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CPW: Showers

Showers with DH...[Poll]
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Re: CPW: Showers

  • If our shower was bigger, than definitely shower together more often (it's always nice to conserve water Big Smile. But its so small that we practically have to hug each other when we do shower together.
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  • I picked every once in a while because I like to hog the hot water too much and he just stays in my way! =)
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  • We shower together about75% of the time!  We have a giant shower and have the perfect routine down regarding who gets to wash hair first, etc. :)  That's our best time to talk about stuff.  No phones, no television, no computers......
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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member
    Showers together can be fun and sexy, but they're not really good for the functional aspect.  We don't shower at the same temperature, so that always involves some negotiation at the start.  Then, if I'm not directly under the shower stream, I am cold.  There also never seems to be time to shave my legs or rinse the conditioner out of my hair because we get distracted. 

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  • Living in the Desert we feel it is necessary to conserve water in any way possible. Ok thats not true, we have showered together ever since we moved in together but at least now we have a solid excuse.
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  • imageRosiePeare:
    We pretty much always shower together, as long as we're both home. It's actually when we either plan for the day or debrief after it. It works because our shower is big with a rainfall shower head at the center--but we can't wait to renovate and have a double shower head instead!

    That sounds nice!!  I wouldn't mind showering more with him, but we are both shower hogs, and he likes the water way hotter than I do...two shower heads might make it doable though...

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  • I'd be all about it if we had a bigger shower but taking turns to stay warm under the water isn't fun or sexy! 

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  • Ughhhhh!  I like taking my own shower, in and out and no fussing around.  But DH likes to try to pop in on occasion, but I would rather be in there alone.  Plus we have a very small shower and are not little people.  So we have to hold on to each other turning around so we don't fall out.  It's just not fun.
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