I'm done with my SIL

LovesGreenBay · November 2008

BIL's wife. They have been having major problems since they got married 3 years ago. In the last month she has called twice to talk to DH that she was ready to leave his brother. In the last 2 weeks they have really worked on their relationship.

I just emailed her and asked if she was going to MIL's family Christmas in 2 weeks. This is what she emailed back.

I?ve decided that If Kevin isn?t attending social events neither am I. So since he isn?t attending the Nee Christmas we will be driving up together for Christmas with Eula. I just don?t feel the same way anymore so if he doesn?t care than I?m not going to go out of my way to show that I do. They all have their individual opinions of me anyway so it?s on Kevin from now on.

I can't get the font back to normal sorry. Anyway, I'm done now. I told her that it was sad because we were looking forward to spending time with her AND our neice. If she feels like she doesn't want to see us or her nephew then I'm done.