TTC After a Loss

2nd cycle AF is late

Hi ladies! 

My doc told me I only had to wait 1 cycle before TTC after my d&c.  I was happy to see that AF arrived only 3 weeks after, so we could start TTC sooner than expected.  That first period was relatively normal.  I used an OPK which told me I o'd about 3 weeks ago.  I took a pregnancy test a few days ago, which was negative.  My past cycles were pretty regular, around 27 days.  I'm on day 33 right now, and AF is still MIA.  Has anyone else had a late 2nd cycle after d&c?  I'll try another test in a few days.  I would love it if I actually was pregnant, but I honestly don't feel like I am.

 

Thanks! 

BFP #1: 3/3/12, EDD: 11/11/12, Missed M/C: 4/3/12 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 4/6/12
BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
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Re: 2nd cycle AF is late

  • I am going to be nice here and explained to you that even though your OPK had a surge without continuing using OPKS and CHARTING with BBT can you definitively pinpoint O. It is common to have a surge and not O then O sometime later. Happens to me on most unmedicated cycles. So I ask. Do you chart? Do you temp? How do you know you are late?
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  • imageMissMheMhe:

    I am sorry for your loss.

    Sometimes you cycles post m/c are very, very weird. And it's almost pointless to compare pre m/c cycles with post m/c cycles.

    Yeah--my post MC cycle(s) have been nothing like my pre MC ones.  Mine are running longer.  I agree that you should try and track BBT to get a better understanding of what is going on with your body.  MCs can really do a number on your hormones and it can take awhile to get back on track.

    I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  Be sure to check out the blog (top of the page)--it has lots of answers to some questions that I know I had when I first came over :)

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    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Please check out the TTCAL blog, lots of great advice on OPK's and HPT's.

     https://www.ttcalblog.blogspot.com/p/for-newbies_22.html


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  • imagedaylights1:

    Most women's cycles are all over the place after a m/c.  Even if your first cycle was "normal" the following cycles may not be.  

    Continue taking tests every few days and if still does not come call your doctor.  GL!  

    This. You cannot yet know that it's "late" yet.

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  • ct103ct103 member

    I'm sorry for your loss.

    Cycles can be very screwy after a loss. Pre-loss mine were 27-29 days. Now they're anywhere from 25-35 days, and that's nothing compared to some other after-loss ladies! Be patient and call your doctor if you reach 60 days without AF or a positive HPT.

    Oh, and I highly recommend charting like many of these ladies have already said. It can really take the guess work out of a lot of this.

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  • imagejenek0213:

    ^^^ What PP said... my cycles after m/c were totally wonky (went from a normal 25-26 day cycle to 32-33).. you won't find any miracle wonderful 'squeeee, I'm pregnant" stories here.   Delayed O and an AF is usually the answer.

    And now I'm running from the phishy post....

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    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers   image

    "Severe truth is expressed with some bitterness."
  • TLR813TLR813 member

    Thanks everyone!  I didn't realize OPK's weren't completely accurate.  Charting seemed intimidating to me before, but looks like that's what I need to do!  Thanks again Smile

    BFP #1: 3/3/12, EDD: 11/11/12, Missed M/C: 4/3/12 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 4/6/12
    BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
    Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, Hypothyroidism
    BFP #3: Kendall Grace, born 9/30/13
    BFP #4: 9/3/14, EDD: 5/16/15, Missed M/C: 10/6/14 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 10/8/14
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  • imagejenek0213:

    ^^^ What PP said... my cycles after m/c were totally wonky (went from a normal 25-26 day cycle to 32-33).. you won't find any miracle wonderful 'squeeee, I'm pregnant" stories here.   Delayed O and an AF is usually the answer.

    And now I'm running from the phishy post....

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    HAHA!!  Love it...

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
  • imagejenek0213:

    ^^^ What PP said... my cycles after m/c were totally wonky (went from a normal 25-26 day cycle to 32-33).. you won't find any miracle wonderful 'squeeee, I'm pregnant" stories here.   Delayed O and an AF is usually the answer.

    And now I'm running from the phishy post....

    image

    I am literally laughing out loud at my desk right now!  I can't stop watching it.

    BFP #1 10/05/10 (EDD 6/10/11) , natural m/c 11/24/10 BFP #2 1/20/12 (EDD 9/20/12) , natural m/c 3/3/12 BFP #3 10/09/12 (EDD 6/20/12), hoping third times a charm
  • ct103ct103 member
    imageTLR813:

    Thanks everyone!  I didn't realize OPK's weren't completely accurate.  Charting seemed intimidating to me before, but looks like that's what I need to do!  Thanks again Smile

    That's good news. Enjoy charting, it can be a very educational experience. OPK's are accurate at detecting the LH surge just prior to ovulation, but they don't tell you if your egg has left the basket. They're still a wonderful tool, just better when used with charting. Good luck!

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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member
    imageTLR813:

    Thanks everyone!  I didn't realize OPK's weren't completely accurate.  Charting seemed intimidating to me before, but looks like that's what I need to do!  Thanks again Smile

    If you do decide to chart, check out Fertility Friend which has great tutorials on how to do it and can produce a neat chart for you, helping to pinpoint ovulation.  

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  • imagemom22labs:
    imagejenek0213:

    ^^^ What PP said... my cycles after m/c were totally wonky (went from a normal 25-26 day cycle to 32-33).. you won't find any miracle wonderful 'squeeee, I'm pregnant" stories here.   Delayed O and an AF is usually the answer.

    And now I'm running from the phishy post....

    image

    I am literally laughing out loud at my desk right now!  I can't stop watching it.

    I have to keep coming back here to see it again...it's perfect!

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
  • imagejenek0213:

    ^^^ What PP said... my cycles after m/c were totally wonky (went from a normal 25-26 day cycle to 32-33).. you won't find any miracle wonderful 'squeeee, I'm pregnant" stories here.   Delayed O and an AF is usually the answer.

    And now I'm running from the phishy post....

    image

    Haha that is freakin awesome!!! 

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  • imageTLR813:

    Thanks everyone!  I didn't realize OPK's weren't completely accurate.  Charting seemed intimidating to me before, but looks like that's what I need to do!  Thanks again Smile

    Charting isn't the worst thing in the world, but you will have to be disciplined enough to get up in the morning at the same time and take your temperature. If it really is too much to do, if you're having sex three times weekly, you'll hit the "fertile window" almost every time, you just won't know with great precision if and when you ovulated. Good luck with whatever you decide!


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