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I feel like screaming

My supervisor has essentially made my life hell for months now. I've talked about it wore how she has aired all of my private business on multiple occasions and is always prying into my medical stuff, especially IF. 

 I found out this morning that she is pregnant. I'm at work and I just want to go home and beat something up. Everybody else I can handle, it's just become a mild irritation. But her? This is just beyond horrible. I hate this. ;(

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Re: I feel like screaming

  • Oh, I am so sorry. That just seems like a nightmare of a situation, to say the least...I hope you can make it through the day and get home (or to a bar!) for a nice, big drink. Drinks IF sucks big time.
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  • I'm so sorry!  IF is so unfair.  I agree with PP, a nice BIG drink is in order today!

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  • I'm sorry!  Is it not enough that she has to be in your business, and share it with others?  Apparently not.  I know how much this can sting. 

    Lots of hugs, and we're here for you!  Hopefully the sting dies out soon! (Although it might never extinguish completely.)  

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  • This Friday sucks! I'm sorry :( go to the bathroom, pretend to throw up and go home! Or go shopping and to a nice lunch and drinks to make yourself feel better :)
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  • ((( hugs))) how frustrating!!! 
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  • Oh wow, I'm so sorry.  I know just how you must feel.
  • I'm sorry, that really sucks. I like the faking sick idea to go home. You deserve a break.
  • OMG You have GOT to be kidding me?!?!? Oh honey I am so so sorry. IF BLOWS and I hope you do something nice for yourself this weekend! xoxoxo
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    OMG You have GOT to be kidding me?!?!? Oh honey I am so so sorry. IF BLOWS and I hope you do something nice for yourself this weekend! xoxoxo

    This!

    UGH!!! 

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    I'm soooo sorry :(. That sucks so much. I agree with others...make something up and get out of there asap, then go do something nice for yourself. ((((hugs))))
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    I'm soooo sorry :(. That sucks so much. I agree with others...make something up and get out of there asap, then go do something nice for yourself. ((((hugs))))

    This!

    I am so sorry you have to deal with that! 

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  • So sorry.  Man, that sucks!!!
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  • That sucks!!!  

    I'm sorry I have been MIA lately, but did you ever talk to someone about being reassigned to that new position from that one complaint?  Are you enjoying it? Hating it? Hope that douche-canoe lady stops making your work environment such hell.  (((HUGS)))


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  • Thanks ladies. I don't think I've ever felt the need for the support here more than I did today. I just couldnt believe it when I heard. Of all people! Ugh, she's awful. She can only be a few weeks along since her husband just deployed with our unit two weeks ago. I am just so mad. I've gotten so used to it with other people - but her?? Angry

    Anyway, I got a good workout in at the gym, and now we're working on dinner and I'm making cookies. DH invited a friend over for dinner, and her young son...oh well. It wont be too bad since he's like, 4 or something. But we're thinking of going to see the Snow White and the Huntsman movie, it looks pretty bada$$ and maybe the action will make me feel better!

    Katib - I STILL have not pinned down my boss. I could catch a fish with my hands easier. But I'm going to keep trying. Honestly, I really just want to tell him that I know its wrong, I can take it up with legal if I chose. Thankfully I work with some high ranking guys now and they are going to help me get promoted (yay!) and I am really enjoying the break from Army crap. Working 4 hours a day is pretty freaking awesome. I would probably lose it if I had to work with my now KU-supervisor, or the newbie in our office who is ALSO pregnant!

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