So I haven't had a shower yet, however I have received gifts. I am keeping a list of things so I can send thank you cards to them too. However, the other day my husband found a card someone had placed in his truck addressed to us with $50 inside of it but the card was left unsigned. I'm really worried that whoever left it didn't realize they didn't sign it and will think we are ungrateful! I don't really know what to do in this situation.
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Re: Anonymous gift.
BFP 08/14/13 EDD 04/18/14 Natural MC 08/19/13
BFP 10/15/13 EDD 06/24/2014 Natural MC 10/23/13
Recurrent Miscarriage Panel done 11/06/13. Results= All normal
BFP 12/2/13 EDD July 30, 2014
Beta 12/3/13: 19,261!
U/S 12/13/13 heart rate 143 bpm!
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This is totally fascinating! It is possible that it's someone who might not seem to have the money, but gives generous gifts for babies, weddings, etc. My guess is an eccentric uncle with soft spot for babies.
If it were me, I'd look at other cards (like Christmas cards) to see who matches the handwriting, or show the card to a relative and see if they recognize the writing.
So your second anonymous gift is a detective case!
I'd let it be anonymous - just enjoy it! If you do figure it out and realize that they didn't mean to be anonymous, then thank them. But I think they want it to be a secret.
And don't wait for your shower to send thank yous - do them now. You'll be glad you did.