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*UPDATE*Keep me in your thoughts....

psychmajormompsychmajormom member
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*UPDATE* well of course the babies and pg ppl were there so I freaked out a little bit beforehand but surprisingly I was okay. They all saw wedding pics and gushed over them then the dreaded question popped up "so y'all thinking about kids yet?" So I just politely said "yes, actually, we have four in heaven now, we are working on our take home baby, thanks for asking." and that was the end of that. Thank you all for your T&p during my moment of weakness! love you girls!! I'm about to be headed to the first day of DH's family reunion and there will be some newborns there and a couple pregnant cousins, hopefully they will all leave me alone or want to see wedding pics. I'm hoping I don't have a meltdown, wish me luck....
(USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
 "An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby's birth. Then whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth"

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Re: *UPDATE*Keep me in your thoughts....

  • kiki4kiki4 member
    Good luck - I hope the reunion is enjoyable and you aren't bombarded with baby stuff. ((hugs))
    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    (((hugs))) I hope it goes well and you have a good time!

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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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  • ct103ct103 member
    Good luck, enjoy the time with family, and BE HONEST if you're feeling so inclined. You're in my thoughts lady, wishing you nothing but the best!
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  • Smash2009Smash2009 member
    Stay strong, and try to have fun! We will be thinking of you and sending good T&P ((big hug))
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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    I hope it goes ok for you. Hugs

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

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  • 1MrsDunn1MrsDunn
    Good luck - hopefully it turns out better than you could hope for!
    BFP #1 4/11/11 - EDD 12/23/11 - m/c at 9 weeks BFP #2 11/18/11 - EDD 7/24/11 - m/c at 5 weeks Anniversary My Ovulation Chart
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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    Thinking of you! Please let us know how it goes!
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member
    sending lots of positive thoughts your way..
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • jackiemaryjackiemary member
    Lots of prayers sent your way!
    Jackie (26) & Josiah (28) married December 27, 2009
    TTC #1 since August 2011
    BFP #1 3/27/12, EDD 12/9/12, Natural miscarriage at 5w2d on 4/7/12
    Diagnosed with PCOS 7/1/13
    Pursuing adoption from Ethiopia 7/2013-currently on the wait list! 
    BFP #2 9/16/13, EDD 5/28/14 Beta #1: 363, Beta #2:876, @ 7w1d Heartbeat:147
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  • klbowieklbowie member
    Good Luck!!!  I hope all goes well.
    BFP#1 02/19/12 missed mc 03/30/12 1st D&C 05/16/12 2nd D&C 08/17/12 
    BFP #2 06/26/13 EDD 2/26/14 Hoping for my rainbow baby!
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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    I'm glad you were okay, I'm glad you were honest when you were asked the dreaded question--but mostly, I'm glad it's over! Enjoy the rest of your night!
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • lsuhoneybadgerlsuhoneybadger member
    Glad it went well and you handled things in such a great way!
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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