I went to her house the other time in FOREVER and gues what...
she has finally started to take down pictures of both BM's. Her walls are packed with pictures and she told me she wanted to replace some of them so she could have updated pictures. It only took FIVE years!
Re: On the MIL trend....
Oh I have. Her thing was that they are the boy's moms and so they are just as important blah blah blah. We just never went to her house.
MIL had a pic of DH and BM at her house when DH and I first started dating.. it was eventually replaced with a pic of DH, myself, SD, when I had my maternity pics done with DS.. (so over a year after we started dating)
I brought it up to DH that it made me uncomfortable and I guess her excuse was that she wanted SD to be able to see the picture.... yeah. weird
glad all our MIL's have come to their senses and taken down pics of BM's finally