Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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I'm in the middle of miscarrying our 2nd baby as I write this. I started spotting light brown on Friday afternoon at 6 weeks. Then that night it turned to pinkish/orange and then changed to bright red on Saturday. Then on Sunday there were clots. Long story short-- My doctor sent me to the ER because of the holiday weekend, and after being there for hours and no one telling me anything I was told I was miscarrying. It was the worst experience of my life, and I hope never to repeat it. It still doesn't seem real. I keep thinking that I will wake up from this nightmare at any moment, but unfortunately this is reality and it's horrible.

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BFP#1 06/01/09~DS Born 01/29/10 via c/s 

BFP#2 05/17/12~EDD 01/18/13~Natural M/C 05/27/12@6w2d 

BFP#3 07/03/12~DD Born 03/08/13 via sched. c/s 

BFP #4 10/03/13 EDD 06/09/14 SURPRISE!!! On our way to 2u2!

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you had to find out in such a cold, sterile environment.  I hope you can find comfort and support among the women on this board.  Know that you are not alone.

    ((hugs))

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
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    I'm so very sorry.  I was in the same boat as you this weekend, except ours started on Sunday.

     

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Emergency ileostomy 11/28/10, CF dx on 12/3/10 and ileostomy takedown 1/24/11, feeding tube placed 7/1/11...still going strong! Little one lost 5w5d, 5/27/2012. CP 8/26/2012
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    Hello.  I'm so sorry for your loss :( 

    We had to wait forever in the ER too and it was absolutely maddening.  DH kept saying that things were probably okay since they weren't rushing and I didn't have the heart to tell him that if I was miscarrying there wasn't anything they could do so they wouldn't be rushing anyways.

    I think all of the ladies here can relate to your feelings that it is a nightmare.  It definitely is.  I hope that you can find some comfort and support from this board.  We are all here for you.

    (big hugs)

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    BFP 1 - March 26, 2012, MMC discovered May 21, 2012
    BFP 2 - October 30, 2012, Rainbow Baby Boy born July 14, 2013
    TTC no sooner than November 2014
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    Thanks everyone for the love and support. I have heard great things about this board.

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    BFP#1 06/01/09~DS Born 01/29/10 via c/s 

    BFP#2 05/17/12~EDD 01/18/13~Natural M/C 05/27/12@6w2d 

    BFP#3 07/03/12~DD Born 03/08/13 via sched. c/s 

    BFP #4 10/03/13 EDD 06/09/14 SURPRISE!!! On our way to 2u2!

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    International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC)...BF questions/concens welcome!

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    LovenizLoveniz member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you.  The ladies on This board are very supportive. 
    TTC #1 Since Oct 2011
    BFP #1 4/29/12 m/c 5/18/12 at 6w2d
    BFP #2 8/28/12 EDD 5/10/13 MC 9/22/12 at 6w4d
    BFP #3 12/31/12 EDD 9/12/13

    Me Dx: DOR   DH: all tests normal
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    mgh2008mgh2008 member
    I am so sorry:(
    BFP #1- 12/3/09, EDD- 8/7/10, Missed M/C at 8 weeks & D&C- 1/5/10, BFP #2- July 2010, Baby Charlie Born March 29, 2011, BFP #3- 4/12/12- EDD- 12/21/12, Missed M/C at 10 1/2 weeks 5/29/12, D&C 6/1/12- testing results showed triploidy, IF testing all normal, February 2013- IUI#1, femara, follistim, trigger =BFN, March 2013- IUI#2, femara, follistim, trigger= BFP #4, 3/20/12, Beta#1 16dpo= 397, Beta #2 18dpo= 1037, Beta#3 24dpo= 11,589- EDD 11/30/13- It's a Girl!!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
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    I replied to you on TTGP, too, but I just wanted to say again that I'm sorry this has happened to you.

    BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
    BFP2: 3/18/12, blighted ovum, natural m/c @ 7w4d
    BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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