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Pre-delivery pampering....
Im going to be having my third c-section in November and Im wondering if you guys have heard of having a pampering party for the mom to be that involves only a handful of friends of family (Im thinking my moms (birth mom and step mom) my two teen aged sisters and two of my best friends) and the day before my c-section going to get our hair cut, nails done (feet too 
) buy new "waterproof" makeup and possibly a wax. I just read an article about mom's who knew the exact date of surgery or delivery doing that so they feel refreshed and beautiful after delivery (Im thinking, doing my makeup right before I go in so everything stays and doesnt melt off lol) Im just wondering if anyone had done something similar and if so, am I missing anything to save up for? Or maybe if you have done something like this, what did you guys do? Im looking for ideas on how to make myself more excited because the delivery part just gets me really down about my appearance (sorry to sound only interested in my looks, but everyone likes to look good, doesnt matter what type of picture is being taken) Any friendly or encouraging advice would be appreciated!
) buy new "waterproof" makeup and possibly a wax. I just read an article about mom's who knew the exact date of surgery or delivery doing that so they feel refreshed and beautiful after delivery (Im thinking, doing my makeup right before I go in so everything stays and doesnt melt off lol) Im just wondering if anyone had done something similar and if so, am I missing anything to save up for? Or maybe if you have done something like this, what did you guys do? Im looking for ideas on how to make myself more excited because the delivery part just gets me really down about my appearance (sorry to sound only interested in my looks, but everyone likes to look good, doesnt matter what type of picture is being taken) Any friendly or encouraging advice would be appreciated!
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Re: Pre-delivery pampering....
I looked like death in all of my pp pics from having DS. I was happy to wear make-up with DD.
Always check with your hospital/OB about rules concerning waxing, nail polish and make-up. Often, they prefer to shave you during prep to ward off infections and don't recommend that you shave/wax yourself.
I've never heard of such a thing. While I love pampering, it strikes me as a bit AWish and I would feel awkward about it for a few reasons. I wouldn't be comfortable asking my friends and family to spend so much money on me and take off work the day before my CS. I also don't think any of this would make me feel better on the actual day of delivery-with a CS, frankly, you're a bit out of it and for me, makeup was the last thing on my mind when I had DD.
For me, I'd probably just suggest we get together for lunch and pedis on the Saturday before my CS, be prepared to pay for everyone (since it was my idea), and not worry about the wax, mani, etc (especially since as PP mentioned your hospital may recommend against those things).
Oh I didnt even think of anyone paying for me. I would definitely pay for myself and I was thinking a quick lunch at my house before leaving. I didnt think of anyone feeling inclined to pay for myself. I was just thinking that it would be nice especially since I usually get down about looking at pics and seeing myself look in such a bad state. Of course if it wasnt planned there would be no idea to know when to plan such an event but Ive had my D-date since I was ten weeks. Its already scheduled for a monday and everything
Since you did say that Im majorly questioning whether I should invite anybody and just do it by myself, I dont want to put anyone in a position where they feel they HAVE to pay for me. Thats just tacky.
I also didnt think of asking about what their procedures are for waxing, shaving or even acrylic nails...I do remember them removing my nail polish with my first but cant remember if I had acrylic or not with my second. I will definitely ask, thank you ladies!
I had a mani/pedi before mine. I also took a nice warm shower before I went in for my planned c/s and put make-up on except eye make-up because I knew I would cry so much. I fixed my hair in a cute but practical way. I felt good when I went in. My mom bought me a cute nursing nightgown and robe to wear in the hospital. This made me feel more human after a couple days of wearing the hospital gown. I made sure to put on some make-up each day too after I took a shower.
Edited for spelling.