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My poor DH...

freeburger16freeburger16 member
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must think he is never getting laid again. 

I have no sex drive and would rather sleep than do almost anything.  He quit even trying weeks ago.  

I need to just give in and give it up...and maybe shave my legs so he isn't completely repulsed by me :P

Anyone else have no interest in sex these days?  I JUST got my sex drive back after being on BCP for 10 years, and now it's gone again.  

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  • Ricky BobbyRicky Bobby

    I feel your pain. I have ZERO desire to do anything. Every now and then I will make myself. Once I'm into it, it's like hey! this is fun!

     

     

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  • luckyluvrluckyluvr member
    I'm always surprised by the Nesties whose husbands just "understand" or give up asking. My DH wouldn't put up with that. I think the longest he's gone is the 6 weeks after DS was born. I anticipate that this time, too. I am with you on the sex drive, though. The only time I have one is when I'm off BCP and not pg. I was off only 1 months before BFP with both my pregnancies, so I got a full 2 months total in the last 9 years!
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  • sweetmelissa0707sweetmelissa0707 member
    I hate to say, but i'm definitely hitting negative numbers on the scale of sex drive,  I love sleep too much. Now, that being said, when (if and when) I give it up, it's great, but getting there is so like a chore.Tongue Tied
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  • oliviasprettymommyoliviasprettymommy
    sex sounds like the worst thing in the world to me right now
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  • britti<3britti<3
    DH and i swap. If I have a sex drive he is completely not into it due to the fact that there is an actual person who now has a name in my belly. If he wants it I fake being asleep so I don't have to even argue lol.
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  • Temp865949250007475Temp865949250007475

    I have no desire either...EVER. 

    However, my DH never gives up :)  to be honest (at risk of tmi) a big chunk of the time I just use my hand.  I can be lazy that way, and he loves it.  I see it as a win win.   

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  • freeburger16freeburger16 member
    imageMarissaS:

    I have no desire either...EVER. 

    However, my DH never gives up :)  to be honest (at risk of tmi) a big chunk of the time I just use my hand.  I can be lazy that way, and he loves it.  I see it as a win win.   

    Nothing wrong with that - whatever gets the job done!  I'll suggest a good ol fashioned hand job later and see how DH reacts :P

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  • djdavisdjdavis
    I have no drive either! I occasionally give it up just to please DH. Usually he will settle for a little mouth action, which I dont mind giving up if it means getting out of sex!
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  • TennisWife815TennisWife815 member
    My sex drive is finally back. I was on BCP for 10 years, it came back for the brief period we TTC, and then it was gone again. I'm sure he's glad that i can stay up past 10 again and not experience nausea. I'm sure that will come and go, but for now we'll enjoy it. ?
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  • vlahopvlahop member
    I have ZERO sex drive!  I have not had any the whole pregnancy... poor dh
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  • soon2BTomswifesoon2BTomswife
    I would love to be able to have sex. We can't because I had cerclage done (stitch in cervix). Its one thing when I don't want to but another thing when you're told you can't. It has been a LONG month and I can't wait for the stitches to come out at around 34 weeks!
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