Some helpful, some nasty.

kdahl15 · May 2012

First off. I just wanted to thank those who had good advice/ideas of what may be going on with my body. Secondly, for those of you who feel the need to get onto internet websites, to beat people down because you hate your own life, screw you. These sites are meant for people wanting to feel safe to ask questions, or post concerns in a safe place. Some of you women are horrible and should really re-think what your write because it's down right mean and nasty and completely unneccasary. So get a life. But thank you again for those who had nice things to say. I was not asking if you could tell me if I was pregnant. I was simply stating my situation/concerns, and wondering if anyone else had been through anything else like this. That's it, plain and simple. Nothing rude, or disrespectful, or against anyone else. I wish the best of luck to those who deserve it. Have a safe and happy memorial weekend.

delino · May 2012

minicheezburg · May 2012

kdahl15:
First off. I just wanted to thank those who had good advice/ideas of what may be going on with my body. Secondly, for those of you who feel the need to get onto internet websites, to beat people down because you hate your own life, screw you. These sites are meant for people wanting to feel safe to ask questions, or post concerns in a safe place. Some of you women are horrible and should really re-think what your write because it's down right mean and nasty and completely unneccasary. So get a life. But thank you again for those who had nice things to say. I was not asking if you could tell me if I was pregnant. I was simply stating my situation/concerns, and wondering if anyone else had been through anything else like this. That's it, plain and simple. Nothing rude, or disrespectful, or against anyone else. I wish the best of luck to those who deserve it. Have a safe and happy memorial weekend.

Seriously? Those who deserve it? So I guess you are deciding who deserves for things to work out? Give respect to get it. Give support to get it. It is a simple basic understanding of human nature. There are women here who have been drug through the mud and then kicked while they were down. That "rudeness" is just simply hurt women trying to understand why someone is just trying to use us or worse hurt us furthermore.

I also just read your "intro". Any OB will tell you it is pure miracle to get KU even within a year of being on Depo. I know I have been there. Secondly M/c makes your body do crazy things. Your description or feeling sick and tired is dumb to say the least. MANY things contribute to both those things.

Also just because your snatch is wet doesn't make you KU.

My advice read the damn blog. Start charting and stop assuming. If you apologize to these wonderful ladies they will accept you anf help you. Being rude and asking if you are KTFU is not going to help your case.

kdahl15 · May 2012

You just proved my point. You are nasty. Someone is clearly asking for advice, and you completely attack. Nice. Grow up. Perhaps get a job, since clearly you have waaaaaaaaaaay to much time on your hands. If you have been drug through mud in life, why would you attack someone for just writing some concerns. And..... what does having a tough life have anything to do with someone getting pregnant. And...... I was on depo and got pregnant, then miscarried, sooooo? Did you even read my whole blog or did you just pick out things to ridicule? Jesus! Maybe you should take a step back and regroup because you are straight up nasty.

psychmajormom · May 2012

I seriously can not believe you posted this! You "intro'd" by asking if you were pg, do you think we were all just going to jump up and down and squeee for you?? yeah....not going to happen... if you want to BE A PRODUCTIVE MEMBER of this board, starting now, I welcome you, but if you don't and to keep on using us as a "pee stick", gtfo!!

CashewsMommy · May 2012

Awwww! I love how someone with 3 posts is telling us what our board is supposed to be. Plus, aren't you being mean and nasty right now? Isn't that what you're yelling at everyone else for doing? On this board you need big girl panties! Looks like you lost yours.

minicheezburg · May 2012

kdahl15:
You just proved my point. You are nasty. Someone is clearly asking for advice, and you completely attack. Nice. Grow up. Perhaps get a job, since clearly you have waaaaaaaaaaay to much time on your hands. If you have been drug through mud in life, why would you attack someone for just writing some concerns. And..... what does having a tough life have anything to do with someone getting pregnant. And...... I was on depo and got pregnant, then miscarried, sooooo? Did you even read my whole blog or did you just pick out things to ridicule? Jesus! Maybe you should take a step back and regroup because you are straight up nasty.

Seriously? I am now questioning your intelligence. Why on a Sunday over a holiday weekend would having a job be brought up? You aren't asking for advice, you posted a nasty and hateful thread and then what expected people to be all "oh poor baby?" Are you freaking kidding me? My reference to being drug through the mud has to do with EVERYONES loss(es) and their continued struggles getting pg. This is a loss board. If you want to know if you are pg seek life elsewhere. The fact that you fail to see the correlation between Depo, loss and being able to get pg is ridiculous. Do you even know how this all works? I did read your whole post. That is exactly where I got my info. Have you read the blog? I would guess no. Oh and it doesn't bother me that you think I am a b*tch. I know I am.

DaisyZH · May 2012

kdahl15:
You just proved my point. You are nasty. Someone is clearly asking for advice, and you completely attack. Nice. Grow up. Perhaps get a job, since clearly you have waaaaaaaaaaay to much time on your hands. If you have been drug through mud in life, why would you attack someone for just writing some concerns. And..... what does having a tough life have anything to do with someone getting pregnant. And...... I was on depo and got pregnant, then miscarried, sooooo? Did you even read my whole blog or did you just pick out things to ridicule? Jesus! Maybe you should take a step back and regroup because you are straight up nasty.

No, you are being nasty. You came onto a board that you obviously spent no time getting to know beforehand and posted a very silly question. The fact that you feel the need one week later to come back on and insult everyone shows that YOU have way too much time on your hands. I have nothing more to say to you except I find the whole "good luck to those that deserve it" repulsive.

minicheezburg · May 2012

VikingQueen · May 2012

who the fuuuuuuuuck are you? and why are you trying to tell us how to act? If you had spend more time on this board than the 20 seconds it took you to post a very hurtful question than you would know that YOU were in the wrong, none of us. Read the damn blog. We didn't write it and update it for the good of the women that have unfortunately been here a while. We did it for newbies and trolls such as yourself. But my guess is that you don't give two shiiits about anyone else other than yourself and then you cry because we don't want to shoot rainbows up your vagina.. you get a fuuuuucking life. Your the one who came back DAYS later to blast us as if we give a damn about what you have to say. I have made some wonderful friends on here. All of them are more than willing to be nice and make new friends, I am as well. But when a whiney little biiitch comes up on here with sand up her coochie complaining we are just "like ugh so mean.. booo hoo hoo" You think we are going to bend over backwards for you? I think not. If you hoped to have any future on this board and make friends you just blew it sweetie.

luvsdogs2 · May 2012

kdahl15:
You just proved my point. You are nasty. Someone is clearly asking for advice, and you completely attack. Nice. Grow up. Perhaps get a job, since clearly you have waaaaaaaaaaay to much time on your hands. If you have been drug through mud in life, why would you attack someone for just writing some concerns. And..... what does having a tough life have anything to do with someone getting pregnant. And...... I was on depo and got pregnant, then miscarried, sooooo? Did you even read my whole blog or did you just pick out things to ridicule? Jesus! Maybe you should take a step back and regroup because you are straight up nasty.

Here's what YOU need to understand. If you want a neutral third party for you to process what you're going through, get a therapist. This forum is for women that have been through some serious stuff and are reaching out to each other for support. We will not be your neutral third party. This is our safe place. Others are welcome, I'm a newbie myself. But you have to treat others with respect to get some. In this case, treating others with respect is recognizing that we are NOT a neutral party that isn't going to be affected by what you say. And the random moron that posts stupid sh*t about "I have these symptoms, am i KTFU" affects our safe place. Read the link that somebody shared for you in your previous posts for newbies. Lurk for a bit to get a feel for the board. Contribute to other people. Then maybe people will give a sh*t about you. At this point with your attitude, no promises, though.

uneek1323 · May 2012

Troll or not, anyone who would come in to a group of women suffering and hurting and spew this kind of *** seriously needs to examine their own life. I will not get upset by this because there are real things going on that are worth getting upset over. Not you and your insensitive bullshit.

kdahl15 · May 2012

i did not intro by asking if I was pregnant. I did not want anyone jumping up and down, Nor did I ask for that. I clearly stated my situation and asked if anyone had gone through anything like that. I asked if I'm not pregnant where would my period be? Whats reasons would there be for me not to cycle. I was not using you as a pee stick, whatever that means. I was only asking adive. Plain and simple.

kdahl15 · May 2012

I may be wrong but I thought this was a board about women "trying to concieve after loss" If I'm wrong about that I am truly sorry. I could see how that would upset women that have gone through a loss. But I think it says ttc after loss. I did not post a hateful thread, I was clearly thanking those who had productive things to say, and shame on those who feel the need to say something nasty and unproductive. i don't want any "poor babys". I completely see the correlation between depo and getting pregnant, but as I said before I had already gotten pregnant after depo, but later miscarried,therefore I have pretty much, not completely, but pretty much erased the possibilty that depo has messed with my cycles as I have been dam near normal since I've been off it. I was only on this board to ask questions. The fact that it is a sunday morning on a holiday weekend has nothing to do with what I said. i said that because I feel if you have enough time to tear some starnger apart on the internet, you need a new hobby. Put all that energy and frustration towards something productive in life. Good luck to you though, and the other woman. Going through a loss like this is beyond difficult, that only those that have been through it could understand.

DrB10 · May 2012

Couldn't agree with you more! Much luck to you

minicheezburg · May 2012

kdahl15:
I may be wrong but I thought this was a board about women "trying to concieve after loss" If I'm wrong about that I am truly sorry. I could see how that would upset women that have gone through a loss. But I think it says ttc after loss. I did not post a hateful thread, I was clearly thanking those who had productive things to say, and shame on those who feel the need to say something nasty and unproductive. i don't want any "poor babys". I completely see the correlation between depo and getting pregnant, but as I said before I had already gotten pregnant after depo, but later miscarried,therefore I have pretty much, not completely, but pretty much erased the possibilty that depo has messed with my cycles as I have been dam near normal since I've been off it. I was only on this board to ask questions. The fact that it is a sunday morning on a holiday weekend has nothing to do with what I said. i said that because I feel if you have enough time to tear some starnger apart on the internet, you need a new hobby. Put all that energy and frustration towards something productive in life. Good luck to you though, and the other woman. Going through a loss like this is beyond difficult, that only those that have been through it could understand.

Okay so you clearly stated you are only here to ask questions, not give support. The fact that you don't know me shows you should not be giving your opinion of what I need to do in life and I do not need to defend that. My energy and frustration has been poured into years of TTC and then I found this board filled with amazing caring women. We are a family so to speak and don't tolerate ass hat's coming in and trying to hurt us and then claim they weren't. If your intro was not meant to be hurtful then why didn't you apologize after having seen what hurt your caused? Instead you came back a week later to tell us how mean we are. Boo frickity hoo.

Further more Petra if you are the other woman let's make it a threesome Wink

s.alarie · May 2012

ncchnat:
kdahl15:
I was only on this board to ask questions.

And that, my dear, is why everyone is so upset. This board is about TTC after a Loss, just like the title says (as you pointed out, because apparently, you think we're all just here by mistake.) This process is scary as hell, like you said, and no one gets it unless they've been through, again like you said. My problem with you comes from the fact that you don't seem to get that this board is also about supporting one another through this process. You don't get support by just coming in and asking questions without giving anything back.

Oh, and your comment in a previous post about "good luck to those who deserve it" just paints you as either heartless or stupid. I don't know which is worse. No matter how much I dislike someone or how little I respect them, I would never say that they didn't deserve good luck on their TTC journey. Hell, I dislike Snooki so badly that I want to smack the tan off her face, but I would never wish that she lose her baby, even if it is an unplanned pregnancy.

For every action, there is an opposite and equal reaction, which is why you've gotten the response you have. You need to grow up, take responsibilities for your actions (apologize profusely), post a real intro and start supporting the other ladies on this board. The equal and opposite reaction to those actions would be you getting the support you want.

Edit: Typos, changed some wording, and added a sentence.

WTG, ncchnat. i u.

beachbum4304 · May 2012

DId you lurk at all??? Or read the blog?? I'm somewhat new here myself but I have found the ladies on this board supportive and uplifting. But I LURKED and READ THE BLOG before I intro'd. So I knew what I was supposed to do. And I have given support AND recieved support. It's a two-way street. All of us are hurting and don't want someone we don't know to ask if they are KU. Most of us have to deal with pregnant women we know and like (and some we don't like) and the last thing we need it to get on the board where we feel supported and have some chick intro and ask if she is KU.

Don't be dumb.

beachbum4304 · May 2012

minicheezburg:

kdahl15:
First off. I just wanted to thank those who had good advice/ideas of what may be going on with my body. Secondly, for those of you who feel the need to get onto internet websites, to beat people down because you hate your own life, screw you. These sites are meant for people wanting to feel safe to ask questions, or post concerns in a safe place. Some of you women are horrible and should really re-think what your write because it's down right mean and nasty and completely unneccasary. So get a life. But thank you again for those who had nice things to say. I was not asking if you could tell me if I was pregnant. I was simply stating my situation/concerns, and wondering if anyone else had been through anything else like this. That's it, plain and simple. Nothing rude, or disrespectful, or against anyone else. I wish the best of luck to those who deserve it. Have a safe and happy memorial weekend.

Seriously? Those who deserve it? So I guess you are deciding who deserves for things to work out? Give respect to get it. Give support to get it. It is a simple basic understanding of human nature. There are women here who have been drug through the mud and then kicked while they were down. That "rudeness" is just simply hurt women trying to understand why someone is just trying to use us or worse hurt us furthermore.

I also just read your "intro". Any OB will tell you it is pure miracle to get KU even within a year of being on Depo. I know I have been there. Secondly M/c makes your body do crazy things. Your description or feeling sick and tired is dumb to say the least. MANY things contribute to both those things.

Also just because your snatch is wet doesn't make you KU.

My advice read the damn blog. Start charting and stop assuming. If you apologize to these wonderful ladies they will accept you anf help you. Being rude and asking if you are KTFU is not going to help your case.

This cracked me up. And I love your siggy pics

beachbum4304 · May 2012

minicheezburg:

kdahl15:
First off. I just wanted to thank those who had good advice/ideas of what may be going on with my body. Secondly, for those of you who feel the need to get onto internet websites, to beat people down because you hate your own life, screw you. These sites are meant for people wanting to feel safe to ask questions, or post concerns in a safe place. Some of you women are horrible and should really re-think what your write because it's down right mean and nasty and completely unneccasary. So get a life. But thank you again for those who had nice things to say. I was not asking if you could tell me if I was pregnant. I was simply stating my situation/concerns, and wondering if anyone else had been through anything else like this. That's it, plain and simple. Nothing rude, or disrespectful, or against anyone else. I wish the best of luck to those who deserve it. Have a safe and happy memorial weekend.

Seriously? Those who deserve it? So I guess you are deciding who deserves for things to work out? Give respect to get it. Give support to get it. It is a simple basic understanding of human nature. There are women here who have been drug through the mud and then kicked while they were down. That "rudeness" is just simply hurt women trying to understand why someone is just trying to use us or worse hurt us furthermore.

I also just read your "intro". Any OB will tell you it is pure miracle to get KU even within a year of being on Depo. I know I have been there. Secondly M/c makes your body do crazy things. Your description or feeling sick and tired is dumb to say the least. MANY things contribute to both those things.

Also just because your snatch is wet doesn't make you KU.

My advice read the damn blog. Start charting and stop assuming. If you apologize to these wonderful ladies they will accept you anf help you. Being rude and asking if you are KTFU is not going to help your case.

This cracked me up. And I love your siggy pics

minicheezburg · May 2012

beachbum4304:
minicheezburg:

kdahl15:
First off. I just wanted to thank those who had good advice/ideas of what may be going on with my body. Secondly, for those of you who feel the need to get onto internet websites, to beat people down because you hate your own life, screw you. These sites are meant for people wanting to feel safe to ask questions, or post concerns in a safe place. Some of you women are horrible and should really re-think what your write because it's down right mean and nasty and completely unneccasary. So get a life. But thank you again for those who had nice things to say. I was not asking if you could tell me if I was pregnant. I was simply stating my situation/concerns, and wondering if anyone else had been through anything else like this. That's it, plain and simple. Nothing rude, or disrespectful, or against anyone else. I wish the best of luck to those who deserve it. Have a safe and happy memorial weekend.

Seriously? Those who deserve it? So I guess you are deciding who deserves for things to work out? Give respect to get it. Give support to get it. It is a simple basic understanding of human nature. There are women here who have been drug through the mud and then kicked while they were down. That "rudeness" is just simply hurt women trying to understand why someone is just trying to use us or worse hurt us furthermore.

I also just read your "intro". Any OB will tell you it is pure miracle to get KU even within a year of being on Depo. I know I have been there. Secondly M/c makes your body do crazy things. Your description or feeling sick and tired is dumb to say the least. MANY things contribute to both those things.

Also just because your snatch is wet doesn't make you KU.

My advice read the damn blog. Start charting and stop assuming. If you apologize to these wonderful ladies they will accept you anf help you. Being rude and asking if you are KTFU is not going to help your case.

This cracked me up. And I love your siggy pics

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