Could I be pregnant?
I've been becoming increasingly paranoid that I might be pregnant. My period is irregular so I have no idea when I'm ovulating or when I'm supposed to get it.
My last period was April 28-May 1. I had some spotting (for the most part only on the tissue after going to the bathroom) from around May 24-29. It seemed to light to be my period and though my period is irregular, it's usually not that close together. If anything I usually get it every 6+ weeks or longer.
Other than that I've just been having general random things happening with my body that I'm not used to. I hardly ever get sick or have anything go wrong so it's starting to freak me out. Over the weekend I was very bloated and constipated. That kind of tapered into gassy/bloated/cramping and right now I'm still feeling a little bloated, but no longer constipated.
My nipples have been sore and erect for probably at least a week now. Then this morning I wake up with what seems like a cold - runny nose and sneezing. It's a weird symptom that I've had girlfriends tell me in the past that was their first symptom they remember, before they even knew they were preggo.
I took a test last week, negative. Took one this morning (though I forgot to take it first thing, so my pee was pretty clear) and negative. They're the cheapy test strips you can get like 25 of for $8 on Amazon.
We're not REALLY trying, but we're not, not trying. We're just seeing what happens. It's just really been bugging me because I can't shake this feeling. Am I testing too early? Or is my body just going crazy? I'd like to just put my mind at ease so I don't keep thinking I might be pregnant haha. Any advice?
Re: Could I be pregnant?
we can't tell you that you are pregnant ... keep testing once a week, if you don't get your period in two months call your doctor...
do yourself a HUGE favor and get to know your body better by reading up on fertility etc... the newbie link at the top is a good start!
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
TTC since July 2011
BFP #1: 2/15/12-Ectopic/Mtx at 6 wks
BFP #2: 10/12/12-m/c at 5 wks.
Me: MTHFR, Low AMH (1.1), High NK cells and Antiphospholipid Antibodies.
IVF with ICSI in August 2013 brought us our babies. ER-9R, 7M, 4F w/ICSI ET of 2-Grade 2 blasts.
Dx shortened cervix, PTL, and preeclampsia during pregnancy. Lots of medications and 13 weeks of bedrest, babies were born healthy at 34w4d!
Sorry if you don't feel like you are getting empathetic responses, OP, it really isn't personal, but this question has seriously been asked about 6 times a day for the last week. The answer doesn't really change much, so we start to feel like a broken record. The answer that piglet gave is perfect.
That said, welcome to the board. If you take a minute to read the newbie link and scan previous threads, you are likely to find answers and information that may be of help going forward. Good luck to you!
** After 2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of Mini IVF! **
Thanks guys. I didn't see that link up there, it needs to be bigger! So much text, it blends in
I guess I was just looking for someone who had a similar situation for comfort. I know you guys obviously aren't in my uterus checking it out.
I chart my period using an iphone app. It's completely irregular, my last few cycles have been 66, 54, 38 & 40 days so I only chart it to keep track of the past, not predict the future since it's random.
Useless. Fertilityfriend.com YW
::Lurker emerging::
I agree with PP. We don't know of you are pregnant or not. If you are consistently testing negative, I'd hazard a guess...you're not pregnant. However, if you still feel you need more evidence, go to your doctor and ask for a blood test. Though, I doubt you will find anything different there. Test weekly. If you go more than 60 days with no AF, call the doc.
Also, a little more lurking will really help you to know what is appropriate to post here...
::goes back into lurk cave::
You're forgiven. You lived and learned and took it like a champ. I think you'll do just fine here! Welcome!
My BFP Chart
Welcome to the board! The ladies here are super helpful and have a lot of knowledge so hang out and you will learn a ton! Good luck!
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
I'm a Timelord, not psychic.
TTC Since Aug 2011/
ME:34 all clear/DH:41 DX Severe MFI/
IVF w/ICSI OCT 2012 Stims started 10/8/ER 10/19/12/ET 10/24/Beta#1 11/2=BFN (beta was 1.2)
IVF 2.0-Baseline 11/7/12 beta 0/All Clear
Stim start 11/7/12//ER 11/19 11M//10F
ET 2 embies 11/24//Beta#1 28 Beta #2 23 Beta#3 29
stop meds Beta#4 37/C/P 5W5D EDD:8/12/13/IVF#3 in Jan
Ivf 3-frozen 3 poor 3day/fet=bfn
My Chart//>
TTC Since Aug 2011/
ME:34 all clear/DH:41 DX Severe MFI/
IVF w/ICSI OCT 2012 Stims started 10/8/ER 10/19/12/ET 10/24/Beta#1 11/2=BFN (beta was 1.2)
IVF 2.0-Baseline 11/7/12 beta 0/All Clear
Stim start 11/7/12//ER 11/19 11M//10F
ET 2 embies 11/24//Beta#1 28 Beta #2 23 Beta#3 29
stop meds Beta#4 37/C/P 5W5D EDD:8/12/13/IVF#3 in Jan
Ivf 3-frozen 3 poor 3day/fet=bfn
My Chart//>
Nice response. I think you'll do just fine here. Lurk a little and read the newbie link. It really is a great group of ladies who can really help you learn a lot about TTC. Welcome and good luck.
BFP 4/4/12 CP 4/10/12
9/20/2013 Came home with our little miracle from the Philippines
11/26/2013 Surprise!!! BFP!
Hi there, I was lurking just cause I was curious about what was going on in this happy little thread, then I saw your sig and it made me very happy, the big bang theory is possibly one of the most awesome shows ever
now back to my lurkhole :] *hides*
I'm much sexier than that big green beast.
Creepy? Maybe.
Sexy trumps green and creepy.
BROOKE SMASH!!
ETA: I sounds like you need to poop and possibly have an orgasm. Sorry about your constantly erect nipples. And also for the fact that you know people who use the word "preggers"
P/SAIF Welcome
Invisible Finish Line
3T's Traveling Ovary Blog
7DPO Progesterone: low. CD3 BW: normal, HSG: clear
DX: severe MFI (low all 3) and low T. Undergoing replacement therapy.
I'm so glad it made you happy
I am itching for season 5 to come out on DVD so I can catch up!!! Love me some Sheldon!
BFP 4/4/12 CP 4/10/12
9/20/2013 Came home with our little miracle from the Philippines
11/26/2013 Surprise!!! BFP!
Edited. For some reason this response rubs me the wrong way.... Yes, she could have PCOS, but she could also have no problem concieving. I feel like maybe it is borrowing trouble a little prematurely.
** After 2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of Mini IVF! **
Why in the holy heII would you come on to a board with 4 whole posts under your belt and post something like this? You newbies need to stop thinking you have a license to diagnose/inform people just because you can Google and form cohesive sentences.
And it obviously never occurred to you a person could be completely knowledgeable on this subject without never having posted on here....I have just as much of a right as anyone else to give advice and opinions.
People like you are the exact reason why I do not post on any message board. I do read posts quite a lot though, so I know how clique-ish and rude you regulars are to "newbies."
ARE, "People like you are the exact reason". YWIA
Here, here.
::shakes the shiiit out of her Magic 8 Ball::
Not just no, but hell no.
P/SAIF Welcome
Invisible Finish Line
3T's Traveling Ovary Blog
7DPO Progesterone: low. CD3 BW: normal, HSG: clear
DX: severe MFI (low all 3) and low T. Undergoing replacement therapy.
GAH, after re-reading her post, I realize there was a lot more editing that should have taken place. Its a lost cause.
Who is this directed towards? I hope not me, because I did not question your right to post, nor did I state that your facts were incorrect. In fact, I wasn't even rude. My only comment was that it might be premature to suggest PCOS or that she might be infertile, when she hasn't even begun trying yet. If you were offended by that I apologize, it is simply a difference of opinion and no reason to be upset.
** After 2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of Mini IVF! **
No, it was not directed toward you at all. I totally get your point. Not necessarily agreeing with it, but I get it. I thought you were very respectful toward me.
It was directed toward the other person who said I have no right to post advice on here because I have only posted 4 times. Apparently according to hawkeye, I need to have posted at least 64 times to know what I'm talking about like her or to not be attacked for posting what is considered a stupid question.
Well this thread blew up and totally went off topic after I last posted apologizing for approaching this board the wrong way
But actually -- yes I have several symptoms of PCOS and I do plan to get checked soon as my husband is now eligible for medical insurance at his new job. I know that particular post was kind of frowned upon, but I just thought I'd address that.
Cleclist--What did I post that was inaccurate? And how was my advice any different than everyone else giving their opinion that the poster was not pregnant? isn't that also medical advice that should only be given by a professional? It is possible to have a negative pregnancy test and still be pregnant. I guess I just don't see the difference. I hardly think it was rude to suggest they get tested. If you knew anything about PCOS, based on irregular periods alone you would know my suggestion really wasn't that far off base. I think many other people's sarcastic replies were far more rude, but hey, they're "regulars" so it's okay.
I'm just really sick of always seeing regulars gang up on people and I finally decided to say something.
I will continue on the same path I am on, as I don't feel I did anything wrong. You all can just kiss my ass if you don't like it. I don't care.
Missaileen----Good! You can technically just get diagnosed based on 2-3 symptoms (can't remember the exact number), but if you do have it, it would be good to start on Metformin sooner rather than later. Also, I know a lot of specialists will prescribe birth control pills to regulate your cycles for a few months before you actually start trying, so that's also another reason sooner is better to see someone. I was diagnosed back in January of this year and my husband and I are going to start trying this September, so it is good to know we have a plan in place and have been doing the right things to get my body prepared.
Also, even if you do have it, you can still have children, you just may need extra help with fertility meds, Good luck!
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