Asids from our own clinic which has a very strong DE program, we also have an appt with CC.RM to discuss DE. Where else should we go? All options are on the table. Location of the clinic isn't important. If you have any recommendations, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks.
Baby girl Lila born 2013.
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Re: Which DE programs should we check out?
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Can you tell me more? I'm just starting to learn about our options. Initially, we've discussed wanting to do PGD even with a donor cycle. That would be an option, right?
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Unless it is something with H, I am not sure you would need to do PGD since donors are screened. But if it is something you felt you really needed, I am sure you could have it done.
Fresh you sync up your cycle with the donor and unless you do a shared cycle you keep all the eggs. It is more expensive that doing frozen.
Frozen is like a FET, once you are ready they thaw and fert and transfer.
We chose frozen for since we would be cycling out of state, it is much cheaper and I (we) don't to end up with alot of extra frosties.
Let me know what other questions you have...
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Me: 36, DH: 42
Dx: DOR and MFI
DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal
IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!
SAIFW/PAIFW
I have been working with ORM for a third and final fresh cycle in Aug/Sept given that our one shot frozen cycle this month doesn't take. I have heard really good things about their DE program. Good luck AmCheri. Hoping for the best for you!
Countless BFN(s)
Moving to IVF
IVF1 (ICSI): Long Lupron
6R. 3F. 3DT. 8Cell 1Grade 2Embies. 1Frostie.
Beta 1/22: 14 Beta 1/24: 24 Beta 1/26: 28
Round One Result: Chemical Pregnancy
Pressing Forward
IVF2 (ICSI/AH/ACU): Microdose Lupron Flare
13R. 11F. 5DT. 2TFR'ed. 1Frostie.
Round Two Result 4/30: Harsh BFN
FET. 2TFR'ed.
Round Three Result 6/25: BFN
Where do we go from here?
Moving forward with CCRM in 2013
ODWU revealed blocked tube(s). Lap 2/15.
Bilateral Tubal Ligation. Stage IV Endo.
Finally some (tough) answers.
IVF3 (ICSI/CCS): Antagonist with EPP
13R. We have 3 CCS Normal Embryos!
Lupron Depot: May 2013 to August 2013
Long awaited FET on 9/3. 2TFR'ed.
BFP on FRER 5dp5dt: IN SHOCK!
Beta1 9/10: 152.7! Beta2 9/12: 378! Beta3 9/14: 1224!
1st ultrasound 10/1: TWO beautiful heartbeats! Overjoyed!
Thanks Edwina. I'm going to email you. We got our protocol if we insist on trying again. Antagonist with testosterone priming. Thought you might have a comment or two.
As for DE, does splitting refer to splitting the cycle with one or more other recipients?
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
ETA seems to be done at CCRM, sort of a bumped up EPP but I don't really get the details.
I second everything Lynn said. Priorities for me were #1 - live birth rate and #2 proximity to me. I'm also in the middle of my cycle at SDFC, so far so good. Best of luck to you in your decision making.
I second everything Lynn said. Priorities for me were #1 - live birth rate and #2 proximity to me. I'm also in the middle of my cycle at SDFC, so far so good. Best of luck to you in your decision making.
I'm going to email you soon. I have to work tomorrow, but I'll try to sit down this weekend. I'd like to ask you some questions. Thanks for your help Edwina. :-)
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
reb, thanks for the helpful info. I'll have more questions once I figure out what our options are and what our priorities are. So overwhelming! But you and the other ladies are great. Thanks for helping me keep my wits about me.
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Thanks for the recommendation! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and this cycle. Keep us posted, and best of luck! Hugs :-)
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Thanks Lynn. So far, I'm just not pleased with my clinic's donor pool. Have to keep looking. Thanks for your recommendations. It's tremendously helpful. I'm sure I'll have more questions for you as we move along.
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Thanks for the recommendation. We'll check it out. I can see the virtue in being "matched" and taking some of the work out of the process for you. I'm not sure if it's right for us, but it's good to have options. Good luck! Hugs :-)
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Thanks RPL. I may have some questions for you about ORM, if you don't mind. I'm pulling for you sweets. Keep up the fabulous work. :-)
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
That was my issue with him too. I so wanted to cycle there because of his rating and my family is all in IL, so travel would have been an airline ticket. But, between the pool and the guarantee package, I was not sold. My place had a large pool for what I was looking for. I do have some complaints about them, but I suppose you will have that anywhere. I am excited to see how everything pans out for you and what direction you go in!
I have known several (5-6?) couples who have had success with DE in Po.rtl.and O.R..M program. I'm in Michigan and all have traveled out there to cycle due to great stats and very affordable program.
C.C.R...M is great too but expensive.
I second the RBA recommendation for the frozen egg bank. Its one of the least expensive programs, highly successful, no wait to find a donor, and convienent if you live out of town. They use the link below but when I clicked on locations it looks like there are several choices for frozen programs.
https://www.myeggbank.com/donor-eggs/index.php?Fees-4
Good luck with whatever you decide.
We went through Shady Grove and were very happy with them. They have split cycles where you share the eggs from a fresh cycle with one or two other recipients. They also have a 6-cycle guarantee program which was a great option for us.
I wish you the best moving forward!
IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!