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So you fought with YH?? About what?

I only ask because DH gets very moody if I tell him he's gonna get some then back out.

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    vflipovflipo member

    About a lot of shiit. Basically, we have this understanding that if he asks for sex, I feel pressured and lose all interest. My sister was over the other day and made a comment about how she and her H have an understanding that whenever one asks, the other should deliver. It got my BIL to stop asking for sex as often, so I made a joke that we should do that. He thought I was serious, despite all of our previous arguments/discussions about how I feel about sex.

    Then it turned into a lot of other shiit. Basically he always disagrees with me or "challenges" me as he puts it. He's a very analytical person and he likes to argue even if he agrees with the person he is arguing with. It drives me fuckings nuts because it seems like he is always disagreeing with me. 

    He realized this morning that it probably contributes to my lack of desire to have sex with him. We have a lot of shiit to work on, obvs.

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    xleslieraexxleslieraex

    So, he didn't send you the following text last night...

    "I could use a release to help me sleep. Do you love me? I love you!"

    If I would have seen that before he asked very kindly if I would meander into the bedroom for a few minutes he would have been denied.

    Yeah, word for word. Jackass.

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    Yikes. No, he knows better than to say shiit like that.
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    He "lucked out" because me phone was on the charger right next to him. Like I said, I didn't see it until after the fact. Then this came to mind...

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    Word.
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    P.S. I hate fights about sex. I told Dh that I wanted to know he wants ME, not sex with me. If that makes sense. Effin men. I tell ya.

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    I hate them, too. It kills my (already minimal) sex drive.
    I married a ginger.
    m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
    My boobies belong to cour10e
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    xleslieraexxleslieraex

    I have the minimal part here too now. I blame the hormones in the IUD. That and when I am in the mood DH doesn't seem to care that I don't get to finish. Once I'd like to get him going and just roll over so he can feel the frustration.

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    You should get that thing taken out. Just sayin Wink
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    imagevflipo:
    You should get that thing taken out. Just sayin Wink

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