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TTC After a Loss
Reaching Out...
Hello and hope this finds you well. Thank you for reading my post. I am
new to this wonderful website and am looking forward to making new
friends. I am a proud 43 yr. old mother of an amazing Lil' boy, Michael,
a Blessing from Above. We are in the midst of trying to conceive
another Miracle. Sadly, I, we, suffered a miscarriage in Nov. I feel so
lost these days and feeling discouraged since I am not becoming
pregnant. I realize it will be more difficult, but I would love to give
our son a sibling. I am an only child and longed for that special bond. I
know I am not the only mother enduring this pain...I am so sorry for
your loss, BTW. I know that becoming a mother again may not happen
because of my age and it saddens me to know this may be it. I can't
believe I am finally at this stage in my life. Time did fly by but my
heart and soul don't feel like it. Would love and value your support,
words of encouragement, etc. Thank you so much for your time and I wish
you all the best. Blessings and enjoy the rest of your Holiday
Weekend...
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Re: Reaching Out...
BFP #2 - 7/1/12 - Met my lucky charm Alexandra on 3-16-13!!!
I am so sorry for your loss, and welcome to the board, I hope your stay here is short and sweet. There are some wonderfully supportive ladies here, and I hope you find the peace and support you need at this time. {{HUGS}}
And for what it is worth, one of my best friends had her first baby at 43 and had the next two at 44 and 45
BFP 4/4/12 CP 4/10/12
9/20/2013 Came home with our little miracle from the Philippines
11/26/2013 Surprise!!! BFP!
TTC 10/11. IUI 2/12. BFP 3/8/12. 4/26/12 missed mc. RE consult 5/17/12. IVF #1 ER 7/13/12 53R, 41M ICSIed, 32F, 8 5d, 6 6d blasts - all PGD/frozen. PGD results 1 normal M and 1 normal F, 1 maybe M. FET 9/6, transferred 1 F embie. Beta 9/15 BFN. FET#2 planned for 11/2012 put off until 2013. Surprise BFP 11/21/12!! My son was born on 7/24/13!
BFP #2~5/25/09, DD born 1/27/10
BFP #3~2/13/12, EDD~10/24/12, MC at 12w6d, D&C - We love you baby Addison
BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
Welcome to our board. I'm sorry for your loss, and hope you can start the healing process, and find peace.
I wish you a short sweet stay here
נשמה שבאה לעולם למספר חודשים לשהות במעי האם, היא נשמת צדיק גמור שבאה לעולם רק לתקן פגם קטן ולאחר מספר חודשים אלו היא שבה למקומה לגן עדן להתענג על ה'. לעתיד לבוא נשמה זו תוכר באחד מבנייך ובזכות נשמת צדיק זה תזכי להיות במחיצת צדיקים
TTC Since September 2011
BFP#1:Dec.1.11 EDD:Aug.09.12 MC:Jan.11.12 (9WK5D)-Natural
BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
BFP#6: Jun.11.13 EDD:Feb.23.13 Beta: #1=8000 #2=24532 US@6wk2d showed 7wk2d size with 143BPM HR * NT US@12wk6d looked good. A/S passed with flying colors and our team color is Blue! *Grow my little Pamplemousse*!!!
BFP#1 11/12/11 ~ No heartbeat 12/12/11 ~ D&C 12/19/11
BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12
BFP#3 7/16/12 ~ EDD 3/26/13 ~ It's a BOY ~ DOB 2/26/13
BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
BFP #3: 5/17/13 EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13
Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation.
Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP! EDD: 6/7/14
PGAL/PAL welcome
Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.
June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!
***PGAL/PAL WELCOME***
My Blog: One Emerald
BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
Hello...hope you are having a relaxing Holiday Weekend with your loved ones. Let me just say that I am very touched that you reached out to me with hope and thoughtful well wishes. I feel welcome...thank you. You are in my thoughts and prayers that your dream will come true. I love your pic. of being in front of the fire. We live on the Monterey Peninsula and we LOVE our relaxing fires here. It has been blustery again...definitely feels like Fall or a typical Peninsula Spring. Enjoy the rest of your day and all the best...
Good evening...hope this finds you and your loved ones well. Thank you so much for reaching out to me when I was having a hopeless day. I appreciate more than you know your welcoming message and compassionate words of encouragement. I am so sorry to hear about the pain you have endured. I will pray that we both will be sharing Miraculous news. I love your photo, BTW...you make a beautiful couple. Thank you again and have a relaxing rest of your Holiday Weekend. Blessings...
Good evening...hope this finds you well. Thank you for your thoughtful reply. Thank you as well for the great suggestion to reach out on the other board. Enjoy the rest of your Holiday Weekend. all the best...
Good evening...hope all is well and you are enjoying your Sunday. Thank you for your welcoming, thoughtful, helpful responses. I appreciate your time and care. Yes, I have never joined a message board, but always meant to. I am so glad I found this website. Your tips are definitely guiding me through. My heart and prayers go out to you so they give you comfort through your pain. Hopefully, we will all have tears of joy soon for a change. I love your beautiful pics. and quote..."best friends". Thanks again for writing and take care...
Hello...hope this finds you well. Thank you for your thoughtful and uplifting message. I appreciate it more than you know. Yes, there are wonderfully supportive ladies like yourself. I pray that I will be a success story like your friend. Thanks again and enjoy your day. Best wishes on your journey. Blessings...
Hello...hope all is well. Thank you for your welcoming and thoughtful message. Likewise, I hope all your dreams are realized. Blessings...
Hello...hope this finds you and yours well. Thank you for your thoughtful message. I pray that you have a Miracle to report very soon. I am very optimistic about all the special people I will meet like yourself. Have a wonderful day and all the best.
Hello...hope this finds you and your loved ones well. Thank you for your thoughtful and appreciated message. I am so very sorry to hear about your pain. Thank you for sharing. You sound like a special woman full of pride when speaking of your son (stepson). I will pray that you will receive your Miracle very soon...you deserve it. Thank you for understanding about the age issue. It is so hard to reach this point and not know what the future holds. To want and need something so badly and have to constantly wait and then, well. Let's hope that we both (and all the other ladies) get Blessed shortly with great news to report. Thank you for being there with your compassion and words of support. Blessings and all the best. Hugs...
Hello...hope you are having a good day and all is well with you and yours. Thank you for writing a thoughtful message. I appreciate your compassionate note. I will pray that your beautiful daughter (LOVE that pic. of her,BTW) will have that sibling very soon. Thank you, I hope I have wonderful news to report as well. Like yourself, all the new women I have met here are quite special. Thanks again and Blessings. Enjoy your day...
BFP #2: 1.30.12 - missed m/c found on 2.27.12 - D&C 3.1.12 @8w
Hello...hope you are well and enjoying your day. Thank you for your timely and thoughtful response. Having a difficult day and feeling pretty hopeless. I am so sorry about the pain you have sadly had to endure. My prayers are with you that you may receive a gift from Above. Thank you for welcoming me. I am looking forward to getting to know you as well. Have a wonderful rest of your day and best wishes. Blessings...
Hello...hope this finds you well and having a hopeful day. I would like to extend my gratitude for your welcoming note. Yes, I look forward to receiving solace from this amazing community. I am sorry for your pain. My prayers will be that you receive a special Miracle very soon. Have a beautiful day and Blessings.
Hi...hope this finds you and all the ones you cherish well. Thank you for your kind words and best wishes. I am sorry to see that you had to endure such pain, but I sincerely hope and pray you will overcome it with great news and joy. I wish you the best as well...thank you. Have a peaceful day and Blessings.
Hello...hope all is well with you and yours. Thank you for your welcoming and compassionate note. I agree, you and the other special ladies have welcomed me with open arms...thank you. I am so sorry for your pain. I will pray that we will be exchanging happy news soon. I look forward to more uplifting messages from you all. Have an enjoyable day and all the best. Blessings...
Hello...hope all is well with you and your loved ones. Thank you for extending such a welcoming and much needed note. I appreciate it so. Yes, I am so fortunate to have found this board because of ladies like you...thank you. I am sorry to see you are enduring pain you don't deserve. My prayers are with you. Enjoy your day and best wishes. Blessings...
Hi...hoping you are having a good and peaceful day. Thank you for your well wishes and thoughtful welcome. It saddens me to see you have felt such pain. I pray that your dreams will come true very soon. Have a wonderful day and all the best. Blessings...
Hi...hope all is well and your loved ones. Thank you for the warm welcome. I am sorry that for some reason you don't deserve, you have endured such pain. I will pray that you receive what your heart desires. Have a beautiful day. Blessings...
Good evening...hope this finds you relaxing and doing well. Thank you so much for the thoughtful welcome. I appreciate it so. I am so sorry to see all the pain you have had to endure when you absolutely don't deserve it. Thank God you have such a beautiful boy. I know that you still feel loss because that is how I feel even though I adore our amazing Lil' boy. Our losses are still our family. I pray that you will receive the Miracle you have longed for. Have a wonderful night and warm wishes are sent your way. Blessings...
Good evening...hope this finds you and yours doing very well. Thank you for reading my post and extending such a warm and thoughtful message. I am beyond grateful for finding you and all the other special ladies. I am so sorry to see the pain you have endured. You seem like a special person. I LOVE your pic.!! Thank you for sharing this memorable shot. I will pray that all your dreams are realized very soon. Best wishes to you and your family. Have a great night and Blessings.
Hello...thank you for writing. I hope you are enjoying your day. I am so thankful for your much needed, comforting post. I am sorry to see that you have endured needless pain. My prayers will include thoughts of you receiving a Miracle very soon. Enjoy the rest of your day. All the best and Blessings.
Good evening...hope this finds you and your loved ones doing very well. Thank you for your comforting message. I grew up in South Orange County and moved here about 5 1/2 yrs. ago. I vacationed here for over 20 yrs. and wanted to move someday to have Big Sur in my backyard. I feel like a tourist still.
I am saddened and so sorry to see you have endured such pain. You will be included in my prayers hoping that you will achieve a Miraculous outcome.
I look forward to getting to know you as well. Thank you for reaching out and giving me hope and peace. Have a wonderful night and Blessings.