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*JayPlusKay*

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Oops!  It looks like you found a way to delete before you saw our responses.  Letting it slide because I think you genuinely didn't want to hurt anyone here.  So here's what you need to do.  Just post a simple and short apology here. As the ladies stated, it will go far and will be appreciated. :)  Thank you!

Lilypie - (dLe1)

 

      ***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.

       We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    I agree with QC. Please post your appology here and thank you for appologizing.. For future reference though, deleting is not looked upon nicely. But as QC said we will give you the benefit of the doubt since you didn't seem to purposely hurt anyone.
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    I see that, thanks. :)  But that was before the delete so I thought maybe a separate one would be appropriate too.  If not, I'm ok with her original one!  I don't want her to jump through hoops or anything, but just keeping all our girls in mind.  I do agree that her original one in your thread was sincere and heart-felt.  I'm good with it either way!  And thanks for the heads up Erin! Big Smile  Beer

    Lilypie - (dLe1)

     

          ***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.

           We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

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  • JayPlusKayJayPlusKay

    I deleted the post because I truly did not want to upset anyone else. Ladies, I really am so, so sorry. This is my first day here on The Bump and it was truly stupid of me not to lurk for a bit to see how things operate on here, but as I said, on Babycenter, this is the board where people would ost such things and I was truly looking for a fresh perspective. I never meant to hurt anyone and I really feel like the world's biggest jerk right now. If I had had any idea that my post would cause such an uproar, I can assure you that I never would have posted it. Again, I am sincerely sorry. 

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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member
    imageJayPlusKay:

    I deleted the post because I truly did not want to upset anyone else. Ladies, I really am so, so sorry. This is my first day here on The Bump and it was truly stupid of me not to lurk for a bit to see how things operate on here, but as I said, on Babycenter, this is the board where people would ost such things and I was truly looking for a fresh perspective. I never meant to hurt anyone and I really feel like the world's biggest jerk right now. If I had had any idea that my post would cause such an uproar, I can assure you that I never would have posted it. Again, I am sincerely sorry. 

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    Thank you.
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    imageJayPlusKay:

    I deleted the post because I truly did not want to upset anyone else. Ladies, I really am so, so sorry. This is my first day here on The Bump and it was truly stupid of me not to lurk for a bit to see how things operate on here, but as I said, on Babycenter, this is the board where people would ost such things and I was truly looking for a fresh perspective. I never meant to hurt anyone and I really feel like the world's biggest jerk right now. If I had had any idea that my post would cause such an uproar, I can assure you that I never would have posted it. Again, I am sincerely sorry. 

    No, no, no you're fine!  We all appreciate your sincerity and we only wish you the best.  We don't want you to grovel or anything, ok?  :)  I hope the next 9 months are spent in health and happiness for you!  You're stepping into a board of lovely women over there!  Please take care to support them as they'll support you in your journey. Wink

    Lilypie - (dLe1)

     

          ***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.

           We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

     Lilypie - (AW2u)
     

     Lilypie - (L84X)Lilypie - (D4Hj)

     

     

     

     

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  • psychmajormompsychmajormom member
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    imageJayPlusKay:

    I deleted the post because I truly did not want to upset anyone else. Ladies, I really am so, so sorry. This is my first day here on The Bump and it was truly stupid of me not to lurk for a bit to see how things operate on here, but as I said, on Babycenter, this is the board where people would ost such things and I was truly looking for a fresh perspective. I never meant to hurt anyone and I really feel like the world's biggest jerk right now. If I had had any idea that my post would cause such an uproar, I can assure you that I never would have posted it. Again, I am sincerely sorry. 

    Thank you for the apology.  People make mistakes all the time and it is easy to do.  Sorry we were harsh but we get posts like this all the time and they are hard to take.  Best wishes!!

     

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