December 2011 Moms

In reference to the AEs

Just wanted to say I know several of TB users had their feelings hurt and that was never anyone's intention. The intention was to annoy which to most, annoying or funny was all it was.  This board used to be really awesome until the really awesome people were pushed out when they were made to feel the need to choose between the FB and TB groups. TB regulars are famous for saying, "it's the internet. Get over it."

Re: In reference to the AEs

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  • imageiluvmylab:
    This board is still awesome.

    Most would find that a UO. It was way more awesome before it lost 170 posters.  

  • imageiluvmylab:
    This board is still awesome.

    this, and what was the point in ALove4Fords?

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    imageiluvmylab:
    This board is still awesome.

    This ;-)  

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  • imagealove4chevys:

    imageiluvmylab:
    This board is still awesome.

    this, and what was the point in ALove4Fords?

    Absolutely no point. Just a SN that was easy to play off. I don't think anyone has anything against you but they can correct me if I am wrong.  

  • imageiluvmyself:

    imageiluvmylab:
    This board is still awesome.

    Most would find that a UO. It was way more awesome before it lost 170 posters.  

    That's fine if you think it's unpopular.  I don't understand why you waste time here if you think this board is so terrible?

  • Some of it may have been funny to others or to the targeted person. And I will admit that I am very over emotional and too sensitive, it is a huge downfall of mine. I will also admit that I have been b!tchy before and may have gotten some enemies from that. But to make fun of my daughters name is just mean.Tattoos, fine. Make fun of them. Most people know it is my husband's job and whatever is on my arms was for him to further his portfolio and enter in magazine contests/shows or whatever.I don't think I'm youneek.

    I don't believe I have ever said to put on big girl panties because to be honest, I don't have them myself. I feel like I need to explain myself even though I know it does no good. There is not one person I could think of as my "enemy" and I guess that's why I'm bothered by it. Regardless, I wish my first name wasn't addressed, I think that is ridiculous that it as even considered as an option. Anyway, continue with your AEing.

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  • And yet, here you are under an AE that clearly mocks someone else, still accusing this board of whatever your beef with us is. (That we're not "awesome"?)  If you don't like the way this board is, stop wasting our time with junior high drama and get the f--- out.

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  • imagemrsfowler1016:

    Some of it may have been funny to others or to the targeted person. And I will admit that I am very over emotional and too sensitive, it is a huge downfall of mine. I will also admit that I have been b!tchy before and may have gotten some enemies from that. But to make fun of my daughters name is just mean.Tattoos, fine. Make fun of them. Most people know it is my husband's job and whatever is on my arms was for him to further his portfolio and enter in magazine contests/shows or whatever.I don't think I'm youneek.

    I don't believe I have ever said to put on big girl panties because to be honest, I don't have them myself. I feel like I need to explain myself even though I know it does no good. There is not one person I could think of as my "enemy" and I guess that's why I'm bothered by it. Regardless, I wish my first name wasn't addressed, I think that is ridiculous that it as even considered as an option. Anyway, continue with your AEing.

    You have put your first name out there several times from TB. I for one have always known it. No one made fun of your daughters name, but rather poked fun about you saying it was from a Tim Burton movie.  

  • imagemrsfowler1016:

    Some of it may have been funny to others or to the targeted person. And I will admit that I am very over emotional and too sensitive, it is a huge downfall of mine. I will also admit that I have been b!tchy before and may have gotten some enemies from that. But to make fun of my daughters name is just mean.Tattoos, fine. Make fun of them. Most people know it is my husband's job and whatever is on my arms was for him to further his portfolio and enter in magazine contests/shows or whatever.I don't think I'm youneek.

    I don't believe I have ever said to put on big girl panties because to be honest, I don't have them myself. I feel like I need to explain myself even though I know it does no good. There is not one person I could think of as my "enemy" and I guess that's why I'm bothered by it. Regardless, I wish my first name wasn't addressed, I think that is ridiculous that it as even considered as an option. Anyway, continue with your AEing.

    Puhlease. You played us (the fb girls) first. Telling many of us that you felt superior and didnt want friend requests and then only came back to jump on a flame wagon when you saw it coming by. I pity you now only because tomorrow you will wake up and still be you.
  • imagemrsfowler1016:

    Some of it may have been funny to others or to the targeted person. And I will admit that I am very over emotional and too sensitive, it is a huge downfall of mine. I will also admit that I have been b!tchy before and may have gotten some enemies from that. But to make fun of my daughters name is just mean.Tattoos, fine. Make fun of them. Most people know it is my husband's job and whatever is on my arms was for him to further his portfolio and enter in magazine contests/shows or whatever.I don't think I'm youneek.

    I don't believe I have ever said to put on big girl panties because to be honest, I don't have them myself. I feel like I need to explain myself even though I know it does no good. There is not one person I could think of as my "enemy" and I guess that's why I'm bothered by it. Regardless, I wish my first name wasn't addressed, I think that is ridiculous that it as even considered as an option. Anyway, continue with your AEing.

    It really was all in good fun. I am sorry you're so hurt by it. But the way you left the FB group hurt a lot of people too. 

    And I really do love your daughter's name.  

  • imageMeenbaby:

    Puhlease. You played us (the fb girls) first. Telling many of us that you felt superior and didnt want friend requests and then only came back to jump on a flame wagon when you saw it coming by. I pity you now only because tomorrow you will wake up and still be you.

    And this is exactly why I said that FB has drama and apparently my comment made some people "butt-hurt."

  • I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

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  • imageiluvmylab:

    imageMeenbaby:

    Puhlease. You played us (the fb girls) first. Telling many of us that you felt superior and didnt want friend requests and then only came back to jump on a flame wagon when you saw it coming by. I pity you now only because tomorrow you will wake up and still be you.

    And this is exactly why I said that FB has drama and apparently my comment made some people "butt-hurt."

    Yup, last night's fun pretty much proved lab's point about FB. Case closed,

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  • imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

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    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

  • imagekwinkle1980:
    imageiluvmylab:

    imageMeenbaby:

    Puhlease. You played us (the fb girls) first. Telling many of us that you felt superior and didnt want friend requests and then only came back to jump on a flame wagon when you saw it coming by. I pity you now only because tomorrow you will wake up and still be you.

    And this is exactly why I said that FB has drama and apparently my comment made some people "butt-hurt."

    Yup, last night's fun pretty much proved lab's point about FB. Case closed,

    There are 169 girls in the FB group.

    You're really going to write off a whole group because of the actions of a few, or possibly even just one person?

    Wow.

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  • imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    Yes, that is true! We never had any bad feelings toward you FB gals. I didn't think we had a real problem, but apparently everyone hates my guts. Geez.

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  • imagekwinkle1980:
    imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    Yes, that is true! We never had any bad feelings toward you FB gals. I didn't think we had a real problem, but apparently everyone hates my guts. Geez.

    No one hates your guts and I am sorry you have hurt feelings. I have seen a few posts from TB girls bagging on a few of the girls that are no longer posting here too.  

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    imagekwinkle1980:
    imageiluvmylab:

    imageMeenbaby:

    Puhlease. You played us (the fb girls) first. Telling many of us that you felt superior and didnt want friend requests and then only came back to jump on a flame wagon when you saw it coming by. I pity you now only because tomorrow you will wake up and still be you.

    And this is exactly why I said that FB has drama and apparently my comment made some people "butt-hurt."

    Yup, last night's fun pretty much proved lab's point about FB. Case closed,

    There are 169 girls in the FB group.

    You're really going to write off a whole group because of the actions of a few, or possibly even just one person?

    Wow.

     You are right, that isn't fair. To be honest, I have no clue how many/who is in the FB group. Sorry, but my feelings did get hurt. I never meant to be someone to hate on here. I have my opinions, that is all. I was surprised...still reeling. I guess my big girl panties are not big enough.

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  • imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    I'm with Kylayton on this one.  I left initially for the ease of phone bumping during my super slow eater's marathon eating sessions.  I have really bonded with the FB girls yet, at work, TB is easy so I get on here during my breaks.  I do feel different now that I spend a lot of time on the FB group because I am not an insider on TB group, you know?  I come back because I know that I have things to talk to mtb21 about, I know indomesticbliss IRL and I find posts useful to read and comment on from time to time.

    Regarding mrs.fowler, there isn't/wasn't FB drama.  But you brought the FB group to TB board which neither group wanted.  Don't play innocent victim here.  Whoever said your first name last night, that wasn't a new discovery for anyone--you were not discreet about that before FB even existed.  You weren't discreet about anything at all on TB.  If I remember correctly, you posted your blog, your town, and pictures of yourself in a bra and underwear on a regular basis for HDBD.  If you are comfortable with that, fine, but don't call people out on that alone.

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  • imagekwinkle1980:
    imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    Yes, that is true! We never had any bad feelings toward you FB gals. I didn't think we had a real problem, but apparently everyone hates my guts. Geez.

    I don't find you to be a controversial figure, kwinkle.  Really, the most I remember about you regularly is that I like your baby's name so there it is.

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  • imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    Case in point. This board has always been dominated by a few strong personalities, and it alienates alot of posters who find they actually have a voice and are listened to over on FB rather than talked down to and overlooked by someone hiding behind a screen name. Other screen names were just easy to play on and not targeted because of the way they regularly make others feel.

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  • imagerobynlynn83:
    imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    I'm with Kylayton on this one.  I left initially for the ease of phone bumping during my super slow eater's marathon eating sessions.  I have really bonded with the FB girls yet, at work, TB is easy so I get on here during my breaks.  I do feel different now that I spend a lot of time on the FB group because I am not an insider on TB group, you know?  I come back because I know that I have things to talk to mtb21 about, I know indomesticbliss IRL and I find posts useful to read and comment on from time to time.

    Regarding mrs.fowler, there isn't/wasn't FB drama.  But you brought the FB group to TB board which neither group wanted.  Don't play innocent victim here.  Whoever said your first name last night, that wasn't a new discovery for anyone--you were not discreet about that before FB even existed.  You weren't discreet about anything at all on TB.  If I remember correctly, you posted your blog, your town, and pictures of yourself in a bra and underwear on a regular basis for HDBD.  If you are comfortable with that, fine, but don't call people out on that alone.

    Well said. I don't feel like I can post here without being "side eyed." 

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  • I guess I haven't been around enough. I have no idea what is going on. So based on my understanding the reason the board has been so slow is because some people moved to the FB group then it became the fb group vs tb group? I never asked to get on fb because that's just a little to personal for me. I have pics of my kids and my hubs here, but my fb page is very personal. Everything is kept pretty private because I do invites with my home address and acutally use my fb to keep in touch with IRL friends. Why do the fb girls or tb girls feel it isn't okay to just do both and not have there drama involved. I am just trying to understand what's going on here.

    ETA- I remember everyone that is in this post with the exception of the AEs of course. I wouldn't have sid-eyed any of your posts, (but I guess thats because I don't even know who has gone to fb and who is just not posting regularly anymore)

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  • imagekylayton:
    imagerobynlynn83:
    imageiluvmylab:
    imagekylayton:
    imagekwinkle1980:

    I disagree that it was meant to be funny. Mrs. Graves told us why it was happening: she said it was a long time coming and called us hoity-toity bishes. Some AE's agreed with her post.

    Also, you FB folks maintained that you left merely for phone-bumping simplicity, and now you are changing your tune?

    In all fairness, she said some. I liked TB but haven't been around much because I've really bonded with the FB girls and felt like no one really even knew who I was here. 

    I still remember you.  And there have been posts before about us mentioning that we wish some of the FB girls would come back.

    I'm with Kylayton on this one.  I left initially for the ease of phone bumping during my super slow eater's marathon eating sessions.  I have really bonded with the FB girls yet, at work, TB is easy so I get on here during my breaks.  I do feel different now that I spend a lot of time on the FB group because I am not an insider on TB group, you know?  I come back because I know that I have things to talk to mtb21 about, I know indomesticbliss IRL and I find posts useful to read and comment on from time to time.

    Regarding mrs.fowler, there isn't/wasn't FB drama.  But you brought the FB group to TB board which neither group wanted.  Don't play innocent victim here.  Whoever said your first name last night, that wasn't a new discovery for anyone--you were not discreet about that before FB even existed.  You weren't discreet about anything at all on TB.  If I remember correctly, you posted your blog, your town, and pictures of yourself in a bra and underwear on a regular basis for HDBD.  If you are comfortable with that, fine, but don't call people out on that alone.

    Well said. I don't feel like I can post here without being "side eyed." 

    Amen.

  • i would REALLY like to know why you LADIES impersonated me. and if its because of my yawn boring comment, get the f over it, so what i made a comment, i was bored so i said it. i come back from a movie with a headache because of 4 chatty kathy's behind me the whole time during the movie and i come back to this crap. this is exactly why im not on the stupid fb group
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  • imageCamJack mom:
    I guess I haven't been around enough. I have no idea what is going on. So based on my understanding the reason the board has been so slow is because some people moved to the FB group then it became the fb group vs tb group? I never asked to get on fb because that's just a little to personal for me. I have pics of my kids and my hubs here, but my fb page is very personal. Everything is kept pretty private because I do invites with my home address and acutally use my fb to keep in touch with IRL friends. Why do the fb girls or tb girls feel it isn't okay to just do both and not have there drama involved. I am just trying to understand what's going on here.

    Like I said, I am predominately on the FB group (my FB page is private and I am FB friends with the people I want to be from the group) but I come here during the work week--Im not ever on the computer at home--I have four kids to chase after (and give attention to--yeah, I took the side eye on that one personally naturalblonde).  I just think the comments like the girl who called Stephers out on being "annoying" and saying the board is better off without some people probably made people not feel comfortable. 

    I know that I was a very active poster before Jude was born but that barely any of you know who I am or have any interest in having a discussion with me on here anymore--that doesn't hurt my feelings but I can see where other people don't feel as welcomed.  I honestly think the TB/FB thing became an issue when MrsFowler came running to the boards claiming that someone had done her wrong on the FB group (which hadn't happened).

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    i would REALLY like to know why you LADIES impersonated me. and if its because of my yawn boring comment, get the f over it, so what i made a comment, i was bored so i said it. i come back from a movie with a headache because of 4 chatty kathy's behind me the whole time during the movie and i come back to this crap. this is exactly why im not on the stupid fb group

     

    Maybe you should take your own advice.

    "Get the F over it"

    All they did was make fun of your name. Also it was not the entire FB group. As it has been mentioned several times already. I am not in the FB group but I still like and respect the ladies in it. 

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    I guess I haven't been around enough. I have no idea what is going on. So based on my understanding the reason the board has been so slow is because some people moved to the FB group then it became the fb group vs tb group? I never asked to get on fb because that's just a little to personal for me. I have pics of my kids and my hubs here, but my fb page is very personal. Everything is kept pretty private because I do invites with my home address and acutally use my fb to keep in touch with IRL friends. Why do the fb girls or tb girls feel it isn't okay to just do both and not have there drama involved. I am just trying to understand what's going on here.

    ETA- I remember everyone that is in this post with the exception of the AEs of course. I wouldn't have sid-eyed any of your posts, (but I guess thats because I don't even know who has gone to fb and who is just not posting regularly anymore)

    Common concern, but just have to debunk this... Being the FB group in no way compromises any privacy. Other members literally only see what the public could see when they look at your page. You have to actually add a fellow member as a friend before they can see anything at all. To anyone outside the group, it doesn't exist. There are no traces of it visible to anyone outside the group, at all. Also, the group is very thoroughly monitored to ensure there are no creepy lurkers or people who don't belong. The members have all been verified as real Dec '11 moms who were TB members.

    It is a very close knit, loving, supporting, tolerant group. I honestly love those ladies. Which is why "we" feel attacked and demonized when there are passive aggressive comments made on here against "us" about being full of "high school drama". And it has pretty much always been someone on TB who makes some kind of comment about it and it got really old. It's simply not true.

  • imageMoozilla11:

    imageprairiegurl24:
    i would REALLY like to know why you LADIES impersonated me. and if its because of my yawn boring comment, get the f over it, so what i made a comment, i was bored so i said it. i come back from a movie with a headache because of 4 chatty kathy's behind me the whole time during the movie and i come back to this crap. this is exactly why im not on the stupid fb group

     

    Maybe you should take your own advice.

    "Get the F over it"

    All they did was make fun of your name. Also it was not the entire FB group. As it has been mentioned several times already. I am not in the FB group but I still like and respect the ladies in it. 

    Just what I was going to say! But I usually try to stay away from arguements on here, so thank you for saying it for me Smile

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  • imageFletcha:
    imageCamJack mom:

    I guess I haven't been around enough. I have no idea what is going on. So based on my understanding the reason the board has been so slow is because some people moved to the FB group then it became the fb group vs tb group? I never asked to get on fb because that's just a little to personal for me. I have pics of my kids and my hubs here, but my fb page is very personal. Everything is kept pretty private because I do invites with my home address and acutally use my fb to keep in touch with IRL friends. Why do the fb girls or tb girls feel it isn't okay to just do both and not have there drama involved. I am just trying to understand what's going on here.

    ETA- I remember everyone that is in this post with the exception of the AEs of course. I wouldn't have sid-eyed any of your posts, (but I guess thats because I don't even know who has gone to fb and who is just not posting regularly anymore)

    Common concern, but just have to debunk this... Being the FB group in no way compromises any privacy. Other members literally only see what the public could see when they look at your page. You have to actually add a fellow member as a friend before they can see anything at all. To anyone outside the group, it doesn't exist. There are no traces of it visible to anyone outside the group, at all. Also, the group is very thoroughly monitored to ensure there are no creepy lurkers or people who don't belong. The members have all been verified as real Dec '11 moms who were TB members.

    It is a very close knit, loving, supporting, tolerant group. I honestly love those ladies. Which is why "we" feel attacked and demonized when there are passive aggressive comments made on here against "us" about being full of "high school drama". And it has pretty much always been someone on TB who makes some kind of comment about it and it got really old. It's simply not true.

    You sure showed us! Last night's joke proved how mature and kind you are.

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  • imagekwinkle1980:
    imageFletcha:
    imageCamJack mom:

    I guess I haven't been around enough. I have no idea what is going on. So based on my understanding the reason the board has been so slow is because some people moved to the FB group then it became the fb group vs tb group? I never asked to get on fb because that's just a little to personal for me. I have pics of my kids and my hubs here, but my fb page is very personal. Everything is kept pretty private because I do invites with my home address and acutally use my fb to keep in touch with IRL friends. Why do the fb girls or tb girls feel it isn't okay to just do both and not have there drama involved. I am just trying to understand what's going on here.

    ETA- I remember everyone that is in this post with the exception of the AEs of course. I wouldn't have sid-eyed any of your posts, (but I guess thats because I don't even know who has gone to fb and who is just not posting regularly anymore)

    Common concern, but just have to debunk this... Being the FB group in no way compromises any privacy. Other members literally only see what the public could see when they look at your page. You have to actually add a fellow member as a friend before they can see anything at all. To anyone outside the group, it doesn't exist. There are no traces of it visible to anyone outside the group, at all. Also, the group is very thoroughly monitored to ensure there are no creepy lurkers or people who don't belong. The members have all been verified as real Dec '11 moms who were TB members.

    It is a very close knit, loving, supporting, tolerant group. I honestly love those ladies. Which is why "we" feel attacked and demonized when there are passive aggressive comments made on here against "us" about being full of "high school drama". And it has pretty much always been someone on TB who makes some kind of comment about it and it got really old. It's simply not true.

    You sure showed us! Last night's joke proved how mature and kind you are.

    Stop with your assumptions. You clearly have a reading comprehension problem.

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    I guess I haven't been around enough. I have no idea what is going on. So based on my understanding the reason the board has been so slow is because some people moved to the FB group then it became the fb group vs tb group? I never asked to get on fb because that's just a little to personal for me. I have pics of my kids and my hubs here, but my fb page is very personal. Everything is kept pretty private because I do invites with my home address and acutally use my fb to keep in touch with IRL friends. Why do the fb girls or tb girls feel it isn't okay to just do both and not have there drama involved. I am just trying to understand what's going on here.

    ETA- I remember everyone that is in this post with the exception of the AEs of course. I wouldn't have sid-eyed any of your posts, (but I guess thats because I don't even know who has gone to fb and who is just not posting regularly anymore)

    Common concern, but just have to debunk this... Being the FB group in no way compromises any privacy. Other members literally only see what the public could see when they look at your page. You have to actually add a fellow member as a friend before they can see anything at all. To anyone outside the group, it doesn't exist. There are no traces of it visible to anyone outside the group, at all. Also, the group is very thoroughly monitored to ensure there are no creepy lurkers or people who don't belong. The members have all been verified as real Dec '11 moms who were TB members.

    It is a very close knit, loving, supporting, tolerant group. I honestly love those ladies. Which is why "we" feel attacked and demonized when there are passive aggressive comments made on here against "us" about being full of "high school drama". And it has pretty much always been someone on TB who makes some kind of comment about it and it got really old. It's simply not true.

    You sure showed us! Last night's joke proved how mature and kind you are.

    You obviously have an over-assumption problem. I was very clearly trying to explain a possible motive behind the quite innocent shenanigans. To assume i personally had a part in it is a big stretch. But i'm flattered you think i'm capable of such wit, so thank you Big Smile

  • No comprehension problem. I meant you as in the facebook group, not you specifically.

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