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I was SO rude (vent)

HopingforChangeHopingforChange member
in TTC After a Loss
to the lady who schedules HSG tests for my new IF clinic.  I feel so badly.  I called back, but she isn't there.  I am going to call tomorrow morning and apologize.  Because, after all, what I was upset about was that I am dealing with IF, not that she can't schedule me efficiently (though that isn't helping either).  I hate that this TTCAL thing takes over my life and makes me a person I do not want to be.  Rant over.
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Re: I was SO rude (vent)

  • kiki4kiki4 member
    I'm sorry you are having a rough day. ((hugs))
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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member
    Don't feel bad. People need to learn to be sympathetic.
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  • HopingforChangeHopingforChange member

    imageBootsOrHearts:
    Don't feel bad. People need to learn to be sympathetic.

    Boots, thanks.  Also, your siggy video is enough to make me feel MUCH better.  That makes me LOL every time!

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  • 1MrsDunn1MrsDunn

    imageBootsOrHearts:
    Don't feel bad. People need to learn to be sympathetic.

    I agree. I think the nurse who asked at my most recent OB apt. not once, but twice if I was there to get a prescription for BCP learned her lesson...and how to read a medical chart.

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  • klbowieklbowie member

    imageBootsOrHearts:
    Don't feel bad. People need to learn to be sympathetic.

    I agree.  Especially in there line of work.  This is something they should already be aware of.  I'm sorry you are frustrated!

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  • sammer818sammer818 member
    It takes a very big person to admit they might have acted out of line and apologize. Kudos to you. Very impressive!

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  • iheartcoffeeiheartcoffee

    imagesammer818:
    It takes a very big person to admit they might have acted out of line and apologize. Kudos to you. Very impressive!

    This! Im sorry you had a bad day though!  

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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    Don't beat yourself up. Whatever you said, I'm sure she's heard much worse. ((hugs))
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I'm sorry. I think its pretty cool that you tried calling back though, I'm sure she'll really appreciate that. (((hugs)))

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  • HopingforChangeHopingforChange member
    Thank you for the support, everyone.  I guess I just needed my own little version of nightly confessions.  It really helps to hear your words of support.
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  • shellycoshellyco member
    I think it is wonderful that you are willing to call and apologize- At the same time, it is important that she do her job correctly.  ((HUGS))
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