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AF, if you're going to come today, then just come!

lisslucierlisslucier member
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I know I'm not super active on here all the time. Honestly, sometimes I think I avoid coming here sometimes because there are some days (or weeks) that dwelling on this whole process too much just wears me down. So even though I stalk this board a lot and I've only said a few things here and there, I hope you don't mind that I pop in and out!

 AF is supposed to come today, but so far she hasn't made an appearance. I wish she would just come if she's going to come! I know the day's only half through, but I'm really hoping I get to POAS tomorrow! Fingers crossed that month 4 of TTCAL is the magic month!

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Re: AF, if you're going to come today, then just come!

  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member

    There are points when coming here hurts rather then helps and I can relate there. I can also relate to the I wish she'd just get here if she is coming thing. Especially since I chart. Do you? I know it has eased my mind at times to know what is going on.

    I am currently waiting for the biotch to arrive as well. GL!

    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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    "Severe truth is expressed with some bitterness."
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  • mikeANDjen448mikeANDjen448 member
    FX for you!  I am in the same boat.... Testing tomorrow. GL TTCAL... I know it can be frustrating to be in this situation of limbo and wanting. 

    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


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    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

    Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

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  • lisslucierlisslucier member
    Glad you can relate! You know, I don't chart, but I will start soon if I get a - HPT tomorrow. We just got pregnant the first time the very first time we ttc, so I didn't want to make everything more complicated if we didn't need to, ya know? Stressful enough with everything going on. GL to you as well! Hope AF stays far away from us!
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  • funny bunnyfunny bunny member

    I found charting to be a good way to watch my body for any changes.

    For me, it did a lot, but I try not to obsess (aka, OPK's, CP, etc.).

    Just the morning temps.

    I am waiting for 3 cycles right now, post D&C so I'm praying for the Biatch to show her face for the first cycle already.

    I hope she doesn't show up for you, and you get a BFP. 

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    TTC Since September 2011
    BFP#1:Dec.1.11 EDD:Aug.09.12 MC:Jan.11.12 (9WK5D)-Natural
    BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
    BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
    BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
    BFP#6: Jun.11.13 EDD:Feb.23.13 Beta: #1=8000 #2=24532 US@6wk2d showed 7wk2d size with 143BPM HR * NT US@12wk6d looked good. A/S passed with flying colors and our team color is Blue! *Grow my little Pamplemousse*!!!
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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    imagefunny bunny:

    I found charting to be a good way to watch my body for any changes.

    For me, it did a lot, but I try not to obsess (aka, OPK's, CP, etc.).

    Just the morning temps.

    I am waiting for 3 cycles right now, post D&C so I'm praying for the Biatch to show her face for the first cycle already.

    I hope she doesn't show up for you, and you get a BFP. 

    Agreed I have only been temping and it gives me control with out all the stress.

    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers   image

    "Severe truth is expressed with some bitterness."
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  • sgb721sgb721 member
    I share your exasperated feelings exactly! It's hard because there isn't really anyone IRL that would understand what I'm talking about.
    TTC since June 2010
    5 Angels

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  • lsuhoneybadgerlsuhoneybadger member

    imagelisslucier:
    Glad you can relate! You know, I don't chart, but I will start soon if I get a - HPT tomorrow. We just got pregnant the first time the very first time we ttc, so I didn't want to make everything more complicated if we didn't need to, ya know? Stressful enough with everything going on. GL to you as well! Hope AF stays far away from us!

     

    I totally understand the bolded part.  That was us too!  But after some unsuccessful cycles, I decided to start charting and surprisingly it has actually helped *destress* me as opposed to stress me out!  I hope you don't have to worry about that though and this will be you BFP!

    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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    PGAL/PAL welcome
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