TTC after 35

Update- IVF consult

Somehow made it to my consult and back even though I'm having the busiest week at work!

RE isn't necessarily opposed to us doing more IUI's but think's it make sense to be more aggressive. Their IVF stats are 44% success for my age range, live birth rate is 35%, but we won't dwell on that.  They will start me out on an IVF drug protocol which would look like some estrogen supplementation right before my next period, (I think that's what he said) then 450 gonal and 200 menopur a day. OY VEY! That would pretty much be it. He thinks theres a very good chance I'll get 8-10 follicles on that protocal. He doesn't think we'll need ICSI, but we'll do another SA just in case and same w/ assisted hatching (mentally deducting $$$ signs in my head) but he said we'd sign the waiver on it just in case the embryologists needs to. He was very clear that if we do get too many follies we cannot move forward w/ an IUI cycle, we must do the IVF. I'm still unclear about the way this will be billed to my insurance, there was a little bit of a wink wink nod nod in regards to that, I'd love to stick my head in the sand about it, but I need it to crystal clear that this will proceed as an injectible cycle until further notice.

One thing that disturbed me is RE recommends transferring 3-4 embryos, the risk of multiples slightly horrifies me from a high risk pregnancy perspective, so we'd need to sleep on that one.I have a sonohystogram (spelling?) scheduled on Monday and then we'll be good to go at the end of June, barring a BFP this cycle!

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Re: Update- IVF consult

  • It sounds like a terrific plan!!
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  • I concur! It sounds like the RE is not messing around and wants you to get KU! I hope they clarify the insurance/billing issues so that you can relax about that and get going with the good stuff!
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  • Sounds like a good plan. The 35% includes lots of people who have worse chances than you so try not to worry about it. 

    I was in shock when I first heard at least 3 would be transferred for a 3 day transfer, but I got used to it. HOM are extremely unlikely at our age.

    I hope it works out.

  • imageannalisel:

    Sounds like a good plan. The 35% includes lots of people who have worse chances than you so try not to worry about it. 

    I was in shock when I first heard at least 3 would be transferred for a 3 day transfer, but I got used to it. HOM are extremely unlikely at our age.

    I hope it works out.

    This.  Sadly, at our age, a lot of them just aren't viable.  But bottomline is you can choose to put back less. Totally your call on what you are comfortable with.  Good luck!

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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  • Even though our ages are a factor, I'd be uncomfortable with transferring that many, too. I'm glad you have a plan and are moving forward.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
  • imagemtlaurel:
    Even though our ages are a factor, I'd be uncomfortable with transferring that many, too. I'm glad you have a plan and are moving forward.

    I transferred 4 on day 3 - 3 8 cell grade 1 (highest) and 2, and 1 7 cell grade 2. Only one made it to implantation and even that one wasn't good enough to make a baby.

    I would guess multiples are probably more likely for you than a typical 39 yo, dhreczuck, since you know you can get pregnant.

  • imageannalisel:

    imagemtlaurel:
    Even though our ages are a factor, I'd be uncomfortable with transferring that many, too. I'm glad you have a plan and are moving forward.

    I transferred 4 on day 3 - 3 8 cell grade 1 (highest) and 2, and 1 7 cell grade 2. Only one made it to implantation and even that one wasn't good enough to make a baby.

    I would guess multiples are probably more likely for you than a typical 39 yo, dhreczuck, since you know you can get pregnant.

    I know my eggs are crap.  I had 4 and we transferred all 4 (3 were deemed good quality), only 1 stuck and that wasn't good enough to make a baby either.  But do what you are comfortable with.  It also depends on the quality of the embies at the time of transfer if you decide to put back more or less.  Good luck and I'm glad you have a plan!

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • so exciting!  Fingers crossed!
    Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!
  • My eggs are crap too. I will be on 600iu of follistim and will be shocked if I get a decent amount of eggs. This whole process is going to make me anxious. I feel like I could transfer 100 and still not get a healthy baby. Ugh...bad day today.

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    6/20/11 mc @ 5wks
    10/19/11 mc @ 17wks- Trisomy 18
    IUI #1 4/26/12 BFN
    Moving on to IVF in July
    37 with DOR...fabulous
    ER 7/14/12 6R 5F, ET 7/17 3 embies, beta #1 7/26: 147, beta #2 7/28: 326, beta#3 7/30: 422...ugh, beta#4 7/31: 607...hopeful, beta #5 8/2: 1280, beta #6 8/7: 7184 and u/s shows 1 possibly 2 sacs! 8/14 2 beautiful heartbeats! 9/24 we are TEAM BLUE!!!!!
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  • Yay for having a plan! In my clinic I was already told that they only put one in...that's it so I don't have any choices in that matter.

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • WooHoo......Praying this is it :-)
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