Is there an appropriate number of items to have on a baby registry? I'm a FTM so I am in need of a lot of things and want to give people who have been asking us what we need options, but I don't want more then I need or to seem greedy?
Just wondering if there was etiquette for this or if it depends on the size of the shower... Thanks for your opinions.
Re: Repost from oct bmb: appropriate # of items on registry?
every registry is different... register for the items you would buy if you were the only one buying them...
the target registry says the avg registry has
23 in the $0-10 range
15 in the $11-30 range
23 in the $31-50 range
15 in the $50+ range
between 2 registries we have 95 items on ours
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Between my two showers I probably had about 50 guests and I had about 100 items on my BRU registry. About 20 items were actually bought off the registry by guests, and DH and I bought some of the remaining things, and several other things we got from other places.
There were definitely things on the registry we would have liked but could live without, like an exersaucer, extras of a couple of things like bibs or boppy covers, etc. We had things that cost less than $5 and a couple things that cost more than $75.
So, don't 'pad' your registry with things you don't actually need, but you don't only have to put exactly what you would buy on there, just put things you would like and think you'd use (without going nuts), make sure there is a range of prices and make sure there is at least as many items as you have guests, if not about x2 the guest count.
This. Also, add things with various amounts- so ppl dont feel obligated to spend a ton if they cant afford to
Agree with PPs that it should be items you would buy for yourself. I think we are at around 60, and many of those are things like cloth diapering items and rewashable wipes. I did add a couple of "cutesy" things for the baby, but they are also things I'd buy as little impulse items, and I know that some people shopping on registries like to have a cute item or two to throw into the cart.
Honestly, when you get the completion discount, you'll probably end up buying some of these items anyway.
I have about 74 items on ours. I'm hoping to purchase some of the big items (car seat, pack and play and stroller) within the next couple of weeks before the invites go out for the shower (my mother and mother in law are hosting).
I did not put everything on there. I purposefully left of things like nasal aspirators, first aid items, bath products because I wanted to purchase those on our own. They are small and affordable and can be bought over time.