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ashleyelizabeth23ashleyelizabeth23
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Hello all, I am new here, but guess I need a support group. I am 28 and have been TTC for 11 months, had MC in March at 5 weeks, and May at 8 weeks. Life seems so unfair sometimes.....My older sister has two children and got pregnant on the first try both times. Anyways, I don't have many people who understand and can relate.
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  • cielos1980cielos1980
    I am sorry for your loss I had a loss in March and this May as well so I can relate.  I hope your stay on the board is short and sweet.  Welcome.
    BFP #1 on 11/28/2011 Miscarriage on 12/28/2011; BFP #2 on 1/27/2012; Natural Miscarriage at 10 weeks on 3/10/2012; BFP #3 on 5/10/2012; Miscarriage on 5/24/2012; BFP #4 on 11/20/2012 due 7/28/2013---Miscarriage 12/21/2012
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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Live is VERY unfair sometimes, and we an all relate. Welcome to the board!
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • ashleyelizabeth23ashleyelizabeth23
    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome! I'm so glad I've found this little community!
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your losses.
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  • egsquaredegsquared member
    I'm so sorry for your losses, but you've come to a great place. Welcome to the board!
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    BFP #3 - 3/4/12, EDD 11/14/12, CP 3/11/12
    BFP #4 - 5/9/12, EDD 1/19/13, CP 5/11/12
    BFP #5 - 8/22/12, EDD 5/5/13, CP 8/24/12
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    BFP #6 - 2/3/13, EDD 10/15/13, DS 9/18/13 at 36w1d
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  • NBBride05NBBride05 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome!
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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member

    Welcome to the boards, I hope you'll find it helpful to be here. Everyone is truly understanding.

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  • Maryland BabyMaryland Baby member
    Welcome to the board! lot's of people can relate here. I hope your stay here is short. So sorry for your losses.. life is indeed unfair... 
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  • KDS1987KDS1987 member
    Welcome to the board. I am very sorry for both of your losses, you are right life can be very unfair sometimes. My older brother also has one child and one on the way after trying for all of one cycle both times. Amazing isnt it?? Apparently fertility isn't genetic! I hope you find the support you are looking for here, there are a lot of amazing people here!
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  • kiki4kiki4 member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board - I hope you are able to find comfort and support here.
    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member
    Welcome to the board 
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    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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  • psychmajormompsychmajormom member
    I'm very sorry for your losses, welcome to the board!
    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
     "An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby's birth. Then whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth"

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  • shellycoshellyco member
    I am so sorry for your losses, but welcome.  Life is so flucking unfair.  I hope this board can answer some of your questions and provide the support you need right now.
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  • JimiKirkmanJimiKirkman member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. How very painful, especially when coupled with the sight of your sister's "awesome ability." I wish there was a way to magically fix this, but until the time you've healed, welcome to the board. I hope your stay is helpful, and brief. (((hugs)))
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  • dtowngirldtowngirl
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    BabyFruit Ticker BFP #1 - 1-25-2012. Missed M/C discovered at 9 weeks 3 days. D&C 3-9-2012

    BFP #2 - 10-11-2012 Beta 38, 10-15-2012 Beta 518!.
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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    so sorry for your losses. welcome to the board!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • krisztina33krisztina33

    Welcome to the board--I'm so sorry for your losses.  My SIL is about to have her third and has 2u2 already.  She seems to have no trouble getting pg.  Life isn't fair, but you have found a community where we all truly understand the hurt and fear you are feeling.  Hope you can find some comfort here.

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    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    I am sorry honey, I can relate in a way and know you will find the comfort and support here. There are many women here who are in the same boat and others can't relate to us. Welcome.
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    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    I am so sorry for your loss, it's so hard when you don't have people in real life to talk to that understand.  (( Hugs )) welcome to the board.


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  • vanessa lynnevanessa lynne member
    So sorry for your loss...Welcome to the board.
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  • April!April! member

    I'm so sorry for your losses. (((hugs)))

    It's so hard when no one you know understands what you're going through. No one can, I think, unless they've experienced the same thing themselves. This board is so great because we've all been there too.  

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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member
    so sorry for your loss.. ((HUGS)).. welcome to the board..
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • MissRachel621MissRachel621 member
    I am so sorry for your losses.  Yes, it's incredibly unfair.  Especially twice, and especially so close together.  Welcome to the board, though, it really is a great community.
    BFP #1: 10.28.11 - Natural M/C: 12.9.11 @9w3d
    BFP #2: 1.30.12 - missed m/c found on 2.27.12 - D&C 3.1.12 @8w 
    BFP #3: 1.02.13 / EDD 8.31.13 / It's a boy!  - Baby Henry born 8.14.13
    BFP #4: 9.28.14 / EDD 5.27.15 / It's a girl! 

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