TTC After a Loss

What I want to write on FB

This is what I want to put as my status:

Any non-mommies out there who want to schedule a hang out time with me? I'm sick of all the "moms" having playdates together and being part of their cool exclusive club. Well, it's time to form my own club! Who's in?

Too bad I don't have the guts. And I know that I would get snarky comments from all the moms and no comments from non-mommies because all my friends have kids. I feel so alone and deserted right now. Why can't we have any friends who don't have kids????

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Started TTC June 2010
BFP #1
07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
- All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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Re: What I want to write on FB

  • I'd comment Big Smile

    I'm sorry your feeling this way. ((hugs))

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  • I'm so sorry, Jenn!!!!  I wish we lived closer! (even the same country would be good for a start).  I don't know what to tell you--I know the feeling of being left out.  I have hidden so many people from my feed I'm down to bare bones--not even people I want to get updates on :(

    Just wanted to let you know you are not alone and that I am sending giant HUGE (((hugs))) to you!

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
  • I totally wish we could hang out!  It would be so fun!  I feel your pain, and I wish it were different for you. Until it is (and it will be--you'll meet that perfect friend at some point), we're always here!

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  • Thanks ladies. I know I'm just being a little drama queen and having a pity party but it's making me really grumpy. The one couple we had who didn't have kids and I was excited to hang out with them more this summer, are getting divorced. Which I'm obviously sad for them but also kind of sad for me at the same time. Boo.
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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • imageRosiePeare:
    imagejenn0021:

    This is what I want to put as my status:

    Any non-mommies out there who want to schedule a hang out time with me? I'm sick of all the "moms" having playdates together and being part of their cool exclusive club. Well, it's time to form my own club! Who's in?Too bad I don't have the guts. And I know that I would get snarky comments from all the moms and no comments from non-mommies because all my friends have kids. I feel so alone and deserted right now. Why can't we have any friends who don't have kids????

    I would love to be your date, jenn! Furthermore, I would like to suggest that our date will involve martinis and fancy cocktails at 11PM out at a sassy bar in gorgeous clothing without a spit-up stain in sight.

    YesDrinks

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
  • imageRosiePeare:
    imagejenn0021:

    This is what I want to put as my status:

    Any non-mommies out there who want to schedule a hang out time with me? I'm sick of all the "moms" having playdates together and being part of their cool exclusive club. Well, it's time to form my own club! Who's in?

    Too bad I don't have the guts. And I know that I would get snarky comments from all the moms and no comments from non-mommies because all my friends have kids. I feel so alone and deserted right now. Why can't we have any friends who don't have kids????

    I would love to be your date, jenn! Furthermore, I would like to suggest that our date will involve martinis and fancy cocktails at 11PM out at a sassy bar in gorgeous clothing without a spit-up stain in sight.

    I like the way you think. Big Smile

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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • (((hugs))))

    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • Not sure if this would work for you, but several years ago most of my friends were married and starting to have babies and I wasn't there yet...I went on Meetup.com and found a book club (although there are meetups all over for all different kinds of interests: movies, wine, dinner, books, knitting, etc...).  Anyway, the group I joined was just ladies who meet once a month to talk about a book and drink wine.  Over the last 2 years I have made several close friends and see many of them more than once a month...I just got tired of being the only single girl w/out a boyfriend or a baby! 

    BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
    BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
    BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15

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