TTC After a Loss

didnt need that today

iv been so down lately and crying over the littlist  things i hate feeling so down :(

i went to the doctor today for a cough iv had and the darn PA said i had to take a pt b4 she could give me meds i told her i didnt need one and she insistead i had to get one to give me the correct meds so when she came back to say no your not it almost broght me to tears but i held it in, it made all those emotions come up about lossing our baby and it set the mood for the rest of my day and im just so bummed out today :(

Re: didnt need that today

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    I'm really sorry Sad  It is tough when things like that so acutely bring up painful emotions.  (( Hugs ))  


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  • iv thought of seeing one but i just havnt actually gotten the nerve to go see one i know it couldnt hurt me to talk to some one bc iv kept everything inside not knowing how to deal with everything.
  • I am so sorry that happened. I work at a Dr office and we have never made anyone take a pt besides them requesting or a late depo shot "refill". I am so sorry that was thrown in your face today =( ((HUGS)) Hopefully tomorrow will be better!
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  • ((((huge hugs)))) sweetie, that's pretty sh?tty if they didn't trust your judgement....
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  • (((HUGE HUGE HUGS!!!))) I'm so sorry your dr put you through that! While working in a m/w office, I've had to test a lot of women for pregnancies. The m/w would never disclose a neg result, but simply act as though no test had been performed, just in case the woman would feel more pain from a neg result. If she asked, the m/w would say so, of course, but she never made a production over it. She just handed patients their cups, I did tests, and showed her the results, and she proceeded from there. I think any and all drs could learn a thing or two from her!

    Mad for your cough, I hope you get better soon! 

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