There is someone on my local board with EDS, she also frequents in the Attachment Parenting Board, in fact she's probably more active there. If you posted the same question over there I'm sure she'd be happy to talk with you.
My girls were tested for it because they have hypotonia and really loose joints but were negative. It's a problem with the production of collagen if I remember right and can have different presentations. There is a great foundation that gives you tons of info and assistance if your child has it. It's
https://www.ednf.org/ and it really helped me when we were in the process of testing. GL
Re: ehlers danlos sydrome