September 2011 Moms

Update on Seizures - kind of sad

Several of you have asked for an update on Julia's seizures, so here goes...  She has progressively gotten worse over the last few months.  We are under the care of a neurologist, who has prescribed a bunch of different meds, with very little improvement.  We finally asked for a second opinion and got some action with the new doctor.  She has had a bunch of additional tests (two 24-hour EEGs done, genetic testing done but results due next week, and a high-powered MRI scheduled for next week).  He gave us an initial diagnosis of moderate to severe epilepsy.  Moderate would be ok, prognosis is ok but not great (developmental delays, but generally functional).  Severe is very bad - big developmental delays with regression and cognitive impairment for life.  The biggest problems with the severe epilepsy are that the seizures are very resistant to medication (hers are) and the shear number of them is just too much for their brains (she had 27 1-second seizures during her 24-hour EEG). 

So, we are taking one day at a time and trying to just think as far as the next test and results.  We are starting a new drug tomorrow, so we are hopeful that will help.  If it doesn't she is headed towards a Ketogenic diet (like Atkins on steriods), that has shown to help some people with seizures.  After the MRI, we will know if she is a surgery candidate and the genetic testing will determine whether this is a genetic issue (which will guide treatment, as well) and also whether one of us passed this on to her.  No one can really tell us what her future life will be like, so we just hope for the best and appreciate the good days. 

I'm a little MIA these days just because it is hard to read about everyone's milestones - Julia is a bit behind, could be because of her three week hospital stay with RSV, but could be damage to her brain, as well.  She is still not reliably sitting on her own and definitely not anywhere near crawling. 

If you've read this far, you deserve a medal.  I appreciate everyone's good thoughts and support. 

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  • I'm sorry the news hasn't been good thus far - I hope you get encouraging news from the MRI and the genetic testing.  Will keep you and Julia in my prayers. 

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    I don't even know what to say :/

    Im so sorry your family has to deal with this, especially beautiful Julia. :( I hope the medication you start tomorrow does some good and pray for good test results in the future. Thinking of you and your family  

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  • I am so sorry. I am really hoping you get good news over the next week or so. This has to be so hard to watch, Julia is such a precious little angel. I am praying for little Julia and your family. I hope she pulls through and only has a mild case, especially since the symptoms were caught so early. My heart goes out to you all! 
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this :(  I hope you guys get some good news soon.  T & Ps to you, Julia, and your family.

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  • I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. Hopefully you will get better news with this new doctor, tests, and meds. I have you and beautiful Julia in my prayers. Please keep us updated!
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  • I am so sorry you guys are going through all of this. I hope that you get some good news soon with the new drug. Definitely keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I will be sending my thoughts and prayers out to Julia amd your family. I am hoping for the best!
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    I'm so sorry :(  I can't even imagine how hard that would be to hear.  You deserve a medal for keeping strong through all of this.  I'm praying for you and Julia. 
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  • Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to hear this! I'm glad you got a second opinion and this doctor is looking at things differently. 

    I hope you find some answers in the weeks to come, I'll be keeping you and Julia and your family in my thoughts.  

     

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  • No-No-No! The two of you ladies deserve the medal! Looking back at the times I have seen you post shocks me! You are going through a lot of testing, hearing difficult feedback, and still being a damm good mother. I will not even pretend to understand what life is like for you now, but I would like to tell you how impressed I am with your tenacity of getting to the etiology of Julia's medical qualms.

    I wish I was in school right now so I could have more resources to help you in any way. I worked with quite a few neuroscientists who are absolutely incredible!!!! I have heard of the ketogenic diet! What does that look like for an infant? Do you have a strong support system? Can I do anything for you or your family?

    You and Julia are doing a GREAT job!

     

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  • This makes me so sad to read.  I am sending Julia so many good thoughts and hugs.  I can't imagine how hard it is for you to watch her struggle, but please know that I am thinking of your family and praying for you all.
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    I'm sorry you and your family are going through this. 
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    No-No-No! The two of you ladies deserve the medal! Looking back at the times I have seen you post shocks me! You are going through a lot of testing, hearing difficult feedback, and still being a damm good mother. I will not even pretend to understand what life is like for you now, but I would like to tell you how impressed I am with your tenacity of getting to the etiology of Julia's medical qualms.

    I wish I was in school right now so I could have more resources to help you in any way. I worked with quite a few neuroscientists who are absolutely incredible!!!! I have heard of the ketogenic diet! What does that look like for an infant? Do you have a strong support system? Can I do anything for you or your family?

    You and Julia are doing a GREAT job!

    Thanks. We are getting a lot of help from my mom and our nanny is a life saver. There is a formula version of the keto diet so I'm thinking we will be using that with some solids as we can (although she really isn't interested yet). It has been hard to learn when to push back on the doctors but my mom is a nurse so that helps.  I truly believe Julia was sent to us bc we have the resources (emotional and financial) to get her the best outcomes possible. Thanks for your kind words. 

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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. I am sending prayers your way!
  • I am so sorry to hear what you are still going through with Julia. Please do not feel threatened by the milestones other babies are reaching at Julia's age. We are not crawling yet either and are one of the older babies on this board. In addition, there will be many times throughout these kids' lives that they will not match up to other kids their age - hospital stays make things even more difficult because of the restrictions,.. :-( just know you are welcome whenever you feel comfortable doing so and we will always be thinking and praying for you and Julia. Hugs!!
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  • Sorry to hear things have not gotten better and meds are not really helping.  Hope this new neurologist will give you more answers.  Sounds like more tests are already being done by him.  I really hope you get answers real soon so you can start on the treatment that will be best for her.

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  • Hopefully you'll get some results soon...though they don't sound very reassuring.  I'll keep you and yours in my thoughts.
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  • I am so so sorry you are going through all of this. It must be unbelievably frustrating when all you want to do is enjoy watching her grow. I will be thinking of you and hoping for the best possible outcome. Regardless of the diagnosis she's an amazing little person and you're an amazing mom for staying strong!
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    imagebecasmeca:

    No-No-No! The two of you ladies deserve the medal! Looking back at the times I have seen you post shocks me! You are going through a lot of testing, hearing difficult feedback, and still being a damm good mother. I will not even pretend to understand what life is like for you now, but I would like to tell you how impressed I am with your tenacity of getting to the etiology of Julia's medical qualms.

    I wish I was in school right now so I could have more resources to help you in any way. I worked with quite a few neuroscientists who are absolutely incredible!!!! I have heard of the ketogenic diet! What does that look like for an infant? Do you have a strong support system? Can I do anything for you or your family?

    You and Julia are doing a GREAT job!

    Thanks. We are getting a lot of help from my mom and our nanny is a life saver. There is a formula version of the keto diet so I'm thinking we will be using that with some solids as we can (although she really isn't interested yet). It has been hard to learn when to push back on the doctors but my mom is a nurse so that helps.  I truly believe Julia was sent to us bc we have the resources (emotional and financial) to get her the best outcomes possible. Thanks for your kind words. 

    This is inspiring, you are a beautiful person with a great heart.  Julia is so lucky to have a mommy like you.  I will be praying for sweet Julia and for you to continue to have strength to face this head on.  We're here for you anytime you need to talk!

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  • Thoughts and prayers to Julia and your family. I admire your strength trough this and Julia is lucky to have such a brave mommy.
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope the test results show the best possible outcome.

    ((Hugs))

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    I am so sorry your family is going through this.  I hope the new meds will help as well as the new dr, it sounds like he at least has some ideas to help.  I will definitely be thinking of you and Julia, its so unfair that she has to deal with this.
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  • Big (((HUGS)))

    I will keep your family in my thought and pray for some good outcomes for you.  Hopefully this new medication will do what it needs to for her. 

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  • ((hugs))  I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.  I really hope for the best possible outcome for your little Julia.
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  • I can't even imagine how hard this must be for you. I'm hoping that the new doctor can find some answers for you. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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  • hoot179hoot179 member
    You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers - hoping you get some good news soon and relief from the new meds...((big hugs))
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    I'm so sorry. I'll keep you and your baby girl in my T&P for sure
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  • Pips09Pips09 member
    I'm so sorry to hear about everything you and your family are going through. I am sending my thoughts for the best possible outcome for your little angel.
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    I'm so sorry--this post made me tear up. I'll be thinking of you and hoping for the best.
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  • Awww, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm praying that she only has the moderate and that her prognosis with that is even better than they thought. I can't imagine what you are going through right now and my heart goes out to you and your family. You're a very strong woman and I admire you and how you've met these challenges with Julia at every point.
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  • My heart goes out to you. Many many thoughts and prayers for your family.
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    ALF I am so very sorry. My prayers are with your beautiful girl for the best possible outcome.
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    Thinking of you all.  Everyone else said it all. Hugs.
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  • ALF222ALF222 member

    Thanks everyone for your kind words. 

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    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    I'm not the most active poster on here, so forgive me if I'm out of line, but I can only imagine how hard it would be to be here and seeing all the posts about milestones, so I was wondering if you had sought out a support group or online message board for parents of kids with epilepsy?  I have a friend whose daughter has a genetic heart defect, and she says that the group specific to that disorder is her sanity.

    I'll be praying for your little girl though.

    Not out of line at all...  We have found one epilepsy support group, but we went before we knew how bad things were going to be.  At the time, it seemed like they were so much worse off than us.  But, now it seems like it is where we belong.  However, their kids are all older than Julia, so their issues are very different than ours.  I do think they will be a great support group once we have a diagnosis and know what we are dealing with. 

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