We only have 5 licensed providers in our area (where we live and I work). Yeah, its rural. 4 of them have been ruled out (major issues to me: not a smoke-free house, smells like dog-pee and dirty, etc.) We don't know anyone unlicensed well enough to trust them. Nannies are out of our price range. I'm limited to home daycares or centers. DH's work is too far away and he takes the train and takes classes after work, so finding a provider near his work is out.
We REALLY liked the last one we met.
Only problem is she wants a weekly fee to hold our spot...$50 a week! That's $1200 total! I think that's an absurd amount.
I'm almost positive she'd be willing to negotiate, I'm going to suggest having part of a deposit (and there's no way i will pay 1200 for nothing!) go toward the cost of service after the baby is born.
What were your daycare providers' deposit/policies to hold?
Re: Deposit to hold daycare spot?
DD's center required one week's tuition for the deposit. Since we followed through with the enrollment, the deposit is being held as the last week's tuition. As DD gets older (and the tuition goes down accordingly), they'll credit our account. When DD will no longer be attending, we won't have to pay for her final week.
I don't understand what you mean when you say "$50 a week! That's $1200 total!"
However it works out, the entire amount should count towards the amount you pay them, that's how any deposit should work. For instance, I remember (way back) when we got married we needed deposits on everythiing but it was all applied to the final bill. The only way you'd pay it for "nothing" is if you backed out.
Do you mean she wants to charge you $50 for each week between now and the time the baby needs to start day care? If so, that's ridiculous! If not, I'm confused about what she's asking you to do.
We had to pay a $50 deposit for each child which is no where near the weekly rate (we pay $400/week for both at an in home provider).
My twins are 5! My baby is 3!
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