I was going to comment that your tickers make it seem so much more "real"!! I have like a million questions. Do the girls know this is a potential adoptive placement? Does bio mom? When do they come? Agh! Nosy nosy me.
I have a weird obsession witth foster care stories.... dw doesn't feel the same.
TTC with PCOS since July 2011.
IVF Oct/Nov 2012
Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
Cautiously optimistic.
Erat, I am so happy for you. Amazing how your family is going to go from 2 to 5 in less than a year, and that you have opened up your hearts to these girls so readily.
I have a million questions too. I forget if all three kiddos are one case or if the girls are separate from Pumpkin. After TPR, how long until the adoption is finalized?
Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm. I am 35 and carrying. Endometriosis and DOR. AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish
Quick answers---Ask away! I forget what people know (even on my own blog).
*Girls know--some family members "leaked" the info sooner than later. All is well. They are excited. I am sure more drama will follow. But, they are glad now, which is good.
*Mom knows. All is also well. If the kids can't be with her, she is glad they can be together.
*All three kids are one case--trial is scheduled for June 15th. I am really really hoping it happens then and does not get postponed. When it was just Pumpkin, I was ok if it got postponed. Now, the sooner the resolution, the better.
Earliest actual termination (after appeals and such) -August. Earliest adoption date--Feb 15th (must be 6 mo. after placement.)
Re: Erat
Thanks
No one contested the placement letters (YAY!!!!) so it was my celebration.
A very happy celebration, indeed! I am so excited for you!!!
I was going to comment that your tickers make it seem so much more "real"!! I have like a million questions.
Do the girls know this is a potential adoptive placement? Does bio mom? When do they come? Agh! Nosy nosy me.
I have a weird obsession witth foster care stories.... dw doesn't feel the same.
IVF Oct/Nov 2012
Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
Cautiously optimistic.
Erat, I am so happy for you. Amazing how your family is going to go from 2 to 5 in less than a year, and that you have opened up your hearts to these girls so readily.
I have a million questions too. I forget if all three kiddos are one case or if the girls are separate from Pumpkin. After TPR, how long until the adoption is finalized?
AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish
IVF #1 - antagonist. Empty follicle syndrome. 1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
IVF #2 - antagonist. Ovulated early. 3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
sahm ~ toddler breastfeeder ~ cloth diaperer ~ baby wearer
Quick answers---Ask away! I forget what people know (even on my own blog).
*Girls know--some family members "leaked" the info sooner than later. All is well. They are excited. I am sure more drama will follow. But, they are glad now, which is good.
*Mom knows. All is also well. If the kids can't be with her, she is glad they can be together.
*All three kids are one case--trial is scheduled for June 15th. I am really really hoping it happens then and does not get postponed. When it was just Pumpkin, I was ok if it got postponed. Now, the sooner the resolution, the better.
Earliest actual termination (after appeals and such) -August.
Earliest adoption date--Feb 15th (must be 6 mo. after placement.)