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what are the chances?!?

drtarajpdrtarajp member
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yesterday i posted about how i was sad becuase today was supposed my Dr appt for my 12 week u/s, and the first time we would see the baby. 
 
then this happened today- i was working on the 4th floor of my hospital (a step down unit) when a lady walks up to me out of no where and says 'is this where you get an u/s? my friend is pregnant and i am trying to find her so i can see the baby with her!'. seriously?!? the dr office where the OB offices are located are in a whole different building on the property. lucky for her i knew the OB offices were located on the 4th floor of that building and gave her directions. i work in a 1000 bed hospital with over 6500 employees and this lady finds ME on this bad day to talk about ultrasounds. ahh! vent over......
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BFP #1 4/10/12, lost at 8 weeks.
BFP #2 EDD 4/18/13. Its a Boy!


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  • SunshinyLeesSunshinyLees member

    Oh that sucks:(

    Here's my what are the chances-

    I hadn't been on facebook for over 2 weeks, I logged on the other day and the first thing I see in my news feed, right on the top is a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance of mine. Pretty much had a breakdown of tears right then.

    Ugh its so sad we have to go through this but I'm so glad we have this board to vent together;)

    Big hugs to you xx

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  • beckalycebeckalyce member

    Huge hug for you right now!

     

    Me 28 | DH 33
    Married 12.21.12
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  • kelly321kelly321 member
    imageSunshinyLees:

    Oh that sucks:(

    Here's my what are the chances-

    I hadn't been on facebook for over 2 weeks, I logged on the other day and the first thing I see in my news feed, right on the top is a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance of mine. Pretty much had a breakdown of tears right then.

    Ugh its so sad we have to go through this but I'm so glad we have this board to vent together;)

    Big hugs to you xx

    And that is why I'm avoiding FB like the plague. I'm sorry to both of you. That sucks.


    BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
    BFP2: 3/18/12, blighted ovum, natural m/c @ 7w4d
    BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence

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  • KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    That's ridiculous :(  So sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • weaslewamweaslewam member
    imagekelly321:
    imageSunshinyLees:

    Oh that sucks:(

    Here's my what are the chances-

    I hadn't been on facebook for over 2 weeks, I logged on the other day and the first thing I see in my news feed, right on the top is a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance of mine. Pretty much had a breakdown of tears right then.

    Ugh its so sad we have to go through this but I'm so glad we have this board to vent together;)

    Big hugs to you xx

    And that is why I'm avoiding FB like the plague. I'm sorry to both of you. That sucks.

    Yeah I'm avoiding facebook too. I'm sorry you had to go through that...

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    BFP 2 - October 30, 2012, Rainbow Baby Boy born July 14, 2013
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  • taz17apsutaz17apsu

    That sucks!  It is hard enough to go through this as it is and then somedays something like this hits you and all the pain comes flooding back.  Here is my what are the chances.  I work at a beauty store and 2 days after my missed m/c was diagnosed the sonogram tech that diagnosed me walked into the beauty store in her scrubs and everything.  I tried to avoid her but everywhere I went in the  store she was right around the corner.  I even hid in the corner for a few minutes hoping she would leave.  I thought she was gone, but then I got called to the front to help check and there she was waiting to check out.  I was like couldnt shake her.

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  • MprovencioMprovencio
    Omg. I am so sorry. I can completely relate. A coworker of mine got pregnant about the same time I did and today was her first prenatal appt.  She found out her due date was jan 12th......exact same date I would have been due. I was so heartbroken and bitter about it even though I should be happy for her. I have two other pregnant friends all due within the first two weeks of January and none of them were trying to get pregnant.  I feel horrible and judgemental for even saying it out loud but why does anyone night stand get to be a viable pregnancy and mine doesn't? Bad timing. 
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