra?

     

    In all reality, there are a handful of girls here that had we lived closer to each other, I'm sure we could be BFF's. Especially if wine was involved. Stick out tongue I like my friends who tell it like it is. They're more fun than puppies and unicorns. They tend to just be wet blankets. 

    So, it's their loss if they refuse to actually get to know us.

    image 

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
  • Blabbity blah blah. 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • image
    DD Lea 04/21/10
    DS Nathan 12/4/12
    BFP: 3/31/15 EDD: 12/4/15


    MC: 7/2011, 12/2011
  • imagecowgirltu:
    If you don't like how we are here, feel free to go away.  No one is going to change because some random person on the internet didn't like it.

    This.  We are all strangers here.  No one's forcing you to stay, hon. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageJenniatONU:

    imagediscobelle:
    Why do these people need so much "support" from strangers on the internet?  Do they not have spouses, friends, or family members to talk to?

     Perhaps they just need a good bra?

     

    In all reality, there are a handful of girls here that had we lived closer to each other, I'm sure we could be BFF's. Especially if wine was involved. Stick out tongue I like my friends who tell it like it is. They're more fun than puppies and unicorns. They tend to just be wet blankets. 

    So, it's their loss if they refuse to actually get to know us.

    image 

     

    Lovely, I feel as though we need to meet somewhere in the middle and get a bottle or 7 of wine once these children quit invading our uterii.   

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • i fail at reading sarcasm.  my bad.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageLadynikon:
    i fail at reading sarcasm.  my bad.

    Its ok, I fail at typing in sarcasm. ;)

     

    If you can't stand the heat, get out of the board.

    Are you even a December mom?


    Mrs. Dustin Land..... Has a nice ring to it, don't you think? :) 10.30.2009 and counting! Gamer Girls of the world, unite! BabyFruit Ticker
  • Doh!  Stupid iPod, can't use my Spongebob gif.  Booooo! 

    If you're getting butthurt over Internet strangers you need to re-evaluate your life. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Wow.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • i'm going to have to agree with you mzlove2011. I've seen some post on different subjects and some people are kinda mean. Now, I said some, not all, but I was suprised at how some people respond. Sure we get support from our friends and family, but it also helps to have support from someone who is going through it at the same time. but, then again, what do i know.lol
  • At the end of the day, if you don't know how easy it is to handle "catty" moms on the internet, you're going to be screwed in real life and the "catty" moms that are harder to get away from than by simply Xing out of a website.
    *~*Mommy to*~*
    image
    BFP#1 Kaitlyn 11-17-04
    BFP #2 Matthew pPROM 23w5d 06-03-07, b/33 weeks 8-6-07, d/10-15-07 SIDS,
    BFP #3 m/c 8 weeks 2/20/09, BFP #4 m/c no hb 6w4d, m/c 9w4d, D&C 11w2d, BFP #5 C/P 12/18/09 after BFP- 9dpo
    BFP #6 Samantha- 11-9-10
    BFP #7 4/20/12 21 DPO beta: 2382 29 DPO beta: 23000! HB 6w2d 116 bpm due Christmas day!
    This Momma's Journey
    ~Today I am pregnant and I love my baby~ BabyFruit Ticker
  • Wow, out of 2 pages of responses, I finally get a response worth reading. I've never been to such a bitchy website, honestly. Everyone got on here like I pointed them out personally. I didn't say any names, but thank you for making it clear who the catty people on here are. And for the person who commented on here and basically said that I don't have any real life support from friends, spouse, or family members. Really? My spouse has never been pregnant. Most of my friends have never had children. Is this website a joke? Are most of you even pregnant anymore? It's called "The Bump" not "I have a 5 year old but still go on a pregnancy website to bash on people because i'm sad and pathetic. So yes, I am telling it like it is while the rest of you are simply looking for trouble. Please...
  • imageCarissa.Briscoe:

    imageLadynikon:
    i fail at reading sarcasm.  my bad.

    Its ok, I fail at typing in sarcasm. ;)

     

    If you can't stand the heat, get out of the board.

    Are you even a December mom?


     

    If that last question was directed towards me, yes I am. I am due in Dec. 

  • imageMrsT1108:

    Doh!  Stupid iPod, can't use my Spongebob gif.  Booooo! 

    If you're getting butthurt over Internet strangers you need to re-evaluate your life. 

     

    Thank you for the life lesson, catty mom #985329. I will go and re-evaluate my life, now. Thanks ever so much.  

  • imagechristie522:

    There's a lady on 12-24 having sex in front of her 15 month old, she could use your kind words and support. 

     Dude, seriously? It's an Internet message board. If you're looking for support try your friends in REAL LIFE. Andplusso, walking in here and making a generalization about a group you have barely participated is pretty catty and mean.  

     

    I didn't point out anyone in particular. I was just making a generalization. If it hurts someones feelings, i've obviously struck a nerve in them somewhere. They would probably be one of those people going around and making everyone feel like crap for asking questions about their baby that maybe they don't want to ask to anyone they know. One of the ladies on here posted something about blankets and someone had to go off on how the names on the blankets were stupid. How judgmental. I really wish the moderators of this website were more involved because some people are actually very sensitive to online bullying. People have committed suicide over it, I knew a girl in high school who did. It's pretty sad. 

  • imagemzlove2011:
    Wow, out of 2 pages of responses, I finally get a response worth reading. I've never been to such a bitchy website, honestly. Everyone got on here like I pointed them out personally. I didn't say any names, but thank you for making it clear who the catty people on here are. And for the person who commented on here and basically said that I don't have any real life support from friends, spouse, or family members. Really? My spouse has never been pregnant. Most of my friends have never had children. Is this website a joke? Are most of you even pregnant anymore? It's called "The Bump" not "I have a 5 year old but still go on a pregnancy website to bash on people because i'm sad and pathetic. So yes, I am telling it like it is while the rest of you are simply looking for trouble. Please...

    Umm. Leave, then? I don't know what you're looking for, dragging this old news back up... 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Wow.  Really?!  I never knew there were "black", "white" or "mixed" names



    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • boring trolls that come back days later make me sad. please, come up with better material and try again. and be prompt about it. 
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickersLilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • imageMrsT1108:

    Wow.  Really?!  I never knew there were "black", "white" or "mixed" names



    Wait, that was THIS poster? Zip it!

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
  • imageJenniatONU:
    imageMrsT1108:

    Wow.  Really?!  I never knew there were "black", "white" or "mixed" names



    Wait, that was THIS poster? Zip it!

    Indeed it was!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageMrsT1108:
    imageJenniatONU:
    imageMrsT1108:

    Wow.  Really?!  I never knew there were "black", "white" or "mixed" names



    Wait, that was THIS poster? Zip it!

    Indeed it was!

    Well, at least it wasn't the "Liam" but I want to spell it "Leeum" chick. 

    2/12: 100 mg Clomid + Bravelle last minute+ back to back IUI. BFN
    3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
    Vanishing twin at week 6
    Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013

    2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
    3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
    8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"